In Re: Parenting Of M.o., Wairimu Kiambuthi v. Toll Obuon

CourtCourt of Appeals of Washington
DecidedNovember 13, 2017
Docket75563-3
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON DIVISION ONE

In the Matter of the Marriage of No. 75563-3-1 WAIRIMU KIAMBUTHI,

Respondent, UNPUBLISHED OPINION and

TOLL OBUON,

Appellant. FILED: November 13, 2017

SCHINDLER, J. — Toll Obuon and Wairimu Kiambuthi are parents of 11-year-old

M.O. Kiambuthi filed a motion to relocate from Seattle to Snohomish County. The court

granted the request. Obuon appeals the final order and findings on objection to relocation.

Because the record establishes the court considered each of the statutory relocation

factors, we affirm.

Kiambuthi is from Nairobi, Kenya, and Obuon is from Migori, Kenya. Kiambuthi and

Obuon began dating in 2004 while living in New York City. Their daughter M.O. was born

in 2006. In August 2007, Kiambuthi moved to Seattle with M.O. Obuon remained in New

York. Kiambuthi and Obuon married in 2008. Obuon moved to Seattle in March 2009.

The parties separated in 2012. In December 2012, Kiambuthi moved with M.O. to Nairobi

to work at the World Bank and take care of her father. Kiambuthi and M.O. traveled back

to Seattle two times in 2013 to visit Obuon and Kiambuthi's mother. No. 75563-3-1/2

In December 2013, Kiambuthi and Obuon filed a joint petition for dissolution. The

court entered the decree in July 2014. The parenting plan allowed Kiambuthi to return to

Nairobi with M.O. indefinitely. But the parenting plan required Kiambuthi to travel to the

United States with M.O. to visit Obuon when school holidays were longer than three

weeks. Because she needed to stay in Seattle to take care of her mother, Kiambuthi did

not return to Nairobi. Kiambuthi taught part-time at Bellevue College.

In November 2014, Kiambuthi met Matthew Sumrell. Sometime in early 2015, M.O.

told Obuon about Sumrell. While driving in the car, Obuon asked M.O. about the

relationship. M.O. said Obuon slammed on the brakes and she hit her head on the

dashboard. Obuon told M.O. to stop calling Sumrell "Daddy Matt." Obuon said he would

choke Sumrell if Sumrell ever disciplined M.O. M.O. later told a teacher at church she was

afraid to go to Obuon's house and "'I feel like I wish I was dead.'"

In the fall of 2015, the parties agreed to a "split parenting" arrangement with M.O.

staying overnight on Tuesdays and Wednesdays at Obuon's apartment.

Kiambuthi and Sumrell married around December 2015. Kiambuthi filed a motion

to relocate M.O.from Seattle to Snohomish County near Bothell and to modify the

parenting plan to allow M.O. to live in Snohomish during the school week. Obuon objected

to the motion for relocation and requested the court enter a "50/50 parenting plan." The

court granted the request to relocate temporarily to Snohomish County. Kiambuthi,

Sumrell, and M.O. moved on June 9, 2016.

The three-day trial began on July 18, 2016. Kiambuthi and Obuon represented

themselves pro se. Kiambuthi stipulated to the admission of exhibits. Several witnesses

testified, including Kiambuthi, Obuon, Sumrell, and Pastor Dan Johnson.

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Kiambuthi testified she "put great consideration for [M.0.]" in determining where to

relocate. Kiambuthi said the public school M.O. will attend in the fall is a "nine-out-of-ten

score." M.O. would be entering the fifth grade and is "going to be tested to see whether

she's highly capable" and eligible for a gifted program. Kiambuthi testified Obuon lacked

"consistency in some of[M.O.'s] homework" and when M.O. returned from visits with

Obuon,"homework would be lost."

Kiambuthi testified that after Obuon learned of her relationship with Sumrell, co-

parenting was "impossible." Obuon became "fixated on what was going on in my home"

and "put extreme pressure on [M.O.]to extract information." Kiambuthi said that M.O. was

afraid of Obuon, that she would return home in tears, and that she was "overly fearful" of

upcoming visits.

Sumrell testified M.O. cried after returning from staying with Obuon. M.O. told

Sumrell,"'Please don't send me back. I don't want to go back. I'm afraid of my father, I'm

afraid of my daddy.'"

Obuon testified M.O.'s private school in Seattle is a "very good school" and he

wanted M.O. to remain enrolled there. Obuon said Kiambuthi organizes M.O.'s medical

appointments, education, and social activities, and said he "left most of those things to

[Kiambuthi]." Obuon said he allowed M.O. to live in Nairobi with Kiambuthi from 2012 to

2014 because the child is "much better... being closer to the mother." Obuon agreed to

the original parenting plan that allowed M.O. to live in Kenya because Kiambuthi would "be

coming back and forth."

Dan Johnson testified he is the pastor at the church Kiambuthi and Obuon

attended. Johnson observed the family interact in their home "a number of times."

Johnson said Kiambuthi has a "very loving, encouraging relationship" with M.O. Johnson

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testified he did not notice any discord between Obuon and M.O. and M.O. seemed "safe

with her dad."

The court found Kiambuthi and Obuon "both care very deeply" for M.O. but

recognized the "presumption that the party asking to relocate is granted the relocation."

The court found relocation to Snohomish County is not a "significant change" because

Kiambuthi's new residence is not far from Seattle and "not more than five miles from

Bothell." The court found M.O. will have "a much more stable home base for schooling,

and for... her development," if she relocates with Kiambuthi to Snohomish County. The

court also noted Obuon could move "to be closer to the child."

After granting the request to relocate, the trial court addressed the parenting plan

"to see if the parenting plan should change." The court amended the parenting plan to

allow M.O. to live with Kiambuthi in Snohomish during the school week and visit Obuon

every other weekend.

The court entered a final order and findings on relocation and an amended

parenting plan.

Appeal

Obuon appeals the final order and findings on relocation. Obuon also argues on

appeal the court erred by entering the amended parenting plan. But the notice of appeal

designates and attaches only the final order and findings on relocation. Obuon did not

designate the amended parenting plan. A notice of appeal must designate the decisions

the party wants reviewed. RAP 5.3(a)(3).

We will review an order not designated in the notice of appeal if "the order or ruling

prejudicially affects the decision designated in the notice." RAP 2.4(b)(1). An order

prejudicially affects the decision designated where the order "would not have happened

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but for" the undesignated order. Right-Price Recreation, LLC v. Connells Prairie Cmty.

Council, 146 Wn.2d 370, 378-80, 46 P.3d 789(2002)(citing Adkins v. Alum. Co. of Am.,

110 Wn.2d 128, 134-35, 750 P.2d 1257, 756 P.2d 142(1988)); Franz v. Lance, 119 Wn.2d

780, 782, 836 P.2d 832(1992)).

The record shows the court did not amend the parenting plan until after granting the

motion to relocate.

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