In re the Marriage of: Monica S. Yoldash n/k/a Monica S. Orta v. Ibrahim E. Yoldash

Indiana Court of Appeals·Decided July 18, 2014·No. 45A03-1308-DR-324·Unpublished

Opinion

Pursuant to Ind.Appellate Rule 65(D), this Memorandum Decision shall not be regarded as precedent or cited before any Jul 18 2014, 8:57 am

court except for the purpose of establishing the defense of res judicata, collateral estoppel, or the law of the case.

ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT: ATTORNEY FOR APPELLEE: TERESA K. HOLLANDSWORTH DOUG A. BERNACCHI R. BRIAN WOODWARD Michigan City, Indiana Woodward & Blaskovich, LLP Merrillville, Indiana

IN THE

COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF: )

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MONICA S. YOLDASH n/k/a MONICA S. ORTA, )

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Appellant-Petitioner, )

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vs. ) No. 45A03-1308-DR-324 )

IBRAHIM E. YOLDASH, )

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Appellee-Respondent. )

APPEAL FROM THE LAKE CIRCUIT COURT The Honorable George C. Paras, Judge Cause No. 45C01-0907-DR-574

July 18, 2014

MEMORANDUM DECISION – NOT FOR PUBLICATION RILEY, Judge

STATEMENT OF THE CASE

Appellant-Petitioner, Monica S. Yoldash (Monica), appeals the trial court’s Dissolution Decree, dissolving her marriage to Appellee-Respondent, Ibrahim E. Yoldash (Ibrahim).

We affirm.

ISSUES

Monica raises three issues on appeal, which we restate as:

(1) Whether the trial court abused its discretion by denying Monica’s motion for a change of judge;

(2) Whether the trial court erred by granting custody of the parties’ minor child to Ibrahim; and

(3) Whether the trial court abused its discretion in its division of the marital estate.

FACTS AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY Ibrahim and Monica were married on June 6, 1998. For a year-and-a-half, Ibrahim and Monica lived with Monica’s parents in Mexico, where she was born. Throughout the remainder of their marriage, they lived in Merrillville, Lake County, Indiana. Ibrahim is an adjunct professor at Indiana University Northwest in Gary, Indiana, and Monica teaches parenting skills through the Early Head Start program in Plymouth, Indiana.

By their eighth anniversary, Ibrahim and Monica were experiencing marital problems. Despite their discord and Ibrahim’s unwillingness to bring a child into an unstable marriage, Monica desired a baby. On January 29, 2007, Monica gave birth to the parties’ only child together, a daughter, S.Y. (Child). The parties agree that for the first

three months of the Child’s life, Monica was the primary caregiver. Thereafter, there is very little consensus between Ibrahim and Monica regarding any issues involving the Child. As Monica explained, Ibrahim had no interest in helping with their newborn baby; following the expiration of her maternity leave, Monica took the Child to work with her and hired a babysitter for a few months. Then, when the Child was about nine months old, Monica quit her job to be a stay-at-home mom. In stark contrast, Ibrahim asserts that he has been the Child’s primary caregiver ever since Monica returned to work. Because he teaches only a few classes each week, Ibrahim explained that his family members assisted with the Child’s care when needed.

On December 5, 2007, Ibrahim drove Monica and their ten-month-old Child to the airport so that she could take the Child to see her family in Mexico for the holidays. Several weeks later, Ibrahim discovered Monica’s flight itinerary in their joint email account, which revealed that Monica did not plan to return to Indiana for four months. Monica maintained phone contact with Ibrahim while in Mexico, but Ibrahim became concerned when Monica indicated her intent to remain there with the Child. After also finding applications for the Child’s long-form birth certificate and for Mexican nationalization, Ibrahim contacted the Center for Missing and Exploited Children. Monica returned with the Child voluntarily on March 26, 2008.

On January 21, 2009, Ibrahim filed a petition for a protective order, alleging that Monica had, on several occasions, thrown various objects at him, even when he had been holding the Child, and that she had threatened his life. Ibrahim also explained that he was requesting the protective order based on Monica’s repeated threats to take the Child to

Mexico. The trial court denied his petition. However, five days later, Ibrahim filed a similar petition with a different court in Lake County. On the Child’s second birthday, this trial court issued the protective order to Ibrahim, which required Monica to immediately vacate the marital residence and leave the Child with Ibrahim.

Following Monica’s removal from the marital residence, she saw the Child several times per week at the home of Ibrahim’s mother. Eventually, Monica moved to Chicago, Illinois, to live with her boyfriend, Timothy (Timothy). Monica drove back and forth from Chicago several times per week in order to see the Child. After six months of separation, on July 23, 2009, Monica filed a petition to dissolve the marriage.

On August 20, 2009, the trial court referred the parties to the Domestic Relations Counseling Bureau, and at a hearing on August 28, 2009, the parties informed the trial court that they had reached an agreement regarding provisional matters. On September 25, 2009, the trial court adopted the parties’ Provisional Order, which provided that Ibrahim and Monica would share joint legal custody of the Child, with Ibrahim having primary physical custody. The parties agreed that Ibrahim would retain the marital residence, and Monica would have non-overnight parenting time with the Child three days per week. Also pursuant to the Provisional Order, Ibrahim dismissed the protective order in force against Monica.

On October 14, 2009, less than a month after its issuance, Ibrahim filed a motion to modify the Provisional Order. In support of his motion, Ibrahim argued that Timothy always accompanied Monica for her parenting time, which was confusing to the Child; that Timothy had threatened him; and that Monica’s perpetual tardiness in picking up the Child

was causing him to be late for work. The trial court appointed a guardian ad litem (GAL) on December 3, 2009, but before the trial court could conduct a hearing on Ibrahim’s motion, Ibrahim filed an emergency petition on December 14, 2009, to suspend Monica’s parenting time. In his emergency petition, Ibrahim alleged that the Child stated that Timothy had touched her genital area. Ibrahim took the Child to the emergency room, and the Child repeated her allegations to hospital personnel. A physical exam revealed abrasions on the Child’s labia, but there was no evidence of penetration and the abrasions were insufficient to substantiate the molestation.

In response to the allegation, Monica and Timothy contacted the Illinois Department of Children and Family Services and reported that the Child had recanted her statement against Timothy. Additionally, Monica submitted a video-recording in which the Child made similar accusations against Ibrahim. In the video, Monica is heard prompting the Child into stating “that [Ibrahim] hit her and pointed to her vaginal area. ‘And with what’? And her answer was, ‘With his little body[.]’” (Transcript p. 587). The Indiana Department of Child Services (DCS) investigated, and the Child denied that Ibrahim had ever harmed her, instead explaining that Monica had instructed her to say those things. In light of both parties’ unsubstantiated claims, DCS warned Ibrahim and Monica that the Child would be taken into DCS custody if they did not cease making unfounded accusations.

After a hearing on December 29, 2009, the trial court adopted the GAL’s recommendation that Ibrahim should have primary physical custody, with Monica having supervised parenting time. Timothy was ordered to have no contact with the Child.

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