In Re The Adoption Of: M.j.w.

438 P.3d 1244
CourtCourt of Appeals of Washington
DecidedApril 16, 2019
Docket50758-7
StatusPublished
Cited by8 cases

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Opinion

Filed Washington State Court of Appeals Division Two

April 16, 2019

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

DIVISION II

In the Matter of the Adoption of: No. 50758-7-II

M.J.W., a minor child. PUBLISHED OPINION

LEE, A.C.J. — Greg and Linda Minium appeal the trial court’s denial of their petition to

adopt their minor grandson, M.J.W. The Miniums argue that the trial court erred in allowing

M.J.W.’s paternal grandmother, Patti Shmilenko, to intervene in the adoption proceedings because

Patti1 had not petitioned to adopt M.J.W. herself. The Miniums also argue that the trial court

abused its discretion in denying their adoption petition because its ruling was based on speculation

and an erroneous finding that the adoption petition might impact an agreed residential schedule

order between the Miniums and Patti.

We agree that the trial court erred in allowing Patti to intervene in the adoption proceeding

as a matter of right, but we hold that the trial court did not abuse its discretion in allowing Patti to

intervene permissively. We also hold that the trial court did not abuse its discretion in finding that

adoption by the Miniums was not in M.J.W.’s best interests. Accordingly, we affirm.

1 Because multiple persons in this case share the last name Shmilenko, we refer to them individually by their first names and collectively as the Shmilenkos. We mean no disrespect. No. 50758-7-II

FACTS

A. PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND

M.J.W.’s parents were killed by a drunk driver in 2008, just days before his first birthday.

At the time of the accident, M.J.W. was under the care of his maternal grandparents, Linda and

Greg Minium.2

A month following the accident, the Miniums petitioned for custody of M.J.W. The

paternal grandparents, Patti and John Shmilenko, filed a response requesting regular visitation with

M.J.W. Tension ensued between the Miniums and Shmilenkos, but they agreed to a residential

schedule order in 2010.

The trial court entered the agreed residential schedule order, which provided that M.J.W.

would reside with the Miniums, as nonparental custodians, but would spend every Tuesday and

Thursday from 1:00 pm to 7:00 pm, and alternating weekends, with Patti until the age of five. The

2010 residential schedule order also provided that M.J.W. would split holidays, vacations, and

special occasions between the Miniums and Patti.

After agreeing to the 2010 residential schedule order, the Miniums attempted to limit the

Shmilenkos’ access to M.J.W., and Greg tried to “have the 2010 order thrown out of court.” 1

Verbatim Report of Proceedings (VRP) (June 6, 2017) at 135. The Miniums also refused to discuss

modification of the agreed order. And they refused mediation as required by the order. Patti filed

2 Because multiple persons in this case share the last name Minium, we refer to them individually by their first name and collectively as the Miniums. We mean no disrespect.

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suit to modify the agreed order, and the Minimums responded by filing a motion to vacate the

order. The trial court denied this motion.

In September 2014, the Miniums filed a petition to adopt M.J.W. Patti filed a motion to

intervene in the adoption proceedings on October 3. Patti argued that she could intervene as a

matter of right under CR 24(a) in order to protect her “legally cognizable rights with regard to the

parenting of [M.J.W.].” Clerk’s Papers (CP) at 194. She also argued that she could permissively

intervene under CR 24(b) because her rights under the 2010 residential schedule shared a common

question of law or fact to the adoption petition, which was determining the best interests of M.J.W.

The trial court granted Patti’s motion to intervene both as a matter of right and by permissive

intervention.

While the Miniums’ petition to adopt M.J.W. was pending, the Miniums and the

Shmilenkos entered into a modified residential schedule order on October 31, 2014. This order

provided that M.J.W. would visit with Patti on Tuesdays during the school year between 4:00 pm

and 6:30 pm, and would spend one to two weekends per month with Patti. Again, the residential

schedule order provided that M.J.W. would split his winter vacation, spring break, and summer

holiday between the Miniums and Patti. And M.J.W. would spend alternating holidays and special

occasions with the Miniums and Patti. There were no missed visits under the 2010 and 2014

residential schedule orders.

B. ADOPTION TRIAL

A trial was held on the merits of the Miniums’ adoption petition in June 2017. Several

family members and expert witnesses testified at trial.

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Richard Dillman, a licensed mental health counselor in Washington, testified that he began

treating M.J.W. for anxiety in January 2015. As part of his treatment, Dillman initially met with

M.J.W. and Linda together. During these visits, Linda mentioned adoption to Dillman, discussed

her litigation with Patti, and once accused Patti of drug use. At Linda’s request, Dillman wrote a

letter stating that the Shmilenkos had forced overnight visits on M.J.W., which had caused

M.J.W.’s anxiety. As a result of these discussions, Dillman developed a very negative view of the

Shmilenkos. Dillman later met the Shmilenkos and determined that he had developed an erroneous

view of them based on his discussions with Linda.

Dillman also testified that he had offered to act as a mediator between the Miniums and the

Shmilenkos because he believed that the antipathy between the parties was negatively impacting

M.J.W. The Shmilenkos were willing to go to mediation, but the Miniums were not.

During trial, Patti asked Dillman whether he believed the adoption might impact the

visitation schedule in effect between Patti and the Miniums. The trial court overruled the Miniums’

objection that such testimony would be speculative, and Dillman testified that absent a court order,

“the potential for [visitation] to change would definitely be there.” 6 VRP (June 14, 2017) at 763.

He also testified that based on the “antipathy” between the Miniums and the Shmilenkos, M.J.W.

would visit with the Shmilenkos far less frequently if the Miniums’ adoption petition was granted.

Jami Pannell, the guardian ad litem appointed by the trial court to represent M.J.W.’s

interests in this case, also testified. The trial court had ordered Pannell to investigate all matters

related to the parenting plan, including financial stability, emotional stability, home life, and

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whether M.J.W. had social and “familiar” support under the current plan. 5 VRP (June 13, 2017)

at 687.

Pannell testified that during her investigation, Linda stated that Patti was manipulative,

controlling, and unable to provide proper oversight for M.J.W. Pannell also noted that while

exchanging M.J.W. between their homes, the Miniums would refuse to smile at, look at, or speak

to the Shmilenkos. The tension during these exchanges caused M.J.W. to develop stomachaches.

Based on her interviews with the Miniums and the Shmilenkos, Pannell found that the

Shmilenkos had acted as “peacekeepers” in this case. 5 VRP (June 13, 2017) at 687. The

Shmilenkos attempted to hire a mediator and had received counseling on how to keep peace with

the Miniums. And M.J.W. had a very strong bond with both Patti and John. Pannell determined

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