In re: S.I.D.-M.

CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedMarch 21, 2023
Docket22-503
StatusPublished

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Opinion

An unpublished opinion of the North Carolina Court of Appeals does not constitute controlling legal authority. Citation is disfavored, but may be permitted in accordance with the provisions of Rule 30(e)(3) of the North Carolina Rules of Appellate Procedure.

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA

No. COA22-503

Filed 21 March 2023

Cabarrus County, No. 20-JT-109

IN THE MATTER OF: S.I.D.-M.

Appeal by petition for writ of certiorari by respondent-father from order

entered 18 March 2022 by Judge Christy E. Wilhelm in District Court, Cabarrus

County. Heard in the Court of Appeals 21 February 2023.

Richard Croutharmel, for respondent-appellant-father.

No brief for petitioner-appellee-mother.

STROUD, Chief Judge.

Respondent-father appeals from an order terminating his parental rights for

willfully abandoning his child. Father argues he did not willfully abandon his child

because he attempted to reach out to Mother by email, through the parties’ attorneys,

two weeks before the termination petition was filed. Because clear, cogent, and

convincing evidence exists in the record to support the trial court’s findings of fact,

and the trial court’s findings support its conclusion that the minor child was an IN RE: S.I.D.-M.

Opinion of the Court

abandoned juvenile, the trial court’s termination of Father’s parental rights is

affirmed.

I. Background

Sidney1 was born to Mother and Father in February 2018. Mother and Father

were never married. In a previous custody proceeding in Mecklenburg County,

Mother was granted full custody of Sidney with scheduled visitation for Father.

Venue of the custody proceeding was later transferred to Cabarrus County.

In early August 2019, Father “attempted suicide and was hospitalized for

mental health purposes.” On 13 August 2019, Mother secured an ex parte custody

order suspending Father’s visitation. Mother also filed a motion to modify visitation,

and on 28 August 2019, the District Court in Cabarrus County entered a written

order extending the ex parte order and suspending Father’s visitation (the “Order

Suspending Visitation”) until he “presents himself to the Court and shows just cause

as to why his visits should be reinstated.”2 The relevant portions of the Order

Suspending Visitation, which is not at issue on appeal, state:

FINDING AS FACT

....

3. An ex parte order was entered herein on or about August 13, 2019;

1 A pseudonym is used. 2 The original custody order is not in the record on appeal, but the petition made detailed allegations regarding the Custody Order and the Order Suspending Visitation, and Father admitted these allegations in his answer.

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4. The Cabarrus County Department of Social Services has opened an investigation and has been unable to locate the [Father];

5. Service by the Sheriff was returned unserved and [Mother] has no information regarding [Father]’s present whereabouts;

6. [Father]’s mental stability is in question and it would be contrary to the minor child’s best interest for him to have visitation at this time.

Based on these Findings of Fact, the Court hereby makes the following:

CONCLUSIONS OF LAW

2. This temporary order is in the best interest of the minor child.

And based on these Findings of Fact and Conclusions of Law:

IT IS HEREBY ORDERED ADJUDGED AND DECREED as follows:

1. [Father]’s visitation with the minor child [Sidney] is suspended until such time as he presents himself to the Court and shows just cause as to why his visits should be reinstated.

Father was unable to return to work for several months because of his mental health

issues but his therapist eventually approved his return to work in March 2020.

On 24 July 2020, Mother filed a “Petition for Termination of Parental Rights”

(the “Petition”) in the District Court, Cabarrus County. The Petition recited basic

facts about the parties, that Mother had full custody of Sidney and Father had

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visitation, and then alleged:

7. Petitioner alleges that the following facts establish grounds for the [Father]’s parental rights to be terminated:

a. Pursuant to 7B–1111(a)(4), [Father] has willfully failed without justification to adequately pay for the care, support, and education of the juvenile in that he has fallen behind on his child support obligation and currently has an arrearage of approximately $2,500.00.

b. Pursuant to 7B–1111(a)(6), [Father] is incapable of providing for the proper care and supervision of the juvenile in that:

i. On or about August 2, 2019, [Father] attempted suicide by jumping off [a bridge]. [Father] was saved by a Charlotte-Mecklenburg Police Officer. He was then escorted by ambulance to Novant–Mill Hill where he was hospitalized for a mental health evaluation.

c. Pursuant to 7B–1111(a)(7), [Father] has willfully abandoned the juvenile for at least six consecutive months immediately preceding the filing of this petition based upon the following:

i. Respondent has not visited with the child since July 2019;

ii. Since the Order on August 28, 2019, [Father] has not made any efforts to reach out to [Mother] about the minor child nor has he filed anything in the Chapter 50 Action to have his visitation reinstated;

iii. Respondent has at all times known how to

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contact [Mother] either via phone or email. [Father] knows [Mother]’s residential address as well as how to contact [Mother] through her family[.]

Father filed an answer 10 September 2020 admitting the allegations regarding

the parties’ and child’s residences, the parties’ status as parents of the child, and

allegations regarding the prior custody action and the Order Suspending Visitation.

Father denied the remaining allegations of the Petition. As to the grounds for

termination, Father’s answer stated:

7. The allegations contained in Paragraph 7 are denied. a. Denied as to willfulness. [Father] was out of work following his mental health crisis and began to resume his child support payments upon returning to work. b. Admitted as to the incident [of attempted suicide], but denied as to a continual issue that would render [Father] incapable of providing for the proper care and supervision of the juvenile following his treatment after his mental health crisis. c. Denied as to willfulness. i. Admitted as to time [Father] has not seen his child. ii. Denied. [Father] obtained counsel and reached out via counsel as to what documentation was needed to resume visits on July 13, 2020 and Petitioner responded by filing to terminate his rights on July 23, 2020. iii. [Father] has [Mother’s] email and was communicating with her via email through at least August 2019 about their child.

A Guardian ad litem (“GAL”) was appointed 15 September 2020 and the hearing was

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continued until 27 October 2020.3 The Termination of Parental Rights (“TPR”)

hearing was then repeatedly continued before ultimately being set for 21 February

2022.

Our dissenting colleague notes that the TPR hearing was “inexplicably”

delayed, and while we agree the record does not fully explain all the continuances, it

does include all the relevant motions and orders. We also note Father did not raise

any argument on appeal as to any continuance or the trial court’s denial of his motion

to continue filed just before the final hearing. In fact, the delay would have served

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