In Re The Marriage Of: Denise M. Barry, And William C. Parsons

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided November 13, 2017·No. 75518-8·Unpublished

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

In the Matter of the Marriage of ) No. 75518-8-1 )

DENISE M. BARRY, )

)

Respondent, ) DIVISION ONE )

and )

)

WILLIAM C. PARSONS, ) UNPUBLISHED OPINION )

Appellant. )

) FILED: November 13, 2017

MANN, J. —William Parsons appeals from the trial court's modification of the parenting plan for his daughter. Because the trial court did not exceed its statutory authority under RCW 26.09.260, and did not abuse its discretion under RCW 26.09.230(4) and RCW 26.09.191, we affirm.

FACTS

Denise Barry and William Parsons were married in 2005. Their daughter, Greta, was born later in that same year. In 2008, the marriage was dissolved, and in 2011, they agreed on a formalized parenting plan that allocated 50/50 residential time with each parent, and joint decision-making authority. At the time of the modification, the residential plan had Greta residing with one parent Monday and Tuesday, and the other

on Wednesday and Thursday, with alternating weekends starting after school Friday until school on Monday.

Parsons and Barry have frequently disagreed on issues such as the schools and daycares Greta will attend, her extracurricular activities, her use of a therapist, her diet, and payment for various activities. Parsons' unpunctuality and lack of responsibility has caused considerable discord. Greta's school records demonstrate that she was marked as "unexcused late" or "unexcused absent" on a significant number of days that she was residing with Parsons. Parsons was repeatedly late to pick up Greta from daycare, and other set exchange points, sometimes not showing up at all. Parsons also neglected to bring Greta to extracurricular activities, and at least once failed to bring Greta to her prescheduled therapy appointment. Parsons also did not provide basic necessities for Greta while she was residing in his home, causing Greta to have to bring her own toiletries and clothing from Barry's house.

Another source of contention was Barry's involvement of the police in her interactions with Parsons. In March 2013, Barry suspected Parsons was driving without a license. Barry called the police to have them go to Greta's school, where Parsons was coaching the chess club with Greta, to determine if Parsons' license was valid. This was done in front of the school staff as well as the other students and parents at the school.

Greta has had some behavioral issues at school and some bed wetting incidents at Parsons, causing the parents to seek out a therapist. Parsons agreed that therapy was a good decision, but has chosen not to participate in her therapy, and has not contributed to payment. Parsons has also stopped paying child support on time,

resulting in him being found in contempt for failure to pay. At one point, Parsons brought the child support up with Greta, saying the reason they couldn't go on vacation was because of the child support payments.

Greta only has one year left at her current school and the parties disagree on which school to send her to next year. Parsons sought to have Greta transfer schools before the next year, and recently enrolled Greta in a different school near his home, and changed her home address to his on the school records, both contrary to court orders.

Greta is currently the negotiator between her two parents, who have a hard time talking to each other. Greta told her therapist that she feels used by her father as "the messenger" with her mother.

On May 12, 2015, Parsons filed a motion for "Modification/Adjustment of Custody Decree/Parenting Plan/Residential Schedule." Parsons argued the parenting plan should be modified and requested a reduction in child support. Parsons argued a substantial change had occurred and that a modification of the parenting plan was in the best interest of the child on the grounds that "the child's environment under the parenting plan is detrimental to the child's physical, mental or emotional health and the harm likely to be caused by a change in environment is outweighed by the advantage of a change to the child." Parson also cited "[t]he abusive use of conflict by the mother which creates the danger of serious damage to the child's psychological development" as the basis for the change. Parsons originally sought to return to daily exchanges.

Shortly after Parsons filed his motion, an incident occurred that Barry calls the "domestic violence incident." The facts of this incident are sharply contested by the

parties. Both parties agree that Parsons "barked" at Greta, causing her to get upset. Parsons then went to take a shower and Greta called her mother because she was upset and said Parsons told her he would not make her dinner. Barry and Stephen French, Barry's fiancé who lives with Barry, went over to Parsons' house to talk to Greta. When Barry and French arrived, Parsons reluctantly allowed Greta to follow Barry across the street to talk. Parsons stated he moved to get Greta, but French held his hand in front of Parsons'face and told him to let them talk. In response, Parsons went inside and called the police.

The parties eventually gathered on the porch, with Parsons telling Barry and French to leave and telling Greta to get back inside. Parsons then grabbed Greta's shoulder and Barry moved to intervene. Parsons stated that Barry, who was on crutches for a preexisting ankle injury, lost her balance and fell. Greta, French, and Barry stated that Parsons had shoved Barry, causing her to fall back. French then moved to remove Parsons' hand from Greta, causing Parsons to let go and Greta to fall backward into either the railing or some boxes and sustain several bruises. Greta began to cry, ran down the stairs, and hid behind a tree. French accused Parsons of pushing Barry and called the police.

When the police arrived, Greta was sent home with Barry, and Parsons was arrested. Parsons stayed in jail for two days, and was brought into the child support hearing in handcuffs and a jail jumpsuit.

Barry filed a timely response to Parsons' motion for modification. Barry's response agreed that adequate cause existed for a modification hearing, and included her own counter-request for a modification of the parenting plan and her own proposed

parenting plan. Barry also asked that Parsons' visitation be limited under RCW 26.09.191(3)) based on a history of domestic violence and abusive use of conflict. Finally, Barry asked that "the joint decision making provision of the parenting plan should be modified to giving mother sole decision making."

At the modification hearing, the trial court denied Barry's domestic violence protection order. The court did find adequate cause for modification of the parenting plan and affirmed the reduction in child support. The court entered a temporary parenting plan, which reinstated the 50/50 residential schedule, two days with Barry and two days with Parsons with alternating weekends. The final parenting plan was reserved for determination after trial. The court also assigned a parenting evaluator, Caroline Davis.

At the trial for the final modification hearing, the trial court heard testimony from Barry and Parsons, as well as Greta's teacher Gwendolyn Reilly, her daycare provider Alexandra Graeve, and Parsons' roommate Tim White. Davis also testified and provided her recommendation.

Davis' report described the history of litigation and interviews she conducted with Parsons, Barry, Greta, and French, as well as teachers, and counselors. Davis noted that each parent had issues that they needed to work on, specifically noting that Parsons does not have "any sense of how concerning his behavior can be to" Greta, and that his "need to be right can become more important than what Greta needs." She also noted that Parsons needs to be more willing to work with Greta's therapist. Davis also noted that Barry needs to meet with the nutritionist recommended by Greta's

doctor. Finally, Davis reiterated that both parents need to keep Greta out of their conflict.

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