In Re the Marriage of Constance G. Pauscher and Curtis R. Pauscher Upon the Petition of Constance G. Pauscher, and Concerning Curtis R. Pauscher

Court of Appeals of Iowa·Decided September 14, 2016·No. 15-1073·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 15-1073

Filed September 14, 2016

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF CONSTANCE G. PAUSCHER AND CURTIS R. PAUSCHER

Upon the Petition of CONSTANCE G. PAUSCHER, Petitioner-Appellant,

And Concerning CURTIS R. PAUSCHER, Respondent-Appellee.

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Polk County, Dustria A. Relph, Judge.

Constance Pauscher appeals the physical care, property valuation, and property distribution provisions of the decree dissolving her marriage to Curtis Pauscher. AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED AND REMANDED.

Amanda L. Green of Nading Law Firm, Ankeny, for appellant.

Alexandra D. Frazier of R.J. Hudson Law Firm, P.C., West Des Moines, for appellee.

Considered by Vaitheswaran, P.J., and Doyle and Mullins, JJ.

MULLINS, Judge.

Constance Pauscher appeals the physical care, property valuation, and property distribution provisions of the decree dissolving her marriage to Curtis Pauscher. Constance argues the district court erred in granting physical care of the parties’ minor children to Curtis, or in the alternative, erred in limiting her visitation with the children. Constance further argues the district court erred in valuing Curtis’s retirement account at the time of separation rather than at the time of trial and erred in failing to award Constance a property settlement. We affirm as modified and remand.

I. Background Facts and Proceedings Constance and Curtis were married in 2005. They have three minor children, born in 2006, 2008, and 2011. Constance is employed as a registered nurse in Des Moines, where she works as a critical care nurse three evenings per week making $46,000 per year. Constance obtained her associate’s degree in nursing in 2008 and has numerous certifications. While attending school, Constance also worked part-time and cared for the parties’ children. Curtis is employed as a union journeyman pipe insulator and has worked for the same union shop since before the parties were married. His earnings are $54,288 per year.

During the marriage, Constance was the primary caregiver for the children. Though Curtis currently works from 7:00 a.m. to 3:30 p.m., he previously traveled as part of his job and sometimes would be out of town on

assignment for months at a time.1 Prior to separating, the parties resided together in Alleman.

At trial, Constance testified to certain events during which Curtis was physically and mentally abusive during the marriage and that, after the death of his brother, Curtis started and continued to abuse alcohol. Constance’s father also testified that Curtis’s anger and drinking intensified in the months and years following his brother’s death. He testified he saw Curtis intoxicated and intervened in disputes between Curtis and Constance, although he never saw Curtis commit acts of physical assault against Constance. He also testified Curtis confirmed to him the alleged incidents of abuse. Constance’s father also testified—and Curtis and Constance confirmed—that Constance’s father often served as a mediator in their marriage.

Curtis denied any abuse ever occurred, saying “She is saying what happened, but she is saying it the wrong way.” As an example, Curtis explained that one alleged incident of abuse did include a verbal fight between Constance and him, but there was never any physical violence on his part, rather Constance had thrown a phone at him. Curtis also denied the alcoholism,2 but admitted he “us[ed] alcohol as medicine” following his brother’s death in July 2006. Curtis indicated the self-medication lasted for only a few months, and he got better after engaging in counseling. Constance claimed financial difficulties and Curtis’s

1 Both Curtis and Constance agreed Curtis would take these long-distance assignments. On one occasion, during a seven-to-eight month assignment, Curtis saw Constance and the children approximately every other weekend. Normally, Constance brought the children to him. 2 When Curtis was twenty, he was charged with operating while intoxicated for which he received a deferred judgment and successfully completed probation.

alcoholism led to the divorce. Curtis blamed the couple’s financial problems on Constance taking the full amount of maternity leave after the birth of each child and being unable to keep her job while caring for the children when he was out of town.

In 2010, Constance and the eldest Pauscher child were involved in a serious car accident. Constance suffered serious injuries from the accident, for which she received a settlement of approximately $100,000, less attorney fees. The settlement was spent during the marriage on various items including a vacation, paying off Curtis’s truck, purchasing another vehicle, and making mortgage payments.

In June 2013, the parties separated, and the petition for dissolution of the marriage was filed. Constance testified that, before leaving the marital home, she first asked Curtis to stay with his father and stepmother but he refused. She then moved out of the marital home with the children and into her parents’ home in Slater. Constance was awarded temporary physical care of the children by order regarding temporary matters on July 15, 2013. Constance and the children then remained in Slater, where the children attended the local school district, which was different from their school system in Alleman.

The record reflects that, as the primary caregiver to the children, Constance kept Curtis informed of the children’s activities and appointments through a jointly-shared, on-line calendar. Curtis testified Constance sent him emails about the children, she made sure he was on the schools’ weekly emails, and he had access to the school information. Curtis stated Constance had done a good job of keeping him informed of the children’s activities and events. During

the separation, Constance allowed Curtis time with the children in addition to that allocated under the temporary order.

However, the communication between Curtis and Constance has been strained and sometimes hostile. Part of the tension between the parties during the separation arose from the baptism of their eldest child. While married, all of the children received blessings from the church Constance attends. In 2014, Constance allowed, over Curtis’s objections, the eldest child to choose to be baptized. The parties agree the child was baptized at a time that conforms with the standard practice of Constance’s church. Curtis attended the baptism.

Both parties currently reside with their new significant others. Curtis lives in Ankeny with his girlfriend and her two children in a home the girlfriend owns. Constance lives in a rental home in Altoona with her fiancé, Jeffrey Glaspie. Constance moved to Altoona in February 2015, at which time the school-aged children changed school systems to the local school district. Curtis did not approve of moving the children mid-school year or before the divorce proceedings were complete. At all times, the school-aged Pauscher children have done well in school.

Part of the tension between the parties, to which the district court gave significant consideration, is Constance’s relationship with Glaspie. Curtis has expressed his concerns about Glaspie to Constance, as Glaspie has picked the children up from school and monitored the children on the nights Constance is working. Glaspie has three previous domestic abuse charges, occurring

between 1993 and 2004.3 Glaspie is employed by an information technology department and has five children. He and his ex-wife, Rhonda Connett, have four children together.

Connett has physical care of the children, and Glaspie has visitation.

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