In re the Marriage of Lilly
Opinion
Appellant-husband, petitioner below, appeals from that portion of the court’s decree which awarded the custody of the now three and one-half year old minor son of the parties to the respondent-wife.
There is no issue concerning property nor the $100 per month child support award granted to the wife. Nor, in contrast to the great majority of cases such as this, are there any allegations that either of the parties is other than a devoted, concerned and competent parent.
It is worth noting that the principal difficulty between the parties is their approach to their respective religions. The father, a Conscientious Objector who served two years in approved service in lieu of military service, is deeply involved with and firmly committed to the Youth for Christ program. The mother is a Catholic, although apparently not a particularly strong adherent of that faith. During the period of adjustment following the separation of the parties, the mother first had custody of the little boy, but when she first obtained employment as a dental assistant on a full-time basis she placed the child with her husband. He was also employed full time in a responsible position with the State Parks Department. Even during this period the parties sought to work out an amicable and effective manner of looking after the child.
When the wife was able to establish a reasonably sound economic foundation and living arangement, she sought to retake the custody of the boy from her husband. He responded by filing this petition for dissolution of marriage and obtaining temporary custody of the child. Problems primarily having their root in the religious convictions of the father, and the mother’s emotional reaction thereto, resulted in [699] a less-than-happy exercise of visitation rights during this period.
At the conclusion of the trial the court ordered a social investigation to be made. This was consented to by both parties and, by agreement, received into evidence after examination by both parties.
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