In Re the Marriage of: Cortney Bender and James Bender CORTNEY BENDER, Petitioner-Respondent v. JAMES BENDER

Missouri Court of Appeals·Decided May 1, 2025·No. SD38534·Published

Opinion

Missouri Court of Appeals Southern District

In Division

In Re the Marriage of: ) Cortney Bender and James Bender )

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CORTNEY BENDER, )

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Petitioner-Respondent, )

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vs. ) No. SD38534 )

JAMES BENDER, ) Filed: May 1, 2025 )

Respondent-Appellant. )

APPEAL FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF CEDAR COUNTY The Honorable Brandon Fisher, Special Judge VACATED AND REMANDED James Bender (“Husband”) appeals the trial court’s Proposed Findings of Fact, Conclusions of Law and Judgment and Decree of Dissolution of Marriage (“Judgment”) which dissolved his marriage to Cortney Bender (“Wife”) and awarded sole legal and sole physical custody of their minor child to Wife. 1 Following the trial court’s entry of the Judgment,

1 Wife filed a motion to dismiss Husband’s appeal for failure to comply with Rule 84.04, which was taken with the case. This Court has reviewed the record on appeal and Husband’s brief and is able to discern the issues presented to this Court for review. See Jokerst v. Huckaby, 2025 WL 999968, *6 n.7 (Mo.

Husband filed a Motion to Set Aside Judgment and to Render Judgment Void, or Alternatively for a New Trial pursuant to Rule 74.06(b), which was denied by the trial court. Husband presents three points on appeal claiming the trial court erred in denying his after-trial motion because the Judgment is void (Point I), the Judgment is irregular (Point II), and Husband has good cause for a new trial (Point III). All three points on appeal are based on Husband’s claim that he was not given notice of a trial setting, trial, or anything other than a temporary dissolution hearing taking place on February 15, 2024, by the trial court. This Court determines Point II has merit and concludes the Judgment is irregular. The Judgment is vacated and the cause is remanded for a new trial.

Factual Background and Procedural History Husband and Wife were married August 14, 2018. 2 One child was born during the marriage. On September 28, 2023, Wife filed a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage claiming the marriage was irretrievably broken. Wife sought dissolution of the marriage, sole legal custody and joint physical custody of the parties’ minor child, and distribution of the parties’ marital assets and debts. Husband filed a pro se Respondent’s Answer to Petition for Dissolution of Marriage. Husband requested that the marriage be dissolved and that custody of the child be awarded “50/50” to Husband and Wife. Husband indicated that he agreed with Wife’s proposed Parenting Plan.

App. S.D. 2025). This Court exercises its discretion to address Husband’s brief on its merits; therefore, the motion to dismiss is denied. All rule references are to Missouri Court Rules (2025). 2 The Judgment states the parties were married July 31, 2021; however, Wife testified that she and Husband married August 14, 2018. Wife’s Petition for Dissolution of Marriage also listed the date of marriage as August 14, 2018, which was admitted as true in Husband’s Answer.

On November 2, 2023, Wife filed a Motion for Temporary Custody and Child Support and Notice of Hearing. The motion alleged Wife had filed a Petition for Order of Protection against Husband that was pending. The motion further alleged the Petition for Dissolution of Marriage had not been set for trial. The Notice of Hearing provided notice to the parties and the trial court that Wife was calling up for hearing Wife’s Motion for Temporary Custody and Child Support on November 17, 2023, at 2:00 p.m., in the Cedar County Circuit Court. 3 On November 15, 2023, the guardian ad litem (“GAL”) filed a letter confirming that the case was set for a motion hearing on November 17, 2023, and requested a new hearing date due to a scheduling conflict.

The parties appeared before the trial court, Wife with counsel and Husband pro se, on November 17, 2023, at which time the trial court set a “Temporary Motion Hearing” for February 15, 2024, at 10:00 a.m. The trial court’s docket entry read: “[Wife] appears in person and with Attorney [J.L.]. [Husband] appears in person, pro se. Temporary Motion Hearing set for February 15, 2024 at 10:00 a.m. /s/ BF[.]”

On November 20, 2023, Husband filed his Answer to Petition for Dissolution of Marriage and a document showing he completed his “Parent Education.” On January 22, 2024, Wife filed a Notice of Hearing calling for a hearing on her Petition for Dissolution of Marriage. The notice read: “COMES NOW [Wife], by and through her attorney of record, [J.L.], calls for hearing on her Petition for Dissolution of Marriage on February 15, 2024, at 10:00 a.m.[,] in Cedar County Circuit Court.” (Emphasis added.)

3 The Notice of Hearing also notified the parties and the court that Wife was calling up for hearing her Motion to Disqualify Guardian ad Litem on that same day, November 17, 2023, at 2:00 p.m.

Thereafter, on February 8, 2024, Wife filed a Motion for Sanctions and accompanying Notice of Hearing calling for a hearing on her Motion for Sanctions the same date and time as her requested hearing on her Petition for Dissolution of Marriage, February 15, 2024, at 10:00 a.m. Two days before the hearing, on February 13, 2024, Wife filed her Form 14 and Proposed Parenting Plan with the trial court.

On February 15, 2024, the parties appeared before the trial court. Wife appeared with counsel and Husband appeared pro se. At the beginning of the proceedings, the trial court stated that it had before it three cases: a “dissolution act set for hearing today[,]” a child order of protection filed by the GAL against Husband, and “an adult abuse action.” (Emphasis added.) The trial court questioned Husband regarding when he was served with the two orders of protection. When Husband responded he believed he was served “[a] couple days ago,” the trial court informed him he was entitled to three-day notice on an order of protection unless Husband chose to waive notice. The trial court stated:

You’re entitled to three days on those. It’s up to you whether or not – my intention would be just to have the hearing on all these issues today. We’re definitely doing divorce today. But by law, you’re entitled to three days [before] I can actually have a hearing on the orders of protection. But you can waive that if you just want to have the hearing on all those today[].

Husband responded, “Yes, Your Honor.” The trial court then stated:

So all the cases that I announced earlier, we’re going to do all of them today. And we’ll talk about all these issues kind of as we go through the process here. So I’ll kind of use the divorce as the headlining case. So [Wife’s counsel], you’re – you’re the Petitioner, so go ahead.

Wife’s counsel then voiced her understanding of what she believed was actually going to be litigated as follows:

[WIFE’S COUNSEL]: Thank you, Judge. I – I do want to make sure. The original intention was to do just the temporaries today, but we did file a notice to take up the whole matter. So I wanted to be clear if the Court –

THE COURT: It would be my intention that that’s what we’re going to do today is just get the divorce done. All right?

[WIFE’S COUNSEL]: Okay. And –

THE COURT: I actually didn’t say on these cases. [Wife] does appear with her attorney, [J.L.]. [Husband] appears pro se. [GAL, B.H.] appears as well.

So all right. Go ahead.

At no point prior to or on this date did the trial court set or send notice of a trial date to the parties in accordance with its local rules or Missouri Court Rules. Nonetheless, Wife then proceeded to present her dissolution case to the trial court. Wife testified first and requested the trial court award her sole legal and sole physical custody of their minor child with two supervised visits per month awarded to Husband. Wife then presented the testimony of her father in her case in chief before resting her case. The trial court then stated:

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