In Re the Marriage of Angela Elaine Lyman and Trent Alan Lyman Upon the Petition of Angela Elaine Lyman, N/K/A Angela Elaine Bodholdt, and Concerning Trent Alan Lyman

Court of Appeals of Iowa·Decided October 15, 2014·No. 13-2005·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 13-2005

Filed October 15, 2014

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF ANGELA ELAINE LYMAN AND TRENT ALAN LYMAN

Upon the Petition of ANGELA ELAINE LYMAN, n/k/a ANGELA ELAINE BODHOLDT, Petitioner-Appellee,

And Concerning TRENT ALAN LYMAN, Respondent-Appellant.

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Wright County, Gregg R.

Rosenbladt, Judge.

A father appeals the court’s refusal to grant his petition to modify the physical care provisions of the dissolution decree. AFFIRMED.

Kimberley K. Baer and Maureen C. Cosgrove of the Baer Law Office, Des Moines, for appellant.

Mark D. Fisher of Nidey, Erdahl, Tindal & Fisher, P.L.C., and Monty Fisher, Fort Dodge, for appellee.

Considered by Potterfield, P.J., and Tabor and Mullins, JJ.

MULLINS, J.

Trent Lyman appeals the district court’s refusal to modify the physical care provisions of the dissolution decree. He asserts the court should have granted him physical care of the parties’ three children as he contends he proved a substantial change in circumstances has occurred and he can provide superior care. He also appeals the district court’s decision to modify the provisions of the decree addressing child support, uncovered medical expenses, and tax exemption. He claims the difference in the support obligation did not vary by ten percent or more, making a modification of those provisions improper. For the reasons stated below, we affirm the decision of the district court. I. Background Facts and Proceedings.

Trent Lyman and Angela Lyman, n/k/a Angela Bodholdt, were divorced in April 2006. They have three children: twin boys, who were thirteen at the time of the modification hearing, and a daughter, who was ten years old. The dissolution decree provided for Angela to have physical care with visitation to Trent.1 Since the dissolution, both Trent and Angela have remarried. Trent’s wife Genell has three children, who are close in age to the children at issue here and the children reside primarily with Genell and Trent. Angela and her husband Mike have no other children.

Both Trent and Angela continue to live in the same town. Angela completed the education that was contemplated at the time of the dissolution decree and now works a weekend shift, every other weekend, as a radiology

1 That decree was affirmed by this court. In re Marriage of Lyman, No. 06-0921, 2007 WL 1485207 (Iowa Ct. App. May 23, 2007).

technician. Trent is a veterinary research scientist and continues to work for the same employer as he did at the time of the dissolution decree, though his working hours have changed slightly.

The children are doing well in school and are highly involved in extracurricular activities with no behavioral issues. They are in good health, though the twins have sought medical attention for nocturnal enuresis. The parents have had disagreements on the correct treatment for this condition.

Trent filed the current modification action in July 2012, seeking physical care of the three children. He asserted Angela’s temper has been escalating over time establishing a substantial change in circumstances justifying placing the physical care of the children with him. Trial was conducted in October 2013.

The court heard testimony from the twins, who expressed a desire to live with their father. They described that their mother would scream and yell at them. One of the boys described his mother as “crazy” and “hurtful.” They also described incidents of physical aggression with their mother, but none of the incidents would qualify as physical abuse.2 They also described a recent incident where they decided to “run away”

from their mother’s house to their father’s house. The boys left their mother a note and called their father as they walked to their father’s house. Trent had

2 There was one reported child abuse assessment involving one of the twins and Angela. The assessment was initially classified as confirmed but not placed on the abuse registry. However, after an agency appeal, the parties reached a settlement, the assessment was changed to “not confirmed,” and the case was dismissed. While this appeal was concluded after the modification action, pursuant to an order of our supreme court, we take judicial notice of the agency order implementing the settlement agreement and dismissing the appeal.

Genell pick them up as they walked down the road and take them to his home. Angela called law enforcement to intervene, but the boys refused to go home. The boys eventually returned to Angela’s house the following day. One of the twins “ran away” to his father’s house a short time later after an altercation with Angela. The police became involved again, and the child returned to Angela’s home the next day after school.

In contrast, the twins describe their father as reasonable and not showing anger. However, all the children have been witness to, and been embarrassed by, verbal exchanges between the parents, particularly between Genell and Angela. These verbal exchanges have occurred at the children’s extracurricular activities and at a physician’s office. In addition, a multitude of emails, text messages, and voicemail messages were submitted into evidence in this case and showed the parties, particularly Angela and Genell, have a great deal of difficulty working through daily issues such as medical appointments, visitation adjustments, clothing exchanges, and extracurricular involvement.

In addition to hearing from the parties and their spouses, the court also heard testimony from those who work with Angela, Angela’s friends and acquaintances, and the law enforcement personnel who were involved when the twins ran away. No other person indicated they had observed Angela have any anger or temper issues.

The court also accepted the deposition testimony and report of Dr. Carroll Roland, who evaluated the children and Trent’s parenting skills. Dr. Roland did not perform a custody evaluation or make a recommendation as to which party

should have physical care. Dr. Roland did note the twins stated a preference to live with their father and the daughter wanted equal time with both parents. The testing administered to the children indicated their father as the “parent of choice.” While the children reported to him “anger episodes” involving Angela, Dr. Roland did not get any evidence from the children that he felt rose to the level of physical abuse requiring him, as a mandatory reporter, to contact the department of human services. There was also no indication that the children were coached or encouraged by Trent to act out when at Angela’s home.

The court issued its decision in November 2013, denying Trent’s request to grant him physical care. The court found the twins to be mature and articulate for their age. While the parents have a tense and competitive relationship, the court found their testimony truthful. The court found them to be competent, capable parents who were very involved with and concerned about their children’s lives and activities. The court gave the child protection assessment little to no weight, concluding Angela was not intentionally abusive toward the children. The incidents introduced by Trent to show Angela’s anger problems were not persuasive to the court. “While Angela may be more temperamental and emotional than Trent, when compared to the average person, her behaviors are certainly normal and no cause for concern.” Looking at the evidence as a whole, the court concluded Trent failed to meet his burden to prove a substantial change in circumstances to justify a modification of the physical care arrangement.

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