In Re: The Marriage of J.J. v. D.J., Respondent-Respondent
Opinion
Missouri Court of Appeals Southern District
In Division
In Re: The Marriage Of )
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J.J, )
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Petitioner-Appellant, )
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v. ) No. SD38576 )
) Filed: March 27, 2025 D.J., )
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Respondent-Respondent. )
APPEAL FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF CARTER COUNTY Honorable Steven F. Lynxwiler, Judge AFFIRMED Following a bench trial, J.J. (“Mother”) appeals the trial court’s judgment denying her Motion to Modify, in which she sought joint legal and sole physical custody of the parties’ minor child (“Child”). Mother argues the trial court erred because its §452.375.2 analysis was “flawed, incomplete, and wholly inadequate,” in that it considered “touching incidents” at Child’s school outside of the §452.375.2(1)-(8) factors. Mother contends that these incidents should have been discussed under §452.375.2(5) and (6). 1 Because the trial court committed no error, we affirm.
1 Unless otherwise indicated, all statutory references are to RSMo 2016 as amended through April 24, 2024, the date of the trial.
Facts
Child was born in February of 2014 to Mother and D.J. (“Father”). In April of 2018, a Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage granted Mother and Father joint legal and physical custody of Child and scheduled equal visitation time. Father’s residence in the Ellsinore area was designated as Child’s primary residence for mailing and education purposes, and Mother and Father agreed that Father’s parents, who lived nearby, would babysit Child.
In March of 2021, Mother relocated to Marble Hill, Missouri, 64 miles from Child’s primary residence in the Ellsinore area, and she sent Father a relocation letter pursuant to §452.377. Father filed a motion opposing the relocation and Mother failed to respond, extinguishing her relocation request. Mother then filed a Motion to Modify, alleging continuous and substantial changes and requesting sole physical custody of Child.
A bench trial was held on June 9, 2023. Mother testified that she wanted to relocate Child because she wanted to live with her boyfriend in Marble Hill. Mother also testified that Child had been “inappropriately touched” at school on two occasions. The first incident happened on the school bus, after which the offending child was removed from the bus. The second incident occurred in a classroom involving a different student.
Father acknowledged the touching incidents but testified that Child wished to remain at his school. Father submitted a letter from Child’s teacher, K.S., in which K.S. stated that she spoke with Child and that Child wanted to remain at his current school and visit Mother every other weekend. All of Child’s friends attended his current school, where Child was excited to play baseball and basketball. Child’s Guardian ad Litem testified, “Based on my interview with both parents and with [Child], I feel it’s in [Child]’ s best interest to reside with his father, go to [his current school].”
On April 4, 2024, the trial court denied Mother’s Motion to Modify. In its Judgment of Modification, the trial court included written findings of fact and conclusions of law pursuant to §452.375.2:
FACTOR 1: The wishes of the child’s parents as to custody and proposed parenting plans submitted by both parties. Mother’s Parenting Plan would uproot the minor child from the home he has known since birth, the school he has attended for the last four years, and all of his childhood friends. It would move him to a different county and different school. Whereas. [sic] Father’s Parenting Plan maintains the status quo of home and school. Therefore, this factor heavily favors Father.
FACTOR 2: The needs of the child for frequent, continuing, and meaningful relationship with both parents and the ability and willingness of the parents to perform their functions as mother and father for the needs of the child.
Both Parenting Plans give the parents a frequent, meaningful, and continuing relationship with the child. It is only due to Mother’s unauthorized relocation to another town in a different county that has caused Mother to not exercise her custody during the school year. Therefore, this factor favors neither party.
FACTOR 3: The interaction and relationship of the child with the parties, siblings, or other persons who may significantly affect the child’s best interests. Father has an unbreakable bond with the minor child, and the minor child enjoys being around Father’s extended family which consists of numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents. The minor child spends considerable time with the Father’s parents. It was the testimony that both Mother and Father wanted Father’s parents to act as babysitters, and this arrangement was acceptable until Mother relocated to the Glen Allen/Marble Hill area. Whereas Mother’s home consists of her paramour and paramour’s fifteen-year-old son with no family members other than Mother. Therefore, this factor favors Father.
FACTOR 4: Which parent is more likely to allow the child frequent, continuing, and meaningful contact with the other parent. Once again, Father’s Parenting Plan is well suited for the child during the school year as it was Mother who relocated to the Glen Allen/Marble Hill area without following the statutory requirements. Thus, the distance in driving that Mother complains about is all a direct result of Mother’s move. Mother’s Parenting Plan would require Father to drive back and forth between his home in Grandin and the home of Mother’s paramour, or the Woodland school, only and solely because Mother chose to relocate. Therefore, this factor favors Father.
FACTOR 5: The child’s adjustment to home, school, and community. The child is very well adjusted to his home, school and community in the Grandin/Ellsinore area. The child loves to play with his friends and even insisted
on riding the school bus so he can be with his friends. The child is thriving at the East Carter school where he is happy and has many friends. Whereas there was no evidence concerning the proposed Woodland school from Mother. Mother could identify no children that would be in the same class as the child if the child was put in Woodland school. Therefore, this factor heavily favors Father.
FACTOR 6: The mental and physical health of all individuals involved, including any history of abuse. There was no evidence or testimony with regard to any physical or mental health nor domestic violence by either party. Therefore, this is not a factor and doesn’t favor either party.
FACTOR 7: The intention of either party to [re]locate the principal residence of the child. Father has lived in the same home with the minor child since the date of the child’s birth. Mother has relocated at least three times, all without proper notice, and is presently living with her paramour with no legal recourse if the paramour was to force her out at any time. Therefore, this factor favors Father.
FACTOR 8: The wishes of the child. The Guardian Ad Litem spoke to the minor child, and the child indicated that he wanted to keep attending school at Ellsinore. The child’s third grade teacher, in Exhibit 4, indicated that the child wanted to spend every other weekend with the Mother. Father testified that the child only wanted to spend every other weekend with Mother. Therefore, this factor favors Father.
(Factors altered in bold).
The touching incidents were not discussed under the trial court’s §452.375.2 analysis, but in the paragraph immediately following:
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