In re the Guardianship of Dameris L.

38 Misc. 3d 570
CourtNew York Surrogate's Court
DecidedDecember 31, 2012
StatusPublished
Cited by4 cases

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Bluebook
In re the Guardianship of Dameris L., 38 Misc. 3d 570 (N.Y. Super. Ct. 2012).

Opinion

OPINION OF THE COURT

Kristin Booth Glen, S.

This case presents the opportunity to reconcile an outmoded,1 constitutionally suspect2 statute, SCPA article 17-A, with the requirements of substantive due process and the internationally recognized human rights of persons with intellectual disabilities. History

On March 9, 2009, Cruz Maria S. filed a petition3 for guardianship of her then 29-year-old daughter, Dameris L. The certifications4 accompanying the petition showed Dameris to have mild to moderate mental retardation, and to be “functioning at the [572]*572mental age of a seven year old.” She is reported to “have poor receptive and expressive skills — [and, while] ambulatory and able to care for most of her grooming needs, she is highly dependent for all other needs, including medical and financial matters.” At the time Dameris was, sporadically, attending a day adult habilitation program run by AHRC where she was learning, and supervised in, cleaning tasks, particularly cleaning bathrooms.

On March 29, 2009, Dameris married Alberto R. at the Office of the Clerk in Kings County. Alberto had problems of his own, including a history of drug and substance abuse, mental illness and criminal charges.

In mid-May 2009, Cruz came to the court and requested expedited consideration of her petition because, she explained, Dameris was pregnant and due to give birth imminently. A hearing was immediately scheduled for May 20 and, on that date, Alberto appeared and informed the court of his recent marriage to Dameris. It was clear that this was now a struggle over control of Dameris between Cruz, who entirely disapproved of, and distrusted, Alberto, and Alberto, who had the same negative feelings about Cruz. Dameris, very visibly pregnant, showed flat affect, spoke haltingly and in a limited way, and, on all of the evidence adduced at the hearing, appeared incapable of caring for herself and her soon to be born baby.

None of the parties spoke English; both households, Cruz’s and Alberto’s, were supported entirely by government benefits including Supplemental Security Income (SSI).5 In order to obtain more information about the living situations and caretaking capacities of the contesting parties,6 the court hastily appointed a guardian ad litem, Raul Garcia, Esq.7

After an extremely helpful report from Garcia, the parties returned to court with the primary issue that of responsibility [573]*573for Dameris and the baby after she gave birth.8 The court again benefitted from pro bono services, this time from an expert mediator, Edward Bonsignore, Esq. On June 4, 2009, after a full day of mediation, the parties reached an agreement that provided for Dameris to reside with Alberto, but gave Cruz a substantial role after the baby’s birth, and continued contact and visitation at her home. The parties also agreed that, with the court’s approval, Alberto and Cruz would act as co-guardians for Dameris.

The case was adjourned with the guardianship clerk and a court attorney charged with following developments and monitoring the mediation agreement. On June 10, 2009, the baby, Damaris Cruz R, was born at Brooklyn Hospital, and Dameris and Alberto returned with her to Cruz’s apartment. Eventually, with some intermediate stops,9 and with home care assistance from AHRC, they settled in transitional homeless housing (subsidized by Housing Stability Plus) where, with full-time homemaker services, Dameris, Alberto and the baby were doing well. They returned to court on March 19, 2010, and again on October 5, 2010, when the court formally appointed Cruz and Alberto as co-guardians with Dameris’s consent.10

Despite some intermittent problems, things were going relatively well for the R. family until, as a result of the budget crisis, the subsidy program was cancelled, and Dameris and Alberto faced eviction.11 Cruz was visiting family in the Dominican Republic, as was her custom, and neither Alberto nor the court was able to reach her. Alberto had located rental housing in [574]*574Pottsville, Pennsylvania, near a cousin, and needed permission to move Dameris and the baby there.

On January 17, 2012, Alberto petitioned to revoke Cruz’s letters as co-guardian, returnable February 9, 2012. Cruz, who was served by substituted service, did not appear. At a special calendar, Alberto presented a proposed lease for a home in Potts-ville, and applications for benefits and services he had filed with Service Access & Management (SAM), a case management and crisis intervention service funded by Schuylkill County.

The court was able to reach the director of SAM by phone, and to fax certain records on file here that were necessary to process the applications. With this assurance, and in the absence of any viable housing alternative in New York, the court temporarily suspended Cruz’s letters and granted permission for temporary relocation to Pennsylvania. Alberto and Dameris were directed to return to court on December 4, 2012, by which time it was expected that Cruz would have returned to New York.

On December 4, 2012, all parties appeared, together with the now almost three-year-old Damaris (nicknamed Chi Chi) and Alberto’s nine-year-old daughter Bianca.12 SAM was working on obtaining services, but the family was basically functioning on its own, and doing well, utilizing support from Alberto’s cousin, and especially his wife, Margarita, who had previously worked for a different social services agency in Schuylkill County.

Dameris appeared much more confident and dealt appropriately and lovingly with both Chi Chi and Bianca. She revealed that she was, again, pregnant, although she and Alberto also informed the court that she planned to undergo a tubal ligation immediately after the baby was born. Questioned by the court, it was clear that Dameris understood what she had consented to, and why; she explained that she had made her decision after consultation with Alberto, the health care professionals, and Margarita, who had fully explained the procedure to her. Concerned about the availability of homemaking and child care services that Dameris would surely need when the new baby was born, the court continued the hearing to December 12 in order to obtain more information.

[575]*575On December 12, Cruz, Alberto, Dameris, Chi Chi and Bianca13 appeared. Because of conflicting appointments on December 11, 2012, Alberto and Dameris had missed a meeting with their social worker, Amy Hessron, so the necessary services were not yet in place. After a call from the court, the appointment with Ms. Hessron was rescheduled for December 18. Alberto and Cruz were directed to return to the court on December 19 for the continued hearing. The now visibly pregnant Dameris was excused. There was, however, opportunity to take testimony about Dameris’s current situation, which proved both enlightening and most encouraging.

Dameris had become friendly with nearby neighbors, who were assisting her in various ways, and whom she and Alberto had asked to serve as the new baby’s godparents.

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