In Re the Marriage of Constance G. Pauscher and Curtis R. Pauscher Upon the Petition of Constance G. Pauscher, and Concerning Curtis R. Pauscher

CourtCourt of Appeals of Iowa
DecidedSeptember 14, 2016
Docket15-1073
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 15-1073 Filed September 14, 2016

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF CONSTANCE G. PAUSCHER AND CURTIS R. PAUSCHER

Upon the Petition of CONSTANCE G. PAUSCHER, Petitioner-Appellant,

And Concerning CURTIS R. PAUSCHER, Respondent-Appellee. ________________________________________________________________

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Polk County, Dustria A. Relph,

Judge.

Constance Pauscher appeals the physical care, property valuation, and

property distribution provisions of the decree dissolving her marriage to Curtis

Pauscher. AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED AND REMANDED.

Amanda L. Green of Nading Law Firm, Ankeny, for appellant.

Alexandra D. Frazier of R.J. Hudson Law Firm, P.C., West Des Moines,

for appellee.

Considered by Vaitheswaran, P.J., and Doyle and Mullins, JJ. 2

MULLINS, Judge.

Constance Pauscher appeals the physical care, property valuation, and

property distribution provisions of the decree dissolving her marriage to Curtis

Pauscher. Constance argues the district court erred in granting physical care of

the parties’ minor children to Curtis, or in the alternative, erred in limiting her

visitation with the children. Constance further argues the district court erred in

valuing Curtis’s retirement account at the time of separation rather than at the

time of trial and erred in failing to award Constance a property settlement. We

affirm as modified and remand.

I. Background Facts and Proceedings

Constance and Curtis were married in 2005. They have three minor

children, born in 2006, 2008, and 2011. Constance is employed as a registered

nurse in Des Moines, where she works as a critical care nurse three evenings

per week making $46,000 per year. Constance obtained her associate’s degree

in nursing in 2008 and has numerous certifications. While attending school,

Constance also worked part-time and cared for the parties’ children. Curtis is

employed as a union journeyman pipe insulator and has worked for the same

union shop since before the parties were married. His earnings are $54,288 per

year.

During the marriage, Constance was the primary caregiver for the

children. Though Curtis currently works from 7:00 a.m. to 3:30 p.m., he

previously traveled as part of his job and sometimes would be out of town on 3

assignment for months at a time.1 Prior to separating, the parties resided

together in Alleman.

At trial, Constance testified to certain events during which Curtis was

physically and mentally abusive during the marriage and that, after the death of

his brother, Curtis started and continued to abuse alcohol. Constance’s father

also testified that Curtis’s anger and drinking intensified in the months and years

following his brother’s death. He testified he saw Curtis intoxicated and

intervened in disputes between Curtis and Constance, although he never saw

Curtis commit acts of physical assault against Constance. He also testified

Curtis confirmed to him the alleged incidents of abuse. Constance’s father also

testified—and Curtis and Constance confirmed—that Constance’s father often

served as a mediator in their marriage.

Curtis denied any abuse ever occurred, saying “She is saying what

happened, but she is saying it the wrong way.” As an example, Curtis explained

that one alleged incident of abuse did include a verbal fight between Constance

and him, but there was never any physical violence on his part, rather Constance

had thrown a phone at him. Curtis also denied the alcoholism,2 but admitted he

“us[ed] alcohol as medicine” following his brother’s death in July 2006. Curtis

indicated the self-medication lasted for only a few months, and he got better after

engaging in counseling. Constance claimed financial difficulties and Curtis’s

1 Both Curtis and Constance agreed Curtis would take these long-distance assignments. On one occasion, during a seven-to-eight month assignment, Curtis saw Constance and the children approximately every other weekend. Normally, Constance brought the children to him. 2 When Curtis was twenty, he was charged with operating while intoxicated for which he received a deferred judgment and successfully completed probation. 4

alcoholism led to the divorce. Curtis blamed the couple’s financial problems on

Constance taking the full amount of maternity leave after the birth of each child

and being unable to keep her job while caring for the children when he was out of

town.

In 2010, Constance and the eldest Pauscher child were involved in a

serious car accident. Constance suffered serious injuries from the accident, for

which she received a settlement of approximately $100,000, less attorney fees.

The settlement was spent during the marriage on various items including a

vacation, paying off Curtis’s truck, purchasing another vehicle, and making

mortgage payments.

In June 2013, the parties separated, and the petition for dissolution of the

marriage was filed. Constance testified that, before leaving the marital home,

she first asked Curtis to stay with his father and stepmother but he refused. She

then moved out of the marital home with the children and into her parents’ home

in Slater. Constance was awarded temporary physical care of the children by

order regarding temporary matters on July 15, 2013. Constance and the children

then remained in Slater, where the children attended the local school district,

which was different from their school system in Alleman.

The record reflects that, as the primary caregiver to the children,

Constance kept Curtis informed of the children’s activities and appointments

through a jointly-shared, on-line calendar. Curtis testified Constance sent him

emails about the children, she made sure he was on the schools’ weekly emails,

and he had access to the school information. Curtis stated Constance had done

a good job of keeping him informed of the children’s activities and events. During 5

the separation, Constance allowed Curtis time with the children in addition to that

allocated under the temporary order.

However, the communication between Curtis and Constance has been

strained and sometimes hostile. Part of the tension between the parties during

the separation arose from the baptism of their eldest child. While married, all of

the children received blessings from the church Constance attends. In 2014,

Constance allowed, over Curtis’s objections, the eldest child to choose to be

baptized. The parties agree the child was baptized at a time that conforms with

the standard practice of Constance’s church. Curtis attended the baptism.

Both parties currently reside with their new significant others. Curtis lives

in Ankeny with his girlfriend and her two children in a home the girlfriend owns.

Constance lives in a rental home in Altoona with her fiancé, Jeffrey Glaspie.

Constance moved to Altoona in February 2015, at which time the school-aged

children changed school systems to the local school district. Curtis did not

approve of moving the children mid-school year or before the divorce

proceedings were complete. At all times, the school-aged Pauscher children

have done well in school.

Part of the tension between the parties, to which the district court gave

significant consideration, is Constance’s relationship with Glaspie. Curtis has

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