In Re the Marriage of Misty Dawn Tucker and Nicholas David Tucker Upon the Petition of Misty Dawn Tucker, N/K/A Misty Dawn Stuart, petitioner-appellee/cross-appellant, and Concerning Nicholas David Tucker, respondent-appellant/cross-appellee.

Court of Appeals of Iowa·Decided February 10, 2016·No. 15-0973·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 15-0973

Filed February 10, 2016

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF MISTY DAWN TUCKER AND NICHOLAS DAVID TUCKER

Upon the Petition of MISTY DAWN TUCKER, n/k/a MISTY DAWN STUART, Petitioner-Appellee/Cross-Appellant,

And Concerning NICHOLAS DAVID TUCKER, Respondent-Appellant/Cross-Appellee.

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Mahaska County, Daniel P. Wilson, Judge.

A father appeals the district court’s grant of physical care of the parties’

two children to the mother, and the mother cross-appeals. AFFIRMED ON APPEAL; MODIFIED ON CROSS-APPEAL.

Diane Crookham-Johnson of Crookham-Johnson Law Office, P.L.L.C., Oskaloosa, and Philip J. De Koster of De Koster & De Koster, P.L.L.C., Hull, for appellant/cross-appellee.

Heidi Young of Parrish, Kruidenier, Dunn, Boles, Gribble, Gentry, Brown & Bergmann, L.L.P., Des Moines, for appellee/cross-appellant.

Heard by Tabor, P.J., and Bower and McDonald, JJ.

BOWER, Judge.

The May 2015 dissolution decree entered for Nicholas and Misty Tucker 1 provided they would have joint legal custody and Misty would provide the physical care for their two children. Nicholas appeals and seeks physical care. Misty cross-appeals and challenges Nicholas’s receipt of (1) both children’s tax exemptions and (2) a child-support offset based on one child’s supplemental security income (SSI). Because we agree with the court’s determination the children’s best interests will be served by continuing physical care with their historical caregiver, Misty, we affirm the court’s ruling on physical care. On Misty’s cross-appeal, we modify the court’s ruling so that each parent claims one child for a dependency tax exemption. We also modify the court’s ruling on child support by striking the offset to Nicholas’s support obligation. I. Background Facts and Proceedings Misty and Nicholas, both in their thirties, started dating in 2002 and were married in 2005. They are the parents of H.T., age nine and one-half, and K.T., age five and one-half. The children have a close sibling relationship. K.T. was born deaf and underwent cochlear implant surgery on one ear in 2011, age three years and three months, and on the other ear in 2013, age four years and eight months. K.T. is able to hear when he wears the cochlear-implant devices (CIs).2

1 Misty is now using her maiden name and is known as Misty Stuart.

2 Nicholas described the CIs:

The [outside piece] has the battery, the processor, cable, and the head piece. We’ve had a lot of trouble with the cables when he’s had issues at school, things like that. That’s typically because it’s a regular wire so it gets damaged very easily. And sometimes we’ve had issues with a

If K.T. is not wearing the CIs, he cannot hear and uses sign language. Both Nicholas and Misty can communicate with K.T. using sign language. Nicholas testified he is able to use sign language to “calm [K.T.] down and give him that sense of communication with him enough to calm him down.” Misty has three relatives who are profoundly deaf, and she works with them on developing her own skills in sign language.

Shortly after K.T.’s first surgery in 2011, Misty took him to see speech therapist Kim Swartz; those appointments are ongoing. It is undisputed, based on K.T.’s age when he received the implants, he is developmentally on track. He currently communicates at approximately a two-year-old level because he has had access to sound in order to learn and develop speech and language skills for two years. K.T.’s communication skills are expected to “catch up to” his hearing- age peers at age nine or ten. K.T. has no I.Q. issues, and professionals opine he will be successful in a general-education classroom if his communication skills continue to improve. Nicholas testified the teachers who have worked with K.T. have all “said he’s a very bright, happy kid.”

For three years, K.T. has attended day care and then preschool at Eddyville schools. Both parents attend K.T.’s conferences and his annual individual education plan (IEP) meetings. In the classroom, K.T. has had frequent and sometimes violent outbursts. About six weeks before the April 2015

couple processors that just weren’t working for some reason, probably got jarred or something from being thrown, and I’ve had trouble with the ear hooks as well because of their design. There’s a weak spot that they’ve been broken several times.

dissolution trial, K.T.’s long-term medical care provider placed him on medication for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). Misty believes the medication has been decreasing K.T.’s “acting out” behaviors—he is not “throwing and hitting things now.” Nicholas testified K.T.’s behavior has “gotten better since he’s been on the medicine” but his behavior is still problematic if his wearing of the CIs is “inconsistent.” Nicholas does not believe K.T. should be medicated and is concerned about K.T. being labeled a problem child.

The parties separated, and Misty and the children started living with her parents in November 2013. When Misty moved out, Nicholas was working in Cedar Rapids and saw the children about once a week. Misty was frustrated that Nicholas did not see the children more often on the days he was not working. From November 2013 to May 2014, Misty took care of the children, and Nicholas occasionally watched them but provided no financial support to Misty.

In May of 2014, Nicholas took a new job in a new location. He then would call Misty and tell her the days and nights he would be taking the kids based on the days he had off from work; again, there was no regular schedule. Nicholas would pull the children out of daycare on his days off. Misty paid the daycare bills despite Nicholas’s agreement to pay half.

Nicholas currently lives with his girlfriend, Tanya, and one of Tanya’s three children in the two-bedroom marital home. Nicholas and Misty had been buying the house on contract, and the owners forfeited the contract for nonpayment. Nicholas now pays rent to the same owners and believes there is a possibility he could again contract to buy the home.

Misty and Nicholas both drank during their relationship, and Misty has had issues with alcohol abuse. At trial Misty stated she had one a drink on January 1, 2015, and prior to that she had a drink on July 26, 2014. When the parties were together, Misty observed Nicholas being violent when he was drinking. Nicholas testified his drinking has “gone in spurts” and the heaviest drinking he has done since the children were born was no more than six beers at night for “maybe five or six days in a month.”

After Nicolas and Misty separated, on two occasions Nicholas and Tanya used Tanya’s brother, Tony Jr., as a babysitter, and the children spent the night at his house. According to Nicholas, both overnights occurred before the family learned of Tony Jr.’s pending criminal charges for third-degree sexual abuse of a young, female teenager. At trial, Misty expressed concern about Tony Jr. being around H.T. The children’s guardian ad litem also expressed concerns in this regard. Nicholas testified the children have not stayed with Tony Jr. after the charges and the only post-charge occasion in which H.T. was at Tony Jr.’s house was when H.T. got her hair done for a dance. On that occasion, Tony Jr. and Nicholas remained outside the house the whole time.

Misty testified she began abusing prescription medications after she was sexually assaulted in 2011 and also testified she has been sober from narcotic abuse since July 2012 (approximately three years before the April 2015 trial). She regularly attends NA/AA meetings and has a sponsor. Misty smokes cigarettes in her bedroom at home and in the car.

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