In re the Marriage of Dow

Appellate Court of Illinois·Decided June 23, 2026·No. 1-24-2393·Unpublished

Opinion

2026 IL App (1st) 242393-U

SECOND DIVISION

June 23, 2026

No. 1-24-2393

NOTICE: This order was filed under Supreme Court Rule 23 and is not precedent except in the limited circumstances allowed under Rule 23(e)(1).

IN THE

APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS FIRST JUDICIAL DISTRICT

In re THE MARRIAGE OF: ) Appeal from the ) Circuit Court of

BRYAN DOW, ) Cook County )

Petitioner-Appellant, ) 2022 D 430325 )

and ) Honorable ) William Stewart Boyd, KARI DOW, ) Bradley R. Trowbridge, ) Judges Presiding

Respondent-Appellee. )

JUSTICE ELLIS delivered the judgment of the court.

Presiding Justice Van Tine and Justice McBride concurred in the judgment.

ORDER

¶1 Held: Affirmed. Court did not err in denying petition to return minor child to Illinois or in allowing child to remain in Florida. Court did not err in award of child support.

¶2 In 2022, Bryan and Kari Dow separated after four years of marriage. Kari permanently moved to Florida with the couple’s only child. Bryan claims he never agreed to the move and, shortly after filing for divorce in Illinois, sought to force Kari to return the child to this state. After a lengthy hearing, the trial court denied that request.

¶3 The case then continued as a fairly routine marital-dissolution case, culminating in a trial. The court entered an Allocation Judgment that allowed Kari and the minor child to remain in

Florida. The court’s dissolution judgment also required Bryan to pay child support. In determining the amount of support, the court declined to consider substantial sums of money Kari was receiving from her father every month, as the court was persuaded by Kari’s unrebutted testimony that the money was a loan she was required to repay.

¶4 On appeal, Bryan challenges both the order allowing the child to remain in Florida and the court’s child-support calculation. We find no error and affirm.

¶5 BACKGROUND

¶6 Bryan and Kari were married in February 2018. Kari gave birth to their son in January 2019. Throughout the marriage, Bryan worked as a union pipefitter; Kari did not work. Until 2022, they owned a home and lived in Illinois.

¶7 In early 2022, the couple was experiencing marital problems. They sold their home in May 2022. They put most of their possessions in storage and, for a short time, stayed either with friends or in a hotel. They discussed a move to Florida, though they disagreed at trial on how concrete that plan was; Kari said it was firm, while Bryan said it was preliminary.

¶8 Either way, not long after selling their house, Bryan drove Kari and their son to Kari’s father’s condo in Florida. Bryan then drove back to Illinois, rented a truck, loaded much of the contents of the storage unit into his truck, and drove them down to Florida. He later helped ship other items, including furniture and Kari’s car, to Florida.

¶9 As noted, Bryan testified that he didn’t consider the move to Florida permanent. He thought their plan was to buy a new house somewhere and work on their marriage. Florida was one option, he said, but not the only one. He returned to Illinois only so he could find work while Kari and their son stayed in Florida for the summer.

¶ 10 Kari unequivocally testified that, though he discussed other places, Bryan agreed to move to Florida. The plan was to move down there and allow the couple to work on their marriage.

¶ 11 In late May and June, with Bryan in Illinois and Kari and their child in Florida, the parties exchanged text messages that illustrate the rocky and tense nature of their marriage. For example, on May 28, Bryan wrote, “if you want it to end OK I accept it,” “I’m starting the separation process,” and “I borderline don’t want anything from you anymore other than to take care of my son,” while also stating such sentiments as “I love you[,] you just keep pushing me away.” On June 1, Kari wrote: “I’m stupid for even thinking I could communicate with you.” And this from Bryan: “I'm done with your silence, I’m assuming our marriage is over” and “[e]ventually we’re going to need to bring the courts into this and establish legal boundaries.”

¶ 12 On June 4, Bryan texted Kari a photo of a firearm, telling her that “[t]hey’re about to enforce [the Covid-19] lockdown again” and “[b]e vigilant my wife.” Kari twice asked Bryan if that gun was his, but he did not respond. Bryan testified that it was his father’s gun and he was not threatening Kari: “that was a Marine husband telling his wife” “to be safe.”

¶ 13 On July 22, Kari obtained the Florida equivalent of an emergency order of protection against Bryan. She alleged that Bryan was physically abusive to her and their son and mentally abusive to her. The order of protection prohibited Bryan from all contact with both Kari and their child. Bryan was aware of the order of protection no later than September, when it was served by the police. There was evidence that he had actual notice of the order in July. (The order of protection became permanent and was still in effect at the time of trial.)

¶ 14 In August 2022, Bryan filed a petition for dissolution of marriage in Illinois.

¶ 15 On October 31, 2022, Bryan filed an emergency motion to return the minor child to Illinois. In that petition, Bryan alleged that Kari’s move to Florida with their child violated

section 609.2 of the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (the “MDMA”), 750 ILCS 5/609.2 (West 2022), which governs a parent’s relocation involving minor children. At the hearing, Bryan stated that Kari had “kidnapped” or “stolen” their son, and that Kari did not follow the procedure outlined in section 609.2, rendering the relocation “illegal.”

¶ 16 Judge Boyd held a three-day evidentiary hearing. The testimony primarily focused on the events leading to the move to Florida and whether Bryan agreed to the relocation. On August 18, 2023, the court entered a written memorandum order denying Bryan’s motion.

¶ 17 The court gave two reasons. First, section 609.2 was inapplicable, as a dissolution of marriage proceeding had not yet been filed in May 2022, so the MDMA did not apply when Kari moved with her son to Florida. And second, the court found that Bryan was aware of and consented to the move, regardless of technical compliance with section 609.2. The court found Bryan’s testimony to the contrary “evasive” and “not credible.”

¶ 18 The case was reassigned to Judge Trowbridge, who presided over the trial in summer 2024. On the topic of the child’s relocation, the court advised the parties that it read Judge Boyd’s order and the record and would not relitigate the three days of testimony leading to that order. Instead, he would judicially notice Judge Boyd’s order and hear any evidence or allegations on the topic of returning the child to Illinois that post-dated Judge Boyd’s order.

¶ 19 The trial focused almost exclusively on the parties’ finances. As Bryan’s arguments on this topic are limited, we can be brief. Suffice it to say that, at the time of trial, Bryan was on disability and unemployment benefits due to a motorcycle accident. He could not lift more than 40 pounds. His current goal was rehabilitation and returning to work as a pipefitter.

¶ 20 While Kari was now employed, she only received sales commissions. In the year before trial, she had only earned about $500 in commissions. Most of her funding came from her father,

who provided her about $6,000 a month and was also paying her legal bills. According to Kari, “[e]verything that’s being given to me including your legal bills are [my] responsibility to repay when I can and am able to.”

¶ 21 On August 2, 2024, the court entered the Allocation Judgment after trial. That judgment provided, in relevant part, that:

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