In Re The Marriage Of: Isabelle Latour, V. Sean Kuhlmeyer

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided April 20, 2026·No. 87019-0·Unpublished

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

In the Matter of the Marriage of No. 87019-0-I

ISABELLE LATOUR, DIVISION ONE

Respondent,

UNPUBLISHED OPINION

and

SEAN PATRICK KUHLMEYER, Appellant.

HAZELRIGG, C.J. — Sean Kuhlmeyer appeals from a trial court order that found him in contempt of several orders relating to and stemming from the dissolution of his marriage to Isabelle Latour. On appeal, Kuhlmeyer avers that the trial court’s contempt finding was not supported by substantial evidence. We disagree and affirm.

FACTS

A decree of dissolution entered in December 2018 ended the marriage of Sean Kuhlmeyer and Isabelle Latour, and extensive litigation has continued for several years since then, resulting in a number of appellate decisions. 1 The parties

1 In re Marriage of Kuhlmeyer, No. 78765-9-I (Wash. Ct. App. Jan. 21, 2020) (unpublished),

https://www.courts.wa.gov/opinions/pdf/787659.pdf; In re Marriage of Kuhlmeyer, No. 81002-2-I (Wash. Ct. App. Mar. 8, 2021) (unpublished), https://www.courts.wa.gov/opinions/pdf/810022.pdf; Kuhlmeyer v. Latour, No. 82828-2-I, (Wash. Ct. App. Nov. 7, 2022) (unpublished) https://www.courts.wa.gov/opinions/pdf/828282.pdf; In re Marriage of Latour, No. 85544-1-I (Wash. Ct. App. Nov. 25, 2024) (unpublished), https://www.courts.wa.gov/opinions/pdf/855441.pdf, reviewed denied, 4 Wn.3d 1021 (2024), cert. denied, 146 S. Ct. 886 (2025).

have one child, C, and the court entered a final parenting plan in June 2018 and child support order (CSO) in December 2018, pursuant to the dissolution. The CSO directed each parent to pay a proportional share of the child’s expenses including “work-related child care,” “education,” and “agreed extracurricular activities.” (Capitalization omitted.) The parenting plan provided the protocol for Latour to seek reimbursement of expenses and for Kuhlmeyer to object to those expenses to which he disagreed. In September 2018, shortly before the final orders were entered in the dissolution case, Kuhlmeyer was found in contempt for failure to comply with the temporary child support order and parenting plan and violation of a previous restraining order.

In June 2023, Latour obtained a domestic violence protection order (DVPO)

against Kuhlmeyer that protected her and C. The trial court expressly found that Kuhlmeyer presented a “credible threat to the physical safety” of Latour and C, and explained as follows:

From the outset of this case, Ms. Latour has presented credible evidence regarding Mr. Kuhlmeyer’s actions to coercively control her as well as verbal, physical, and emotional abuse directed toward her and her son. This has manifested itself as well in years of scorched earth, abusive litigation which has far exceeded the description of vigorous advocacy. Any reasonable person experiencing this conduct would be in fear for their mental, emotional and physical safety. Ms. Latour’s representations on this matter [are] wholly credible. Mr. Kuhlmeyer’s objections are unpersuasive and unsupported by the evidence put before this [c]ourt.

The order contained standard restraint conditions and also expressly required Kuhlmeyer to “participate in state-certified treatment,” specifically a “domestic

These unpublished opinions are cited pursuant to GR 14.1 for the sole purpose of illustrating the extensive litigation that has preceded the matter now on appeal.

violence perpetrator program.”2 It further directed that “[i]f [Kuhlmeyer] feels it necessary to communicate with [Latour] he may do so ONLY through the case manager.” The order also restrained Kuhlmeyer from contacting Latour’s attorney and required him to serve pleadings solely “through the courts e[-]file system.” Kuhlmeyer’s attorney was also subject to restrictions on contact with Latour’s attorney and filing. Several months later, in October 2023, Kuhlmeyer was again found in contempt because he had “failed to enroll in a domestic violence perpetrator treatment program” as required by the DVPO.

On May 8, 2024, Latour filed a motion for a contempt hearing premised on a number of allegations regarding non-compliance with the CSO, order on dissolution, and the June 2023 DVPO. Relevant to this appeal, her motion alleged that Kuhlmeyer had continued to fail to meet his obligations under the CSO because he had not paid his proportional share of expenses related to C’s extracurricular activities. Latour contended she had “provided [Kuhlmeyer] with documentary proof of expenses and payment in the past, to no avail.” She further averred that Kuhlmeyer was not attending domestic violence treatment as required by the DVPO because his provider had informed her that Kuhlmeyer was “no longer enrolled in [their] program,” his “program [had] been paused,” and he was “not actively participating” in the program at that time. The trial court entered an order to show cause on May 13 that directed Kuhlmeyer to appear for a hearing on the motion.

2 RCW 43.20A.735 provides the “minimal qualifications” for domestic violence perpetrator treatment programs.

Kuhlmeyer filed a responsive declaration on May 15 and explained that he was “not able to comply with the provisions of the parenting plan and child support order regarding expenses” because he and his attorney were not “permitted to address these issues with the opposing party or counsel, respectively, under the terms of the protection order and the parenting plan.” He claimed that Latour’s purported failure to provide him with proper notice of expenses excused him from his obligation under the CSO. Kuhlmeyer also disputed her allegation regarding treatment and asserted it had been paused because a related case was pending in the Court of Appeals. On May 20, Latour provided a reply declaration to rebut Kuhlmeyer’s contentions.

The show cause hearing on contempt was held on May 22, and the trial court heard argument from both parties. Latour reiterated the allegations from her petition and argued that she had “provided documentation of the child related expenses” and Kuhlmeyer had objected only now that she sought reimbursement. Latour also addressed Kuhlmeyer’s lapsed treatment and asserted that the pause did not comply with WAC 388-60B-0420(4), which requires that “[a]ny breaks in treatment must be reasonable, justified, and follow the program’s policies,” because the provider had not disclosed to Latour why Kuhlmeyer had been allowed to pause treatment. Kuhlmeyer requested that the 2018 contempt order be purged because he was now in compliance and averred Latour had not provided him with adequate documentation of the expenses for which she now sought reimbursement and further asserted that he had been unable to object due to the restrictions imposed in the DVPO. Kuhlmeyer claimed that the person

overseeing his treatment had provided “two status reports” and a “sworn declaration” that indicated the provider had paused the program and Kuhlmeyer was still in good standing.

On June 18, 2024, the trial court entered an order finding Kuhlmeyer in contempt due to his failure to follow the directives of the CSO and violations of the DVPO. It noted that the CSO outlined procedures for Kuhlmeyer to object to expenses and did not find credible Kuhlmeyer’s claims that he “never ‘consented to basketball, summer camps or fencing lessons’” because he had not provided the trial court with any “evidence that he objected to the expense or proposed an alternative, in writing, as the parenting plan required.” The trial judge also entered the following related finding:

Mr. Kuhlmeyer has been on notice of the expenses and has failed to assert any affirmative defense as to why a judgment should not issue. Neither has Mr. Kuhlmeyer provided any documentation regarding his financial situation, thus the court rejects his statement that he is unable to pay.

Pursuant to the Order of Child Support, the expenses for Ryther, Cub Scouts, Work-related child care and private school tuition/fees are expressly enumerated items for which he is required to pay.

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