In re the Marriage of Olson

Court of Appeals of Iowa·Decided September 26, 2018·No. 17-1807·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 17-1807

Filed September 26, 2018

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF AMANDA RENAE OLSON AND BRIAN ALAN OLSON

Upon the Petition of AMANDA RENAE OLSON, n/k/a AMANDA RENAE REESE, Petitioner-Appellant,

And Concerning BRIAN ALAN OLSON, Respondent-Appellee.

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Pocahontas County, Kurt L. Wilke, Judge.

The petitioner appeals the district court’s denial of her application to modify the parties’ dissolution decree. AFFIRMED.

David H. Skilton of Cronin, Skilton & Skilton, PLLC, Charles City, for appellant.

Gregory J. Siemann of Green, Siemann & Greteman PLC, Carroll, for appellee.

Heard by Vogel, P.J., Tabor, J., and Blane, S.J.* *Senior judge assigned by order pursuant to Iowa Code section 602.9206 (2018).

VOGEL, Presiding Judge.

Amanda Reese asked the court to modify the physical-care and child-

support provisions of the decree dissolving her marriage to Brian Olson. Amanda’s petition alleged a substantial change in circumstances regarding the care and well- being of the children and a failure to communicate as changes since the entry of the decree. The district court denied Amanda’s petition. Because Amanda did not establish a basis for modification, we affirm.

I. Background Facts and Proceedings Brian and Amanda were married on August 16, 2003. The marriage produced three children, born in 2004, 2008, and 2011.

In February 2016, the parties filed a joint stipulation and property settlement that the court approved and incorporated into the decree. The parties agreed they would have joint legal custody and joint physical care of the children. Brian agreed to pay child support of $500 per month for the three children and to maintain paying insurance premiums for them.

On November 10, 2016, Amanda filed a petition requesting modification of the physical-care and child-support provisions of the dissolution decree. She claimed there had been a substantial change in circumstances regarding the care and well-being of the children and a failure to communicate with Brian. Brian responded by denying Amanda’s claims and asserting there had been no material change in circumstances as the parties had been able to communicate effectively.

A hearing was held on June 28, June 29, and July 26, 2017. As to parenting authority, Amanda testified she was undermined by Brian buying things for the children, such as cell phones, to keep them quiet and to alienate them from her.

Brian testified that despite some parenting differences, he and Amanda communicated well and Amanda also communicated well with Katie Olson, the children’s former babysitter and Brian’s new wife.

The district court denied the request to modify the physical care and child support provisions of the dissolution decree. Amanda appeals.

II. Standard of Review We review the modification of a dissolution decree de novo. In re Marriage of Wessels, 542 N.W.2d 486, 490 (Iowa 1995). However, we will not disturb the district court’s conclusion unless there has been a failure to do equity. Id.

III. Joint Physical Care Amanda contends the district court should have modified the decree to grant her physical care of the children due to Brian’s attempt to alienate the children from her. Amanda asserts Brian attempted to do so by buying them gifts to “keep them quiet.” She also cited Brian’s failure to communicate with her and his failure in not offering her additional time with the children when he is working or unable to care for them. Amanda also asserts she can provide superior care for the children.

A party seeking modification of a decree’s physical care provision must: (1)

prove by a preponderance of the evidence a substantial change in circumstances occurred after the decree was entered and (2) prove a superior ability to minister to the needs of the children. In re Marriage of Harris, 877 N.W.2d 434, 440 (Iowa 2016). “The changed circumstances affecting the welfare of children and justifying modification of a decree ‘must not have been contemplated by the court when the decree was entered, and they must be more or less permanent, not temporary.’”

Id. (quoting In re Marriage of Frederici, 338 N.W.2d 156, 158 (Iowa 1983)). “The party seeking to modify a dissolution decree thus faces a heavy burden, because once custody of a child has been fixed, ‘it should be disturbed only for the most cogent reasons.’” Id. (quoting Frederici, 338 N.W.2d at 158). The controlling consideration is the best interests of the child. In re Marriage of Thielges, 623 N.W.2d 232, 235–36 (Iowa Ct. App. 2000).

Amanda first contends there had been a substantial change in circumstances related to the parties’ communication and Brian’s attempts to alienate the children from her. The district court addressed Amanda’s concerns and held:

The many exhibits of text messages between the parties in the present case show an ability to communicate on a regular basis regarding the children. The fact that the parties sometimes disagree on things does not, in itself, rise to the level of a substantial change in circumstances. . . . After all, the parties have had disagreements on topics such as disciplining their children since pre-dissolution, which was contemplated by the parties and the court in the stipulation and incorporation of the stipulation into the decree, respectively.

We agree with this assessment. The record shows that while there is some tension between the parties, there is also civil communication and cooperation between Amanda, Brian, and Katie as to the children’s welfare and many activities. C.f. Harris, 877 N.W.2d at 441 (stating the parties were “unable to communicate civilly in person” and “their animosity toward each other [was] not lost on the children”).

The district court also addressed Amanda’s concerns about Brian’s remarriage to Katie, the parties’ former babysitter, stating:

Brian remarried on March 2, 2017, after being in a relationship with his new wife, Katie, preceding entry of the dissolution decree. Katie and Amanda were well acquainted prior to the remarriage, because Amanda had hired Katie as the children’s daycare provider prior to filing for divorce. Again, looking to the exhibits of text messages offered by both parties, Amanda and Katie have an open and productive line of communication about the care of the children. In this instance, the remarriage would have been contemplated at the time of the dissolution, as Brian and Katie were already in a relationship, and thus, no substantial change in circumstances that could not be contemplated by the parties or the court.

There is sufficient evidence that these issues were present at the time of the original dissolution decree. See Frederici, 338 N.W.2d at 158 (explaining that the changed circumstances must not have been contemplated by the court when the decree was entered). The parties still live relatively close to one another.1 Brian continues to work as a farmer and keeps somewhat the same hours he did when the parties were married. A major issue on appeal is Amanda not receiving additional time with the children when Brian is working. The parties agreed to offer more time to one another before finding a babysitter. The district court noted that when Brian is working out in the field, the children are normally with Katie during these times and not with a babysitter. Although Amanda objected to the children being with their stepmother, the district court did not find this to be contrary to the parties’ agreement.

We agree with the district court Amanda has not carried her heavy burden of showing a substantial change in circumstances such that the present joint physical care arrangement should be altered. We affirm the district court’s

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