In re: R.B.

CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedDecember 7, 2021
Docket21-285
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA

2021-NCCOA-654

No. COA21-285

Filed 7 December 2021

Rockingham County, No. 20 JA 108

IN THE MATTER OF R.B.

Appeal by Respondent from order entered 1 February 2021 by Judge Erica S.

Brandon in Rockingham County District Court. Heard in the Court of Appeals 6

October 2021.

Lisa Anne Wagner for Respondent-Appellant-Mother.

Stam Law Firm, PLLC, by R. Daniel Gibson, for Guardian ad Litem.

No brief filed on behalf of Rockingham County Department of Social Services, Petitioner-Appellee.

WOOD, Judge.

¶1 Respondent-Mother appeals an order adjudicating her minor child, Riley,1

neglected and dependent and continuing non-secure custody with Rockingham

County Department of Social Services (“DSS”). On appeal, Respondent-Mother

contends the trial court erred in adjudicating Riley neglected and dependent and

1 A pseudonym is used to protect the identity of the juvenile(s). See N.C. R. App. P.

42. IN RE R.B.

Opinion of the Court

abused its discretion in continuing non-secure custody with DSS. After careful review

of the record and applicable law, we reverse the adjudication order.

I. Factual and Procedural Background

¶2 Respondent-Mother has one child, Riley, born on August 15, 2017.

Respondent-Mother has a history of depression and anxiety. In December 2019,

Respondent-Mother was having difficulty getting Riley to sleep independently and

called several friends and a parenting hotline for support. Respondent-Mother felt

overwhelmed and exhausted and believed it would be best for another adult to be in

the home until she rested. Ultimately, Respondent-Mother called 9-1-1 due to her

exhaustion.2 Law enforcement arrived to Respondent-Mother’s residence, and “didn’t

see a problem in the home.”

¶3 Thereafter, one of Respondent-Mother’s friends picked Riley up and kept him

for a few days. During this time, Respondent-Mother voluntarily underwent a mental

health evaluation and began therapy. Another friend of Respondent-Mother’s

traveled from Baltimore to stay with Respondent-Mother “in the event that it was

determined” Respondent-Mother needed supervision. Shortly thereafter, Riley

returned to Respondent-Mother’s care.

2 Respondent-Mother testified she called 9-1-1 “out of an abundance of caution,” and

that law enforcement officers “were confused as to why [she] called them.” Respondent- Mother further testified that law enforcement officers did not see a problem in the home. IN RE R.B.

¶4 Also in December 2019, Respondent-Mother befriended Ms. D. Ms. D and her

four-year-old daughter resided with Respondent-Mother for approximately one

month during the Covid-19 pandemic. After Ms. D moved out of Respondent-Mother’s

residence, Respondent-Mother had additional difficulty getting Riley to sleep

independently. Respondent-Mother attempted to arrange respite care for Riley but

these arrangements fell through for various reasons.

¶5 On June 7, 2020, Respondent-Mother was suffering from exhaustion and

depression.3 Respondent-Mother texted Ms. D, “I have two black eyes4 from him

kicking me in the head. He has been screaming and banging on the door all night

and I have not slept in 22 hours and I swear to God I think I’m going to kill him.”

Respondent-Mother further texted that she “want[ed] to strangle the [expletive

omitted] lights out of him”; she“[expletive omitted] hate[d] his guts [she] hated the

[expletive omitted] guts and [she] hope[d] he [expletive omitted] chokes a [expletive

omitted] hate every never lets me sleep”; she “hate[d] being a mom it’s the worst”;

and Riley “could fend for himseld [sic] and [she] wil sray [sic] in [her] room.”

Respondent-Mother expressed her frustration to Ms. D and her feeling that no one

understood the difficulty she was experiencing. Specifically, Respondent-Mother

3 Respondent-Mother testified she was “deeply-depressed and sleep-deprived.” 4 Respondent-Mother did not have two black eyes on June 7, 2020. IN RE R.B.

sent a text message to Ms. D stating, “Everyone keeps just telling me that it’s normal

and I’m [sic] keep telling everybody that I literally had my hands around his throat

because I can’t [expletive omitted] take it anymore but nobody wants to hear it.”5

¶6 Ms. D testified that she “didn’t take [Respondent-Mother’s messages]

literally,”6 and did not believe Respondent-Mother would harm Riley or herself at the

time she received the text messages. Respondent-Mother testified these messages

were “hyperbole and blowing off steam.” After Respondent-Mother sent Ms. D these

messages, Riley went to stay with Ms. D for approximately one week. Respondent-

Mother periodically messaged Ms. D throughout the week to inquire about Riley’s

well-being and picked Riley up on June 14, 2020. Ms. D later testified that she had

some reservations about returning Riley to Respondent-Mother’s care, “not because

[Ms. D] didn’t think that she could do it. [Ms. D] just didn’t think she could do it at

that time” due to her mental state. Nonetheless, she ultimately returned Riley to the

care of Respondent-Mother, because “she’s the mother. And ultimately, [Ms. D is]

just another human being. It’s not for [her] to say. [She] can only have an opinion

and that doesn’t make [her] the person who can make the decision.”

5 Additional text messages included hyperbolic language, including that Riley

“ripped the door off the hinges.” 6 When asked, “[Y]ou didn’t take [Respondent-Mother] seriously about what she

said?”, Ms. D testified “I mean, obviously, I took it as she was frustrated.” Ms. D further testified, “Oh no. God, no. I didn’t take it literally,” when asked if she believed Respondent- Mother stated she would kill Riley. IN RE R.B.

¶7 Shortly after Riley returned to Respondent-Mother’s care, Respondent-Mother

and Ms. D got into an argument unrelated to Riley’s care. Around this same time,

Ms. D was contacted by DSS, and she provided DSS with screenshots of Respondent-

Mother’s text messages from June 7, 2020.

¶8 On June 17, 2020, social workers visited Respondent-Mother’s home.

Respondent-Mother did not allow the social worker into her home, but allowed Ms.

N, a community behavioral health counselor, into the residence. Ms. N spent

approximately thirty minutes in Respondent-Mother’s residence talking to her before

determining Respondent-Mother did not need to be involuntarily committed.

¶9 After Ms. N exited the residence, she, the social worker, and law enforcement

remained in Respondent-Mother’s driveway discussing the visit. Ms. N, the social

worker, and law enforcement sat in their vehicles for approximately two and a half

hours before the social worker took non-secure custody of Riley. Riley was

temporarily placed in foster care before returning to Respondent-Mother’s residence

with Respondent-Mother under the supervision of his maternal grandmother.

¶ 10 After Riley was temporarily removed from Respondent-Mother’s care, she

contacted her therapist and voluntarily underwent a psychological evaluation. Her

therapist recommended she continue therapy and comply with all of DSS’s

recommendations. In response to her therapist’s recommendations, Respondent-

Mother continued therapy throughout the adjudication. IN RE R.B.

¶ 11 On June 17, 2020, more than a week after Respondent-Mother sent Ms. D the

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