In re the Marriage of Enke

Court of Appeals of Iowa·Decided April 12, 2023·No. 22-1329·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 22-1329

Filed April 12, 2023

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF SARAH A. ENKE AND JASON A. ENKE

Upon the Petition of SARAH A. ENKE, Petitioner-Appellant,

And Concerning JASON A. ENKE, Respondent-Appellee.

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Cerro Gordo County, Rustin T.

Davenport, Judge.

Sarah Enke appeals the denial of her request to modify physical care and the grant of Jason Enke’s request for a postsecondary education subsidy. AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED.

Sophie Wanek of McCormally & Cosgrove, P.L.L.C., Des Moines, for appellant.

Jacqueline R. Conway of Laird Law Firm, P.L.C., Mason City, for appellee.

Considered by Vaitheswaran, P.J., and Greer and Chicchelly, JJ.

GREER, Judge.

Sarah Enke appeals the June 2022 modification order concerning her dissolution decree with Jason Enke, which was the parties’ third trip to court seeking modification. In this round, she challenges the district court’s limitation to the testimony of one of her witnesses, Steve Kaduce; its refusal to modify the physical-care arrangement; and its imputation of a postsecondary education subsidy obligation on her and not on Jason. Jason asks for appellate attorney fees. We find no abuse in the district court’s discretion in limiting Kaduce’s testimony and affirm the district court’s modification order maintaining physical care of the two minor children with Jason and requiring a postsecondary education subsidy obligation for Sarah. However, we modify the order to require a postsecondary education subsidy for Jason. Finally, we decline to order appellate attorney fees. I. Background Facts and Prior Proceedings.

Jason and Sarah were married in 1999 and had four children—D.E., J.E., B.E., and P.E. The marriage was dissolved in 2014 by dissolution decree, adopting the parties’ stipulation they share joint legal custody and joint physical care. Later that same year, Jason brought a contempt action that Sarah answered with a counterclaim alleging Jason violated the terms of the dissolution decree. In the district court’s ruling on the applications for rule to show cause, it noted the parties struggled to communicate and cooperate with one another, but found only Jason in contempt for making disparaging comments about Sarah while the children were present.

In 2015, Jason filed a petition for modification seeking physical care; again, Sarah counterclaimed seeking the same result for her. In the first modification action, both parents recognized joint physical care was not in the best interests of the children. And, as the district court noted in its first modification order, “shared parenting [had] proven to be ‘unworkable’” and “communication [had] been difficult and [had] essentially broken down between them, that the accounting for parenting expenses was impossible, and that the two parents have very different priorities and parenting styles.” The district court awarded Sarah physical care.

Less than two years later, in 2017, Jason again filed a petition for modification. At that time, D.E., then in high school, had moved in with his father full-time because he found it to be a less stressful environment. During the second modification hearing, the parents again agreed that joint physical care was not in the children’s best interest. Overall, the court found that all of the children had “become more anxious [and] stressed since the last modification” caused by “continued friction between the parents, especially concerning clothes, activities, and finances.” Because of these stressors, “[s]everal credible witnesses testified that the children appear to be more relaxed and at ease and less anxious in their father’s care.” Moreover, the district court found Sarah was intentionally keeping information about the children—including doctor appointments and extracurricular activities—from Jason. Noting the problems arising out of Sarah having physical care were not previously anticipated, the district court found a substantial change in circumstances justifying placement of the children in Jason’s physical care while Sarah was to have liberal visitation. Sarah appealed the ruling, which was affirmed

by a panel of this court that November. See In re Marriage of Enke, No. 18-0360, 2018 WL 6130309, at *3 (Iowa Ct. App. Nov. 21, 2018).

In August of 2020, Jason filed a petition for a postsecondary education subsidy—pursuant to Iowa Code section 598.21F (2020)—for D.E., who was a sophomore in college, and J.E., who would start her freshman year the following fall. In his filing, Jason pointed to the language in the original stipulation allowing for the court to determine their respective contributions for college expenses. Sarah answered with a counterclaim seeking a third modification; she sought to change the physical care of B.E. and P.E., the only children who were still minors. She accused Jason of alienating the children from her and asked the district court to reinstitute a joint physical care arrangement. She requested a period of no contact between Jason and the minor children so that she and the children could participate in a reunification period, after which time she and Jason would co- parent through a parent coordinator. In response, Jason amended his petition to ask for sole legal custody of the minor children or sole decision-making for health care.

At the time of trial, both D.E. and J.E. attended public in-state universities and had earned scholarships and grants towards their education. They both also worked when they were home in the summers and on weekends. And, the district court was informed that in 2020 Sarah earned $54,725 each year, while Jason earned $110,626 annually.

The modification trial was set to begin July 28, 2021. On July 14, Sarah noticed the telephone deposition of Kaduce, a licensed mental health counselor who met with the children around the time of the 2017 modification and continued

to see Sarah. The deposition was set for July 19, 2021. Jason objected, noting that Kaduce was not timely disclosed as an expert witness. The district court held1 that Kaduce could testify, but only as to factual matters and not expert opinions. But, Kaduce was allowed to offer some information with the understanding the district court would sort out what was fact and what was expert opinion and disregard the latter.

The trial occurred over four days in July and October of 2021. Both parents outlined moments of contention that impacted the children, such as fighting at D.E.’s graduation party, doctors refusing to treat the children because of discontent between the parents, verbal sparring at the children’s school events, a lack of flexibility for special occasions and family events, and various occasions when the children were left feeling they had to choose between their two parents. A parade of witnesses came through the courtroom giving their opinion on the parents’ personalities—outlining their best and worst moments. And a wide sampling of text messages and emails exchanged between the parties was admitted as evidence to show their communication issues. What everyone involved could agree on was Jason and Sarah’s demonstrated inability to co-parent.

Both minor children—in eighth and ninth grade at the time—testified that they felt more comfortable at their father’s home and preferred the current

1 A hearing occurred on July 19, but the transcript of the hearing regarding the issue was not provided. “It is the appellant’s duty to provide a record on appeal affirmatively disclosing the alleged error relied upon. The court may not speculate as to what took place or predicate error on such speculation.” In re F.W.S., 698 N.W.2d 134, 135 (Iowa 2005) (internal citation omitted). We are limited, then, to written filings and additional information on the issue the district court provided in its final argument.

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