In re the Marriage of Bhati and Singh

CourtAppellate Court of Illinois
DecidedDecember 15, 2009
Docket1-08-2388 Rel
StatusPublished

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Opinion

SECOND DIVISION December 15, 2009

No. 1-08-2388

In re the MARRIAGE OF MEETA BHATI, ) Appeal from the Petitioner-Appellant, ) Circuit Court of ) Cook County and ) ) AJAY SINGH, ) No. 03 D 10890 Respondent-Appellee. ) ) ) Honorable Mark J. Lopez, ) Judge Presiding.

JUSTICE KARNEZIS delivered the opinion of the court:

Petitioner Meeta Bhati appeals from an order of the circuit court in favor of

respondent Ajay Singh, denying her petition for removal of the parties' minor child,

Sonia, to North Carolina, pursuant to section 609(a) of the Illinois Marriage and

Dissolution of Marriage Act (720 ILCS 5/609(a) (West 2006)) (Act).

BACKGROUND

The following facts were taken from the testimony at the hearing on the removal

petition, which occurred in the summer of 2008, as well as from the record on appeal.

The parties, who are both of Indian descent, were married in 1995 in India. Ajay was

living in the Chicago area at the time of the marriage and Meeta moved from India to

Chicago after the wedding. They purchased a two bedroom townhome in Schaumburg,

in which they resided, and Sonia was born in October 2001. Meeta discontinued 1-08-2388

working when Sonia was born and became a stay-at-home mother. Ajay worked for

United Airlines, as he continues to do to this day, and currently receives a yearly salary

of approximately $400,000. In October 2003, Meeta filed for divorce and the parties

entered into a joint parenting agreement in May 2004. The judgment for dissolution of

marriage was entered in July 2005. Meeta currently works for RSM McGladrey and

earns a yearly salary of approximately $60,000. Meeta and Sonia reside in the

townhome and Ajay resides in the nearby suburb of Arlington Heights. Ajay remarried

in December 2006. Sonia primarily resides with Meeta, but resides with Ajay every

other weekend from Thursday night to Monday morning and every other Wednesday

night to Thursday morning. The parties alternate holidays and Ajay has three weeks of

vacation time with Sonia during the summer. Sonia attends Schaumburg Christian

School and just completed first grade. She attends daycare during the day when she is

not at school. The daycare is located only a few minutes from Meeta's home. During

the school year, Meeta takes Sonia to school, which starts at 8 a.m., and is located

about 20 to 25 minutes from their home. When school ends about 2:45 p.m., Sonia

takes a school bus to her daycare until Meeta picks her up between 5:30 and 6:30 p.m.

During the summer, Meeta brings Sonia to daycare between 8 and 8:30 a.m. and picks

her up between 5:30 and 6:30 p.m. When Sonia resides with Ajay, he or his wife brings

Sonia to school or daycare or picks her up from school or daycare. The parties'

numerous e-mails in the record indicate that they often disagree as to when Sonia

should be picked up and dropped off, at the times when the exchange does not occur

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at school or daycare.

Meeta testified at the hearing that when she picks up Sonia from daycare, they

come home, make dinner, do homework and then go to bed. She stated that this

schedule does not allow Sonia much time for extracurricular activities or playdates with

friends, although Sonia is enrolled in a dance class that meets on Tuesday evenings.

Meeta noted that Sonia does have several friends at school, but does not have

playdates with them. However, Sonia does sometimes have playdates with her friends

from daycare. Meeta stated that Sonia does not have any friends in their neighborhood

because it consists mainly of townhomes where there are not any children her age.

Meeta also stated that the townhome only has a small patio and a very small yard,

which does not have much space for Sonia to play.

Meeta testified that since her divorce, she has felt like a "pariah" or social outcast

in the community. She noted that a single mother in Indian culture is ostracized and not

given much respect. As a single mother, Meeta receives few social invitations and

primarily socializes with other single mothers. Meeta is currently engaged to Dr. Viren

Desai, who is also of Indian descent. They met through an Indian social networking

website that brings people of Indian descent together for the purpose of marriage. She

and Dr. Desai first began communicating with one another in April 2006 and met in

person in May and became engaged that October. Dr. Desai is a physician who

resides in Fayetteville, North Carolina. He is also divorced and shares custody of his

two children who live nearby.

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Meeta stated that if the court granted her petition for removal, she would not

work and would be a stay-at-home mother to Sonia. Meeta and Sonia travel about

once a month to visit Dr. Desai in North Carolina and Sonia has become very close to

his daughter, Bianca, who is about two years older than her. Dr. Desai travels to

Schaumburg to visit Meeta and Sonia about once a month as well. The plane ride from

Chicago to Raleigh-Durham, North Carolina, is about 1 hour and 45 minutes long, and

then the drive to Fayetteville is about 1 hour long. Meeta described Dr. Desai's home

as a large, four bedroom, four bathroom home with a big backyard, swimming pool and

swing sets, located in a gated community of single family homes. Sonia would attend

Fayetteville Academy, a private school close to Dr. Desai's home, and where his two

children also attend. The school includes grades from kindergarten to twelfth grade

and offers many after school programs and sporting activities. Dr. Desai's office is also

located close to his home. He is a member of the country club in Fayetteville, which

has a golf course, tennis courts, swimming pool and dining facility. Dr. Desai has a

large family, which gets together frequently to celebrate various holidays and birthdays.

Meeta and Sonia have been welcomed into his family. Dr. Desai is also a member of

various Indian organizations in Fayetteville and Raleigh-Durham that often host social

gatherings.

Meeta testified that if she and Sonia were permitted to move to North Carolina,

they would be able to spend more time together because Sonia would not need to be in

daycare and Sonia would have more time for extracurricular activities and more of an

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opportunity to play with children from her school and the neighborhood. Meeta also

stated that Sonia will be able to observe Meeta in her new role as a married woman,

which Meeta thinks is important for Sonia. Meeta stated that Sonia and Bianca already

consider each other stepsisters and love one another.

Meeta further stated that to minimize the disruption of moving, she would ensure

that Sonia was available to visit with Ajay either in Chicago or in North Carolina as

much as possible. Meeta has a cellular telephone and a web camera that Ajay and

Sonia can use to communicate. Meeta stated that she would keep Ajay informed about

Sonia's school and her extracurricular activities. She also proposed that Sonia could

visit Ajay during her spring break, half her summer vacation and they could alternate

holidays as they currently do. Meeta denied threatening Ajay in any way if he did not

agree to the move to North Carolina.

On cross-examination, Meeta admitted that she enrolled Sonia in Schaumburg

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