In Re The Marriage Of Daniel Sperry, V Liberty Sperry

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided June 25, 2019·No. 51551-2·Unpublished

Opinion

Filed Washington State Court of Appeals Division Two

June 25, 2019

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

DIVISION II In the Matter of the Marriage of No. 51551-2-II

DANIEL SPERRY,

Appellant,

and

LIBERTY SPERRY, UNPUBLISHED OPINION

Respondent.

SUTTON, J. — Daniel Sperry appeals the trial court’s orders granting modification of the

parenting plan and denying reconsideration. He argues that the trial court’s findings of fact

regarding the new parenting plan and the restrictions on his visitation are not supported by

substantial evidence and the findings do not support the court’s conclusions of law regarding

modification. He requests that we reverse the trial court’s order and remand for a new trial, entry

of new findings, and entry of a new parenting plan that does not restrict his residential time with

his minor child, RS.1 Liberty Sperry (n/k/a Liberty Weaver) requests that we affirm and requests

an award of reasonable attorney fees and costs. We affirm the trial court’s orders and award

Liberty2 reasonable appellate attorney fees and costs.

1 We use the minor’s initials to protect their privacy. 2 Daniel and Liberty Sperry are referred to by their first names for clarity. No disrespect is intended. No. 51551-2-II

FACTS

I. BACKGROUND FACTS

Daniel and Liberty began a relationship in 2010 and married in June 2015. They had one

child, RS, born in 2013. In September 2015, they filed for dissolution. In January 2016, the trial

court entered agreed orders for dissolution, along with a parenting plan, residential schedule, and

child support.

Paragraph 3.1 of the residential schedule portion of the 2016 final parenting plan states,

The parents shall alternate custody of the child every month, with the receiving parent assuming the cost of the transportation and responsibility for being present during the travel. Such exchanges and timing shall be by agreement of the parties. The mother shall have an extended period of custody in the summer time lasting no more than 3 consecutive months. Within 24 months of the date of this document, the father intends to relocate to California wherein this plan will continue. Custody during important holidays shall be alternated on a yearly basis by agreement of the parties.

Clerk’s Papers (CP) at 28.

Paragraph 3.12 listed Daniel as the designated custodian as follows:

The children named in this parenting plan are scheduled to reside the majority of time with [Daniel]. This parent is designated the custodian of the child(ren) solely for the purposes of all other state and federal statutes which require a designation or determination of custody. This designation shall not affect either parent’s rights and responsibilities under this parenting plan.

CP at 30. The child support order also named Daniel as the custodial parent.

In 2016, Daniel and Liberty both filed petitions to modify the parenting plan and residential

schedule alleging a substantial change in circumstances had occurred under RCW 26.09.260(1).

Liberty also alleged that RS’s current living situation was harmful and requested that Daniel’s

residential time be restricted under RCW 26.09.260(4) and former RCW 26.09.191 (2011).

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II. TRIAL

The trial court conducted a two-day bench trial and focused on RS’s current living

environment with Daniel and whether restrictions on Daniel’s residential time were warranted.

A. DANIEL’S SEXUAL THOUGHTS AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE INCIDENT

1. Daniel’s Sexual Thoughts of RS

Liberty testified that she first became concerned about Daniel in the spring of 2014 when

he told her that he was having sexual thoughts while bathing RS. She reported the matter to Child

Protective Services (CPS) who conducted an investigation and concluded that there was no abuse.

Liberty also testified that a second report was made in 2016 in California after Daniel returned RS

from a road trip and she became concerned about RS’s cleanliness and irritation of RS’s anus.

CPS conducted an investigation and concluded that there was no abuse.

During his testimony, Daniel admitted that he had sexual thoughts about RS:

This was something that was never an issue until now we’ve got a divorce going on. So yeah, I have an initial fear of even admitting that these conversations happened because they were private conversations between my wife and I at the time. .... . . . Based on the fact that I was always bathing [RS] and I had a wife who was telling me I couldn’t even watch an R-rated movie without checking IMDb parental controls. .... . . . I’m saying, when I made these comments, there were things in our relationship that made it appropriate for the situation to happen. But it -- she’s trying to paint it in a light that’s just disgusting. .... . . . I’m not going to completely dismiss my responsibility to my own person. ....

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. . . But yeah. I was in a relationship that was definitely causing me to think overly sexually. And being the one who is always bathing my daughter, I didn’t like the fact that I was in a time where I’m bathing my daughter and thinking sexually at the same time. . . . .... . . . I’m saying, it’s not good to let unhealthy thoughts just spin off or to think too hard on them on your own. That’s why I figured communicating with my wife about it would be the best option. .... . . . At the time I was asking her to bathe [RS] more, please, [be]cause I didn’t want to be thinking sexually while bathing [RS]. .... . . . Okay, so now you want to know about the exact conversation that happened? .... . . . So like I said I was always bathing [RS]. We were at a time where I wasn’t getting a lot of sex and I was being told that I couldn’t really think sexually in general. So I was trying to do my best to actually stop looking at other girls while walking down the street, et cetera, et cetera. So sex was definitely something that I wanted at the end of the night more often. .... . . . And I was bathing [RS] one night. I had a thought about having sex while I was bathing [RS]. I didn’t like that she is aware of her privates now at her age and I’m having these thoughts. I just thought it was a very weird thing. Why am I always bathing her? Maybe you should bathe her, and then we could get down to our husband and wifely duties afterwards. It had nothing to do with [RS]. She was just there. .... . . . I’m saying [Liberty’s] partially the reason that I had a lot of sexual tension.

Verbatim Report of Proceedings (VRP) (Apr. 18, 2017) at 143-47.

In his related text messages to Liberty, Daniel stated,

[I]t should have been said, because that’s what people do, talk about shit so that it doesn’t fester inside them. I talked to you about something that was confusing and bothering me and told you [that] you had nothing to worry about. I’m not going in circles with you. Everything will be handled by CPS and in court. [N]o need to talk to each other.

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Ex. 2. Later in the same text message chain, he stated, “I’m admitting to it because being dishonest

is the worst thing [I] can do right now. I paid money for that advice. [S]o I’m being honest because

[I] did nothing wrong.” Ex. 3.

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