In re: The Adoption of: K.A.M., J.A.M. v. P.E.U. (mem. dec.)

Indiana Court of Appeals·Decided November 28, 2016·No. 02A04-1603-AD-631·Published

Opinion

MEMORANDUM DECISION Pursuant to Ind. Appellate Rule 65(D), FILED this Memorandum Decision shall not be Nov 28 2016, 8:40 am

regarded as precedent or cited before any CLERK Indiana Supreme Court

court except for the purpose of establishing Court of Appeals and Tax Court

the defense of res judicata, collateral estoppel, or the law of the case.

ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT ATTORNEY FOR APPELLEE Thomas C. Allen Nicholas J. Hursh Fort Wayne, Indiana Shambaugh, Kast, Beck & Williams, LLP

Fort Wayne, Indiana

IN THE

COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA

In re: The Adoption of: November 28, 2016 K.A.M. Court of Appeals Case No.

02A04-1603-AD-631

Appeal from the Allen Superior J.A.M, Court Appellant-Respondent, The Honorable Charles F. Pratt, Judge

v.

Trial Court Cause No.

02D08-1405-AD-73

P.E.U., Appellee-Petitioner.

Robb, Judge.

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Case Summary and Issue

[1] J.M. (“Father”) and L.U. (“Mother”) share one child together, K.M. In 2012,

Mother married P.U. (“Stepfather”). Two years later, Stepfather filed a verified petition to adopt K.M. Father objected and filed a motion to contest the adoption, which the trial court denied. Father appeals the trial court’s order denying his petition to contest the adoption and raises one issue for our review, which we restate as whether there was sufficient evidence to support the trial court’s finding that Father’s consent to the adoption was not required. Concluding there is sufficient evidence to support the trial court’s finding consent to the adoption was not required, we affirm.

Facts and Procedural History [2] K.M. was born in 2005 to Mother and Father. Following K.M.’s birth, Mother

and Father lived together in Greencastle, Indiana, until July of 2006. Their relationship eventually ended, and for a short period, Mother moved to Fort Wayne to live with K.M.’s maternal grandfather. In December of 2006, Mother and Father rekindled their relationship for a brief period, but they separated again in March of 2007.

[3] Following their second separation, Mother moved out of Indiana. For about nine months following their separation, Mother lived in Grand Rapids, Michigan, with K.M.’s maternal grandmother; Father saw K.M. once during this period. Mother then moved to Camillus, New York, for nine months to

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 02A04-1603-AD-631 | November 28, 2016 Page 2 of 12 live with her sister. While she lived in New York, Mother established paternity for K.M. and was granted sole custody. Father drove to New York to visit K.M. on at least two occasions and would call sporadically to talk to Mother and K.M. on the phone.

[4] In 2008, Mother moved back to Fort Wayne. With Mother now living closer, Father had more opportunities to visit K.M. In 2008 and 2009, Mother and Father worked together and made arrangements for Father to visit K.M. on numerous occasions, with Mother driving K.M. to Indianapolis at least seven times. In addition, Father called Mother and K.M. a few times each month. In 2010, Mother began dating Stepfather and eventually moved in with him. Father visited K.M. a “handful of times, . . . maybe six . . . times” in 2010. Transcript at 17-18.

[5] In July of 2011,1 Father visited K.M. for a few hours and they played laser tag together. A few months later, Father spoke with K.M. on the phone. Father has had no contact, in person or otherwise, with K.M. since 2011. Father asserts he has not communicated with K.M because Mother would not allow it. Father claims that since Mother moved in with Stepfather, her willingness to allow communication with K.M. has slowly diminished. For example, in 2011 Mother blocked Father’s cell phone number from her phone, and blocked him

1 Father’s deposition states his last visit with K.M. was in January of 2011. However, at trial, both Father and Mother testified his last visit with K.M. was in July of 2011.

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 02A04-1603-AD-631 | November 28, 2016 Page 3 of 12 and his mother from contacting her via Facebook.2 Further, Father testified since Mother blocked him from her Facebook account, and his e-mail account is linked to his Facebook account, Mother’s e-mail contact was subsequently blocked as well. He also testified Mother refused to provide him with her address since she moved in with Stepfather, and she instructed him that if he ever wished to send a gift to K.M. he must send it to K.M.’s grandparent’s house first.

[6] In response, Mother testified she did not stop Father from contacting K.M., he just stopped making the effort and his already sporadic communication began occurring less frequently. While she admitted she blocked Father from contacting her via her cell phone and Facebook account, she testified the cell phone block was temporary, only lasting for forty days in 2011. Further, Mother testified Father called her cell phone in 2012 to congratulate her on her marriage to Stepfather. The conversation lasted about an hour, and they talked about K.M. for about ten minutes. Father admits they spoke in 2012, but testified the conversation took place over Mother’s home telephone.

[7] In October of 2012, Father drove to Fort Wayne and lived in a hotel for a month while seeking employment. Father stated he intended to relocate to Fort Wayne to be closer to K.M. However, because Father was unable to locate

2 Father testified Mother’s cell phone block lasted until Stepfather filed his petition for adoption in May of 2014, and that he is still blocked from contacting Mother via Facebook.

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K.M. or find employment, he returned to Indianapolis. Father admits that he had no contact with K.M. in 2012, 2013, or 2014.

[8] On May 29, 2014 Stepfather filed a verified petition to adopt K.M. Father subsequently filed a motion to contest the adoption, arguing he did not consent to the adoption. Stepfather countered that Father’s consent was not required because Father lacked prior communication with K.M. for a period of more than one year. Following an evidentiary hearing on the matter, the trial court denied Father’s motion to contest the adoption. The trial court issued findings of fact and conclusions, which read, in relevant part:

[T]he Court finds that:

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15. Between 2010 and 2011, [Mother] maintained Facebook communication with [Father]. During their exchanges [Mother]

encouraged [Father] to visit [K.M.]. Often plans could not be completed because [Father’s] cell phone was turned off. From a review of [Stepfather’s] Exhibit 2 the Court finds that [Mother]

would become irritated with [Father]. They would argue, she would deny a visit, and, then, she would relent. This pattern followed until she blocked him on Facebook on or about June 2011.

16. [Father] was present for [K.M.’s] first day in kindergarten and knew that he was enrolled in Haverhill Elementary School.

He claims that he was not able to enter the school and that the school officials did not have him listed as a contact.

17. [Father’s] last personal visit with [K.M.] was on January 7, 2011. He had a few telephone contacts thereafter until September or October 2011 when [Mother] blocked him from calling her cell phone.

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 02A04-1603-AD-631 | November 28, 2016 Page 5 of 12 18. From [Mother’s] deposition testimony the Court finds that [Mother] blocked [Father] from her cell phone because he called “over and over in the middle of the night[.]”

19. The parties dispute the length of time that [Father] was blocked from [Mother’s] cell phone . . . . Another number was not blocked. [Mother] asserts that the block was for a period of forty (40) days. [Father] testified that the block continued until the date of the filing of the petition for adoption. [Father] acknowledges that he talked to [Mother] by cell phone in 2012. Thus, the evidence supports [Mother’s] testimony.

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