In re Parentage of M.F.

CourtCourt of Appeals of Kansas
DecidedDecember 23, 2022
Docket124911
StatusUnpublished

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In re Parentage of M.F., (kanctapp 2022).

Opinion

NOT DESIGNATED FOR PUBLICATION

No. 124,911

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF KANSAS

In the Matter of the Parentage of M.F., By and Through K.L., Appellant,

and

T.F., Appellee.

MEMORANDUM OPINION

Appeal from Butler District Court; DAVID A. RICKE, judge. Opinion filed December 23, 2022. Affirmed.

Valerie L. Moore, of Vinton Moore, of Lenexa, for appellant.

Christopher J. Vinduska, of Klenda Austerman LLC, of Wichita, for appellee.

Before ARNOLD-BURGER, C.J., HILL and SCHROEDER, JJ.

PER CURIAM: This is an appeal of an order that denied any relief to the petitioner, K.L., who seeks a court declaration of her parentage of a young girl, M.F. A close examination of the issues she raises reveals that K.L. is asking us to reweigh the evidence and reverse the trial court. This we will not do. We affirm.

The history of this case provides context and perspective. K.L.'s initial petition was denied by the district court. K.L. appealed to this court and the district court's decision was affirmed. Upon review, the Kansas Supreme Court reversed both courts and

1 remanded the case to the district court with directions to use the correct legal test. Upon remand, the district court at first granted relief to K.L. but later reversed its order upon a motion for reconsideration filed by T.F., the birth mother of M.F. We are now considering K.L.'s appeal of that order.

Once close, this couple slowly parted.

The record from the trial of this matter is uncontested. K.L. and T.F. were in a committed same-sex relationship from 2007 to 2014. They owned a home and lived together. T.F. always wanted children and began considering artificial insemination in 2012.

They both attended a preinsemination session with social worker Renee Cristiano in November 2012. Cristiano's report said the couple planned to be coparents and that their families supported T.F.'s decision to have K.L. appointed as guardian. T.F. later disputed these statements at trial. T.F. said K.L. went with her to see Cristiano because it was a requirement of insemination if you lived with someone else.

T.F.'s first attempt at artificial insemination failed. T.F. selected the sperm donor on her own, went to the appointments on her own, and did not tell K.L. she was being inseminated. T.F. later testified that the decision to become pregnant was not mutual.

T.F.'s second attempt at artificial insemination was successful. But the parties disagree on how involved K.L. was in the process. K.L. says she helped select the donor because he was Hispanic like her. K.L. was present for the successful procedure. T.F. testified that she alone chose the sperm donor.

2 A daughter, M.F., was born in October 2013. K.L. was at the hospital with T.F. when M.F. was born. K.L. was given a hospital bracelet that identified her as a parent and the couple provided the hospital a birth plan that said K.L. was the baby's other parent.

The couple had never entered into a written parenting agreement. When M.F. was born, K.L.'s last name was used as a second middle name on the birth certificate. T.F. later testified that she felt pressure from K.L. to use her name. T.L. later unilaterally dropped K.L.'s last name from the baby's name.

In November 2014, T.F.—along with 13-month-old M.F.—moved out of the couple's home in Andover and relocated in Inman, Kansas. K.L. testified that it was hard for her to see M.F. after the move because T.F. did not regularly respond to messages.

T.F. told K.L. that she could come to Inman to see M.F. but did not allow overnight stays. K.L. testified she did not go to Inman to see M.F. often because by the time she got there after work, M.F. would be going to bed. Eventually, T.F. would not let K.L. be around M.F. alone, requiring K.L.'s mother to accompany her.

In 2015, T.F. married and moved with M.F. to Nebraska. Shortly after that, K.L. petitioned the court to establish parentage, custody, visitation, and child support. K.L. asserted that she and T.F. are both M.F.'s mothers and asked the court to establish her maternity. In addition to what we have discussed above, K.L. testified that she and T.F. shared M.F.'s expenses "for the most part" and that after the couple broke up, she always offered to buy things for M.F. when she was at the store.

The record reveals several other points on K.L.'s behalf:

• The couple's former neighbor Kenneth Von Feldt submitted an affidavit that said T.F. and K.L. talked to him about having a baby together both before T.L. 3 got pregnant and while she was pregnant. Once M.F. was born, both women acted as her mother and T.F. referred to K.L. as "mom," "mommy," or "mama." T.F. also referred to K.L.'s mother as M.F.'s grandmother. • K.L.'s friend Janet Brown testified that K.L. and T.F. talked about motherhood together before M.F. was born. Brown testified she heard M.F. call K.L. mommy over the phone a week before the trial. • Dr. Thalia Lopez, the OB/GYN who provided T.F. with prenatal care, testified that K.L. and T.F. presented themselves as a couple having a baby together. Dr. Lopez understood that K.L. was M.F.'s other parent. • Denise Strickland, a nurse manager at the Birth Care Center where M.F. was born, testified that K.L. was with T.F. the whole time T.F. was in labor. The couple also used K.L.'s last name as one of M.F.'s middle names. • Jolinda Kelley testified that before T.F. was pregnant, she talked to T.F. and K.L. about the artificial insemination process because she had been through it. Kelley testified that the couple talked about parenting together and after M.F. was born, T.F. told Kelley she wanted another child but K.L. was satisfied with one. She testified that T.F. and K.L. introduced M.F. as their daughter and she had no doubt they were a family. • K.L. admitted into evidence the following: o A Mother's Day card T.F. had given her while T.F. was pregnant. T.F. wrote, "You will be a great mother." o A birthday card T.F. had given to her while T.F. was pregnant. T.F. addressed the card from "Little Feather,"—their nickname for M.F.—to "Mama K." The card read, "To My Mommy: I have two little arms and know just what they're for . . . hugging the Mommy I love and adore! Happy birthday from your little girl."

T.F. testified that she was M.F.'s only parent and she never presented K.L. as a coparent; K.L. was never M.F.'s mother. She said K.L. was her best friend and like an 4 aunt to M.F. She testified K.L. never had financial responsibility for M.F. and she did not know K.L. claimed to be a parent until she was served with K.L.'s petition. T.F. testified that she never wanted K.L.'s last name on the birth certificate and K.L. never used M.F.'s full name anyway so T.F. legally changed it.

T.F. testified that the year she and M.F. lived in Inman there was an open invitation for K.L. to visit M.F. and she visited only two times. T.F. presented evidence that she paid for the insemination and related costs, her and M.F.'s medical bills, and M.F.'s childcare.

T.F. testified about the Mother's Day card she sent K.L. while T.F. was pregnant. She said that she was trying to encourage K.L. to support the idea of T.F. having a baby, not represent that K.L. was a parent. T.F. said she called her "Mama K" because when she worked in an orphanage in Guatemala, all the women there were called "Mama" by the children.

T.F.'s witnesses testified as follows:

• Emily McVay testified that she considered T.F. the sole parent of M.F. She said only T.F. took care of M.F. and that M.F. never called K.L. "mom" or "mommy." • Edward Eagan, T.F.'s former boss, testified that T.F. told him K.L.

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