In re the Marriage of Cickavage

CourtCourt of Appeals of Iowa
DecidedMay 11, 2022
Docket21-1492
StatusPublished

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IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 21-1492 Filed May 11, 2022

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF SARA LYNN CICKAVAGE AND JESSE QUANAH CICKAVAGE

Upon the Petition of SARA LYNN CICKAVAGE, n/k/a SARA LYNN JARVIS, Petitioner-Appellee,

And Concerning JESSE QUANAH CICKAVAGE, Respondent-Appellant. ________________________________________________________________

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Butler County, Christopher C. Foy,

Judge.

A father appeals from a writ of injunction, modification of visitation, and

denial of a modification of physical care. AFFIRMED AND REMANDED WITH

INSTRUCTION.

Jesse Q. Cickavage, New Hartford, self-represented appellant.

John J. Wood of Beecher, Field, Walker, Morris, Hoffman & Johnson, P.C.,

Waterloo, for appellee.

Considered by Greer, P.J., Ahlers, J., and Scott, S.J.*

*Senior judge assigned by order pursuant to Iowa Code section 602.9206

(2022). GREER, Presiding Judge.

In this appeal, Jesse Cickavage contests the district court’s modification of

the dissolution decree and the permanent injunction issued against him. To lay

out the background, Sara Jarvis (formerly known as Sara Cickavage) and Jesse

were married in 2014. They lived in Sara’s hometown, Fargo, North Dakota, and

together had two children born in 2011 and 2015. After Jesse accepted a job in

2016, the family moved to Iowa where their third child was born in 2017.

As the relationship crumbled, Sara petitioned to dissolve the marriage in

2019. During the dissolution proceedings, Sara was granted a protective order

against Jesse under Iowa Code chapter 236 (2019) after he assaulted her during

two separate arguments in early 2019. Sara considered moving back home to

North Dakota, but she decided to remain in Iowa to attempt to peacefully co-parent.

The two dissolved their marriage by stipulated agreement that August, which the

court confirmed. The agreement gave Sara physical care, gave Jesse and Sara

joint legal custody, established a visitation schedule for Jesse, and directed Jesse

to pay child support. As Sara had an established problem with alcohol, the

agreement stated Sara would not consume alcohol while the children were in her

care.

Within a couple of months, Jesse sought to hold Sara in contempt of the

dissolution decree for a variety of complaints pertaining to personal property, real

property, and medical expenses. The court ordered mediation; as a result, in

exchange for Jesse dropping the contempt order, Sara lifted the protective order.

As time went on, Sara wanted to move back home to North Dakota where

she felt she had a stronger support system. She approached Jesse with the idea; by her account, he responded that she could move with the children if she agreed

to a joint physical care arrangement—at least on paper—so he no longer had to

pay child support. As this was not a tenable financial option for Sara, she

petitioned for modification of the custody agreement in July 2020. Her proposed

modification plan would give Jesse about the same amount of overnight visits as

he was previously guaranteed.

Within weeks of Sara’s modification filing, plans came to a screeching halt.

While intoxicated, Sara backed her car into a light pole; her middle child was in the

vehicle with her and the other two children were left home unsupervised. She was

arrested and charged with operating while intoxicated (OWI) and three counts of

child endangerment. The Iowa Department of Human Services (DHS) opened a

child-abuse investigation and established a safety plan. Upon the department’s

recommendation, Sara placed the children with Jesse until it was determined safe

to return them to her care.

Jesse filed an application for emergency relief seeking to gain physical care

of the children. He also sought the suspension of his child-support payments as

well as appropriate payments from Sara. At the hearing, Sara acknowledged that

she had an alcohol problem. Upon her release from jail, Sara completed a

substance-abuse evaluation, which recommended outpatient treatment. She

started treatment and met weekly with a counselor, and she saw a psychiatrist to

adjust her mental-health medications.

Ultimately, the court determined DHS had appropriately managed the

situation and ensured the immediate safety of the children, which made a formal

change to the children’s physical care unnecessary and against their best interests. And, within ninety days of being placed with Jesse, DHS determined the

children could be returned to Sara. She had maintained her sobriety and, despite

completing her treatment, she voluntarily remained in counseling.

The day before the court denied Jesse’s petition for emergency relief, Jesse

filed an answer and counterclaim to Sara’s modification petition. The counterclaim,

similar to the application for emergency relief filed two weeks earlier, focused on

seeking a modification of the physical care arrangement. More than a month later,

Jesse applied for an entry of default judgment, asserting his counterclaim had gone

unanswered. Sara responded, stating Jesse had “engaged in a practice of filing

frivolous and inflammatory pleadings with the Court which appear to be designed,

in part, to cause [Sara] to incur significant attorney fees . . . .” She also, however,

responded to the counterclaim, stating she was complying with DHS and remained

sober. The court explained that if Sara ever was in default, she had responded

and so the pending default application should be denied. Jesse applied for an

interlocutory appeal, which our supreme court denied.

The communication between Sara and Jesse continued to deteriorate,

though; so in January 2021, Sara petitioned for a temporary injunction. The court

granted the petition, which prevented Jesse from “[t]hreatening, assaulting,

stalking, attacking, harassing, or otherwise contacting [Sara] in any manner either

directly or through third-persons anywhere within the State of Iowa” or

“[c]ommunicating with or contacting [Sara] in person, in writing, or through third-

persons.” The injunction did not affect Jesse’s visitation and allowed for limited

communication pertaining to the children. Pursuant to Iowa Rule of Civil Procedure 1.1509 (2021), Jesse moved to

dissolve the temporary injunction and the court held a hearing to determine

whether to dissolve, vacate, or modify it. Sara testified at the hearing that Jesse

repeatedly threatened to file contempt actions against her, sent people to watch

her home when he thought she had taken the children out of state, and showed up

at her door to “serve” her papers while videotaping her. At a doctor appointment

for one of the children, when COVID-19 restrictions allowed for only one parent in

the examination room, Jesse made a scene that led to the receptionist calling the

police. Overall, Sara maintained that even seeing a text message from Jesse on

her phone caused her great stress and anxiety. In the week that the temporary

injunction had been in place, she testified, she felt far calmer.

At the temporary injunction hearing, Jesse, appearing pro se, began

questioning Sara, asking if messages she had sent him “were legitimate” and

arguing her messages did not reflect fear of him. She explained, though, that he

was controlling and overbearing. Outside of his questioning of Sara, Jesse did not

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