In re the Marriage of: Elizabeth Kim & Anatole Kim

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided January 30, 2014·No. 31426-0·Published

Opinion

FILED

JAN. 30, 2014

In the Office of the Clerk of Court

WA State Court of Appeals, Division III

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON DIVISION THREE

In re the Marriage of: ) No. 31426-0-111 )

ELIZABETH KIM, )

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Respondent, )

) PUBLISHED OPINION and )

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ANATOLE KIM, )

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Appellant. )

KULIK, J. - This is a bitterly contested dissolution and custody case following a marriage of25 years. The father, Anatole Kim, appeals the trial court's order granting the mother's, Elizabeth Kim's, petition to relocate their children to California. Mr. Kim contends the trial court abused its discretion by failing to follow the correct legal standard and erred by disregarding cultural factors in evaluating relocation. He also maintains that the 60 percentJ40 percent property division was inequitable and that the trial court erred by failing to include maintenance in the child support worksheets.

We conclude that the trial court did not err and did not abuse its considerable discretion. Finally, the findings made by the court are supported by substantial evidence.

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Accordingly, we affinn the trial court.

FACTS

Anatole Kim and Elizabeth Shizuoko Kim are both physicians. Mr. Kim is a cardiologist and Ms. Kim is a pathologist who, at the time of separation, had not practiced medicine for 14 years. The Kims met as students at Brown University during the 1982-83 school year and were married on August 3, 1985, in Los Angeles, California. After numerous moves around the country for residency programs and Mr. Kim's work, the family settled in Yakima in 2002.

The Kims have three children: E.K. (date of birth April 19, 1995), L.K. (date of birth June 26, 1998), and C.K. (date of birth December II, 2000). The parties played different roles in raising the children. When E.K. turned two years old, Ms. Kim, who had been reducing her part time hours as a pathologist, resigned from her job and became a full-time, stay-at-home mother. Mr. Kim was the primary wage earner and worked long hours, while Ms. Kim perfonned the majority of parenting duties, including supervising the children's extensive activities and social networks.

Ms. Kim filed a petition for dissolution in July 2010. Upon separation, Ms. Kim was awarded temporary primary residential placement of the children. In April 2011, Ms. Kim filed a notice of intent to relocate to Los Angeles in order to update her skills in

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pathology. The University of California at Los Angeles (UCLA) had offered her a surgical pathology fellowship beginning July 1,20 II. Because Ms. Kim had been out of the work force for well over two years, she was not eligible for a medical license in Washington State. In May 2011, a Yakima County court commissioner denied Ms. Kim's motion to relocate.

The parties' dissolution trial took place over several days in June 2012 and resumed in September 2012. The trial was bifurcated due to the guardian ad litem's (GAL's) failure to complete his report for the June trial. The court heard testimony from a number of witnesses on Ms. Kim's relocation request. At the conclusion of the trial, the court acknowledged that while it had considered the testimony of all the witnesses, it found the testimony of the parents the most significant.

Ms. Kim testified that she was working part time for a pathology group in San Antonio, Texas, when E.K. was born in 1995. She stated that she did 98 percent of the hands-on work of parenting and that when E.K. turned two, she resigned from her job. During that time, Mr. Kim was working about 80 to 100 hours per week, and Ms. Kim performed the majority of the childcare. This pattern continued after L.K. was born. She recalled that Mr. Kim could not remember holding L.K. because he was working well over 100 hours per week. When asked to describe her early caretaking of C.K., she

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answered that she did "[p]retty much everything. [C.K.] nursed for two years and he was not home." Report of Proceedings (RP) (Sept. 4, 2012) at 35.

Ms. Kim continued to have primary responsibility for the day-to-day care of the children as they grew older. Ms. Kim described a typical preseparation school day as follows:

1 would wake up first. 1 would prepare breakfast and 1 always make their lunch, so 1 would get that out because 1 make it the night before. 1 would make sure the children got out of bed. 1 would make sure Anatole got­ was awake. I'd prepare him what he usually had in the mornings. The children and 1 would have breakfast together. Anatole would usually walk through the kitchen.

RP (Sept. 4, 2012) at 46. Ms. Kim could not recall Mr. Kim ever taking the children to school or picking them up. Ms. Kim also testified that she volunteered in the children's school, drove them to their extracurricular activities, prepared dinner, and helped with homework.

Mr. Kim's testimony centered on the differences in the parents' respective parenting styles. He testified that he was more direct and that Ms. Kim tended to be more indulgent. He testified, "1 do tend to suggest to the children and try and explain if 1 have a suggestion or advice. 1 think if [Ms. Kim] wants the children to do something, she mentions it in kind of an oblique way and then that's about it." RP (Sept. 5,2012) at 206. He testified that Ms. Kim designated him the disciplinarian and deferred to him when the

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children misbehaved.

Mr. Kim testified that the parties had conflict over some of the children's extracurricular activities and that Ms. Kim would disallow some activities if she found them "inconvenient." RP (Sept. 5,2012) at 207. For example, Mr. Kim believed it was important to get the boys involved in Boy Scouts, but that Ms. Kim refused to meaningfully participate. Mr. Kim also testified that he thought the children should be given more responsibility, but that Ms. Kim found it easier to do household chores herself.

Mr. Kim asked for primary residential placement, stating that he alone was concerned about the children's best interests. Mr. Kim described his preseparation relationship with E.K. as "[v]ery close," and his current relationship with L.K. and C.K. as "stable" and "very warm," but noted that both were exhibiting some teenage rebellion. RP (Sept. 6, 2012) at 321-22. He also expressed his concern that Ms. Kim's move to California would effectively eliminate him as a parent.

The court appointed a GAL to evaluate residential placement provisions. The GAL recommended that the mother be awarded primary residential placement. However, as to relocation, the GAL concluded:

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[A] move by the mother is not best for the children. The mother would have to demonstrate an overwhelming need for her to do so. The issue here is the mother's occupational benefit of a move versus the needs of the children. The children need the involvement and balance of both parents, the benefit of both attachment and limits.

Clerk's Papers (CP) at 340.

The court also appointed Dr. Richard Adler, a child and adolescent psychiatrist, to conduct a forensic evaluation of E.K., who had experienced some serious psychiatric problems in December 2010. Dr. Adler concluded that relocation was "ill-advised" as it related to E.K. 's best interest, noting, "[t]his has been high-conflict divorce, marked by contested custody issues and prominent father-son alienation. [A] disposition that would only further hamper the likelihood of repairing the father-son relationship seems contraindicated." CP at 363.

After considering the appropriate statutorily mandated relocation factors and entering detailed findings of fact for each, the court granted Ms. Kim's petition to relocate. The court's findings of fact will be discussed in detail below as they relate to Mr. Kim's assignments of error.

ANALYSIS

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