In Re the Marriage of Jerome

378 N.W.2d 302, 1985 Iowa App. LEXIS 1530
CourtCourt of Appeals of Iowa
DecidedAugust 29, 1985
Docket85-150
StatusPublished
Cited by29 cases

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In Re the Marriage of Jerome, 378 N.W.2d 302, 1985 Iowa App. LEXIS 1530 (iowactapp 1985).

Opinion

SACKETT, Judge.

The marriage of Christine and Gerald Jerome was dissolved in 1982. Custody of the four children, Melanie born in 1974, Isaac born in 1975, Emily born in 1978, and Seth born in 1980, was granted to Gerald. The decree further provided Gerald was not to move from the State of Iowa prior to October 1, 1991, unless such move was agreed upon between the parties. Christine was given reasonable visitation of not less than every weekend from 8 p.m. Saturday to 8 p.m. Sunday, except one weekend per month when visitation was to commence Sunday morning, and six weeks in the summer. The decree reserved the matter of Christine’s support but contained no current order for Christine to pay support.

Gerald is a dry-waller. He found employment in the Linn County area difficult after the dissolution and has been forced to take employment away from the Linn County area including a job in Colorado.

The job in Colorado appeared to precipitate the filing by Christine in May of 1984 of an application to modify the decree. She requested joint custody and asked that she be given physical care. Subsequently, Gerald filed an application for modification asking that the decree be modified to permit him to move with the children to Colorado.

After trial, the court found that Christine had failed to show she could more effectively minister to the children’s best interests. The decree was modified to provide *304 for joint custody. 1 Physical care was to remain with Gerald. The court denied Gerald’s application to modify the provision to prevent him from leaving the state. Gerald appeals and Christine cross-appealed.

I.

We will first address Christine’s cross-appeal. Christine contends she should have been awarded physical care of the children. Since the decree, the children have been cared for by Gerald with the assistance of his grandmother. The trial court determined he has done a good job. The children are well adjusted and have a close relationship with their father. They are doing well in school. Gerald has not remarried. Gerald admittedly has not had a lot of recreation time with the children because of his work schedule and Christine’s weekend visitations. Aside from some clothing purchases and weekend meals, Gerald has borne the full financial responsibility of the children. The financial burden has been heavy.

Christine has remarried twice since the dissolution. She and her third husband apparently have a good relationship and his daughter resides in their home. Christine had numerous problems prior to and after the dissolution but contends that she now has her life in order.

We agree with the trial court that Christine has failed to prove that she has the ability to minister more effectively to the children’s well-being. Christine has the burden to show by the preponderance of evidence that conditions since the dissolution decree was entered have so materially and substantially changed that the children’s best interests make it expedient to award custody to her. She has failed to satisfy this burden. We affirm the trial court in its refusal to transfer physical care to Christine.

II.

We next address Gerald’s appeal. He claims he should be allowed to move with the children to Colorado. The language of the original decree limits Gerald to keeping the children in the state and allows a move only if Christine consents. The original decree approved the parties’ stipulation wherein Gerald had agreed to this restriction. Christine has not consented to the children moving to Colorado. Gerald is seeking to modify the decree to allow him to take the children out of Iowa.

The Iowa Supreme Court has recognized that when a decree is silent regarding removal of children from the state, an order restraining removal modifies the decree. See In Re Marriage of Lower, 269 N.W.2d 822, 826 (Iowa 1978). Pursuant to the usual modification standard, the burden is on the party resisting removal to demonstrate that the move will detrimentally affect the children’s best interests. In Re Marriage of Frederici, 338 N.W.2d 156, 159 (Iowa 1983). In Frederici, the Iowa court extended the same burden to a parent having joint custody but not physical care. Id. at 160.

This case differs, however, because Gerald agreed by stipulation and the approving *305 decree provides that the children shall not leave the state without Christine’s permission. We recognize Gerald’s financial plight. The money necessary to support four growing children is considerable. The trial court did order Christine to start paying $15 per week per child as child support which, if paid, will give Gerald some financial relief.

In the case of In Re Marriage of Deck, 342 N.W.2d 892, 895 (Iowa App.1983), we considered modification of a decree which provided the custodial parent could not take the child out of Woodbury County except for brief stays without court approval and said:

We do not believe a parent granted custody should be prevented from moving to another jurisdiction where the decree merely requires court approval for the move unless there is a specific showing that the move would be against the child’s best interests.

In Deck, we approved a move by a custodial parent from Sioux City to Omaha where she had found permanent employment. Id.

Because of the language in the decree, we determine as did the trial court that Gerald bears the burden of proving a change of circumstances so as to justify a modification of the decree. The net effect of a modification to Christine will be to limit her access to the children and modify her visitation. The real issue here, therefore, is one of visitation as opposed to a custodial change. To justify a change of visitation, the petitioner must show there has been a change of circumstances since the divorce decree. However, the burden in a modification of visitation rights is different from the burden in a child custody change. Generally, a much less extensive change of circumstances need be shown in visitation right cases. Donovan v. Donovan, 212 N.W.2d 451, 453 (Iowa 1973).

Currently, Gerald lives with the children in Alburnett. Christine and her third husband live in Cedar Rapids. The parties are in close proximity, and visitation is easily accomplished. The visitation provisions in the decree are liberal and the evidence indicates Christine has been able to exercise these rights. It is commendable that the children have maintained contact with both parents. 2 The Iowa courts have long recognized the need for a child of divorce to maintain meaningful relations with both parents. In Re Marriage of Leyda, 355 N.W.2d 862, 867 (Iowa 1984).

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