In Re Marriage of Weiss

42 Cal. App. 4th 106, 49 Cal. Rptr. 2d 339, 96 Cal. Daily Op. Serv. 711, 96 Daily Journal DAR 1054, 1996 Cal. App. LEXIS 73
CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedJanuary 31, 1996
DocketB083168
StatusPublished
Cited by45 cases

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In Re Marriage of Weiss, 42 Cal. App. 4th 106, 49 Cal. Rptr. 2d 339, 96 Cal. Daily Op. Serv. 711, 96 Daily Journal DAR 1054, 1996 Cal. App. LEXIS 73 (Cal. Ct. App. 1996).

Opinion

Opinion

KLEIN, P. J.

Martin Meyer Weiss (Martin), in propria persona, appeals a further judgment on reserved issues, involving the religious upbringing of *109 the child (the minor) bom of his marriage to Marsha Nadeen Weiss (Marsha). 1 Martin also purports to appeal pendente lite attorney fees orders.

At the present time, Martin and Marsha apparently are adherents of different religions, although during the marriage they practiced the same faith. The essential issue presented is whether the trial court properly denied Martin’s request that Marsha be enjoined from engaging in certain religious activity with the child.

We conclude Marsha’s written antenuptial commitment concerning the future religious upbringing of any children bom of the marriage is not legally enforceable. Further, Martin did not meet his burden of presenting a clear affirmative showing the child would be harmed by Marsha’s conduct. Therefore, the trial court properly refused to enjoin Marsha’s religious activity with their child.

Factual and Procedural Background

The parties were married in 1984. Martin is Jewish. One month before the marriage, Marsha, who was a Baptist, converted to Judaism. At the time of her conversion, she executed a “Declaration of Faith,” witnessed by three rabbis, “pledg[ing] to rear all [their] children ... in loyalty to the Jewish faith and its practices.”

The parties have a son, the minor, bom in 1985.

In December 1989, Martin filed a petition for dissolution of marriage.

On July 29, 1991, the trial court entered an attorney fees order directing Martin to pay Marsha $10,000 as a contributive share of her attorney fees and costs.

On August 25, 1992, judgment of dissolution as to status only was entered, reserving jurisdiction over remaining issues, including custody.

On August 25 through 28, 1992, the bifurcated issues of the minor’s custody were litigated. Both parents testified. Marsha was now attending the Calvary Church. She had enrolled the minor in Sunday school at the church. In addition, the minor had attended a club meeting at the church on Wednesday evenings and had gone to the church camp the previous summer. Martin *110 acknowledged Marsha had the right to expose the minor to her religion, but objected to the minor’s being indoctrinated in the Christian faith or being enrolled in any activity “that would be contrary to his Jewish faith.”

On November 5, 1992, the trial court ordered Martin to pay an additional $12,000 of Marsha’s attorney fees and costs.

On August 4, 1993, the trial court entered a further judgment on the reserved issue of custody. The trial court refrained from restraining either parent’s religious activity with the minor. It ruled, inter alia:

The parties were awarded joint physical and legal custody of the minor. The minor was to spend every Monday and Tuesday with Marsha and every Wednesday and Thursday with Martin. Each party was awarded alternate weekends, from Friday after school until Monday morning.

As for religious holidays, Martin had the first and second day of Passover, Yom Kippur and Rosh Hashanah. Marsha was allotted Purim and the third night of Passover, conditioned upon her taking the minor to a synagogue service on those holidays. In addition, she was awarded Christmas Eve, Christmas Day and Easter Sunday.

With respect to enrollment in religious studies, Martin was permitted to enroll the minor “in Hebrew Jewish Studies program, up to two times per week, regardless of [his] custody schedule. This religious training program shall have priority over any other schedule or activity. Except as provided herein above, nothing in this Order is deemed to prevent either party from enrolling the child in or having the child participate in other religious programs or activities during their respective custodial time.”

On October 1, 1993, Martin filed notice of appeal from the August 4, 1993, further judgment on reserved issues. The notice of appeal also specified the trial court’s July 29, 1991, and November 5, 1992, orders for contributory attorney fees.

Contentions

The essence of Martin’s numerous contentions is that the trial court erred in refusing to enjoin Marsha from engaging the minor in religious activity, and in making the attorney fees orders.

*111 Discussion

1. A parent will not be enjoined from involving a child with the parent’s religious activities absent a clear affirmative showing of harm.

As was stated in Zummo v. Zummo (1990) 394 Pa.Super. 30 [574 A.2d 1130, 1132], “[cjustody and visitation cases essentially involve salvaging operations. Judges are asked to preserve, as best as may be, the interests of any children involved, while at the same time disentangling their parent’s spousal relationship. Under the best of circumstances it is a task requiring Solomonic judgment. [*][] The difficulties involved are compounded when emotional issues such as the religious upbringing of children are involved.” (Italics added.)

Here, the issues of the minor’s religious upbringing and the enforceability of the parties’ antenuptial agreement require sensitivity to the best interests of the child as well as the First Amendment rights of both parents. Our focus is upon the showing required before a court will enjoin Marsha from exposing the minor to her faith.

The United States Supreme Court specifically has held parental authority in matters of religious upbringing may be encroached upon only upon a showing of a “substantial threat” of harm to the “physical or mental health of the child or to the public safety, peace, order, or welfare.” (Wisconsin v. Yoder (1972) 406 U.S. 205, 230 [32 L.Ed.2d 15, 33, 92 S.Ct. 1526]; see Zummo v. Zummo, supra, 574 A.2d at p. 1138.) Yoder explained “only those interests of the highest order and those not otherwise served can overbalance legitimate claims to the free exercise of religion.” (406 U.S. at p. 215 [32 L.Ed.2d at p. 25].) 2 , 3 This fundamental principle informs our decision.

Turning to California law, the case of In re Marriage of Murga (1980) 103 Cal.App.3d 498 [163 Cal.Rptr. 79], did not involve an antenuptial religious *112 upbringing agreement but it nonetheless is relevant to the issues before us. Murga adopted a rule of nonintervention with respect to a noncustodial parent’s right to express his or her religious beliefs.

The question presented in Murga was “whether, in the absence of a showing of harm to the child,

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