In re the Marriage of: Monica S. Yoldash n/k/a Monica S. Orta v. Ibrahim E. Yoldash

CourtIndiana Court of Appeals
DecidedJuly 18, 2014
Docket45A03-1308-DR-324
StatusUnpublished

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Pursuant to Ind.Appellate Rule 65(D), this Memorandum Decision shall not be regarded as precedent or cited before any Jul 18 2014, 8:57 am court except for the purpose of establishing the defense of res judicata, collateral estoppel, or the law of the case.

ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT: ATTORNEY FOR APPELLEE: TERESA K. HOLLANDSWORTH DOUG A. BERNACCHI R. BRIAN WOODWARD Michigan City, Indiana Woodward & Blaskovich, LLP Merrillville, Indiana

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF: ) ) MONICA S. YOLDASH n/k/a MONICA S. ORTA, ) ) Appellant-Petitioner, ) ) vs. ) No. 45A03-1308-DR-324 ) IBRAHIM E. YOLDASH, ) ) Appellee-Respondent. )

APPEAL FROM THE LAKE CIRCUIT COURT The Honorable George C. Paras, Judge Cause No. 45C01-0907-DR-574

July 18, 2014

MEMORANDUM DECISION – NOT FOR PUBLICATION

RILEY, Judge STATEMENT OF THE CASE

Appellant-Petitioner, Monica S. Yoldash (Monica), appeals the trial court’s

Dissolution Decree, dissolving her marriage to Appellee-Respondent, Ibrahim E. Yoldash

(Ibrahim).

We affirm.

ISSUES

Monica raises three issues on appeal, which we restate as:

(1) Whether the trial court abused its discretion by denying Monica’s motion for a

change of judge;

(2) Whether the trial court erred by granting custody of the parties’ minor child to

Ibrahim; and

(3) Whether the trial court abused its discretion in its division of the marital estate.

FACTS AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY

Ibrahim and Monica were married on June 6, 1998. For a year-and-a-half, Ibrahim

and Monica lived with Monica’s parents in Mexico, where she was born. Throughout the

remainder of their marriage, they lived in Merrillville, Lake County, Indiana. Ibrahim is

an adjunct professor at Indiana University Northwest in Gary, Indiana, and Monica teaches

parenting skills through the Early Head Start program in Plymouth, Indiana.

By their eighth anniversary, Ibrahim and Monica were experiencing marital

problems. Despite their discord and Ibrahim’s unwillingness to bring a child into an

unstable marriage, Monica desired a baby. On January 29, 2007, Monica gave birth to the

parties’ only child together, a daughter, S.Y. (Child). The parties agree that for the first

2 three months of the Child’s life, Monica was the primary caregiver. Thereafter, there is

very little consensus between Ibrahim and Monica regarding any issues involving the

Child. As Monica explained, Ibrahim had no interest in helping with their newborn baby;

following the expiration of her maternity leave, Monica took the Child to work with her

and hired a babysitter for a few months. Then, when the Child was about nine months old,

Monica quit her job to be a stay-at-home mom. In stark contrast, Ibrahim asserts that he

has been the Child’s primary caregiver ever since Monica returned to work. Because he

teaches only a few classes each week, Ibrahim explained that his family members assisted

with the Child’s care when needed.

On December 5, 2007, Ibrahim drove Monica and their ten-month-old Child to the

airport so that she could take the Child to see her family in Mexico for the holidays. Several

weeks later, Ibrahim discovered Monica’s flight itinerary in their joint email account,

which revealed that Monica did not plan to return to Indiana for four months. Monica

maintained phone contact with Ibrahim while in Mexico, but Ibrahim became concerned

when Monica indicated her intent to remain there with the Child. After also finding

applications for the Child’s long-form birth certificate and for Mexican nationalization,

Ibrahim contacted the Center for Missing and Exploited Children. Monica returned with

the Child voluntarily on March 26, 2008.

On January 21, 2009, Ibrahim filed a petition for a protective order, alleging that

Monica had, on several occasions, thrown various objects at him, even when he had been

holding the Child, and that she had threatened his life. Ibrahim also explained that he was

requesting the protective order based on Monica’s repeated threats to take the Child to

3 Mexico. The trial court denied his petition. However, five days later, Ibrahim filed a

similar petition with a different court in Lake County. On the Child’s second birthday, this

trial court issued the protective order to Ibrahim, which required Monica to immediately

vacate the marital residence and leave the Child with Ibrahim.

Following Monica’s removal from the marital residence, she saw the Child several

times per week at the home of Ibrahim’s mother. Eventually, Monica moved to Chicago,

Illinois, to live with her boyfriend, Timothy (Timothy). Monica drove back and forth from

Chicago several times per week in order to see the Child. After six months of separation,

on July 23, 2009, Monica filed a petition to dissolve the marriage.

On August 20, 2009, the trial court referred the parties to the Domestic Relations

Counseling Bureau, and at a hearing on August 28, 2009, the parties informed the trial

court that they had reached an agreement regarding provisional matters. On September 25,

2009, the trial court adopted the parties’ Provisional Order, which provided that Ibrahim

and Monica would share joint legal custody of the Child, with Ibrahim having primary

physical custody. The parties agreed that Ibrahim would retain the marital residence, and

Monica would have non-overnight parenting time with the Child three days per week. Also

pursuant to the Provisional Order, Ibrahim dismissed the protective order in force against

Monica.

On October 14, 2009, less than a month after its issuance, Ibrahim filed a motion to

modify the Provisional Order. In support of his motion, Ibrahim argued that Timothy

always accompanied Monica for her parenting time, which was confusing to the Child; that

Timothy had threatened him; and that Monica’s perpetual tardiness in picking up the Child

4 was causing him to be late for work. The trial court appointed a guardian ad litem (GAL)

on December 3, 2009, but before the trial court could conduct a hearing on Ibrahim’s

motion, Ibrahim filed an emergency petition on December 14, 2009, to suspend Monica’s

parenting time. In his emergency petition, Ibrahim alleged that the Child stated that

Timothy had touched her genital area. Ibrahim took the Child to the emergency room, and

the Child repeated her allegations to hospital personnel. A physical exam revealed

abrasions on the Child’s labia, but there was no evidence of penetration and the abrasions

were insufficient to substantiate the molestation.

In response to the allegation, Monica and Timothy contacted the Illinois Department

of Children and Family Services and reported that the Child had recanted her statement

against Timothy. Additionally, Monica submitted a video-recording in which the Child

made similar accusations against Ibrahim. In the video, Monica is heard prompting the

Child into stating “that [Ibrahim] hit her and pointed to her vaginal area. ‘And with what’?

And her answer was, ‘With his little body[.]’” (Transcript p. 587). The Indiana

Department of Child Services (DCS) investigated, and the Child denied that Ibrahim had

ever harmed her, instead explaining that Monica had instructed her to say those things. In

light of both parties’ unsubstantiated claims, DCS warned Ibrahim and Monica that the

Child would be taken into DCS custody if they did not cease making unfounded

accusations.

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