In re Marriage of Sulentic

Court of Appeals of Iowa·Decided May 21, 2025·No. 24-0398·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 24-0398

Filed May 21, 2025

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF CARRIE E. SULENTIC AND JAMES R. SULENTIC

Upon the Petition of CARRIE E. SULENTIC, Petitioner-Appellant,

And Concerning JAMES R. SULENTIC, Respondent-Appellee.

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Black Hawk County, Kellyann M. Lekar, Judge.

A former spouse appeals the distribution of assets and denial of expert and attorney fees in a dissolution of marriage decree. AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED.

Andrew B. Howie of Shindler, Anderson, Goplerud & Weese, P.C., West Des Moines, for appellant.

John J. Wood of Beecher, Field, Walker, Morris, Hoffman & Johnson, P.C., Waterloo, for appellee.

Considered without oral argument by Greer, P.J., and Buller and Langholz, JJ.

BULLER, Judge.

Carrie Sulentic appeals the division of property in the decree dissolving her marriage with James (Jim) Sulentic. She also makes claims regarding trial attorney and expert witness fees and requests appellate attorney fees. We find the increased net value of a limited liability company (LLC) formed during the marriage with the spouses as members should have been considered marital property, and we modify the decree accordingly. We otherwise affirm the district court and deny Carrie’s request for appellate attorney fees.

I. Background Facts and Proceedings In late 2015, Carrie and Jim entered into what was the second marriage for both. They had been dating since 2011—shortly after Jim’s first wife died and during Carrie’s first divorce. The couple did not have any children together; Carrie has three children from her prior marriage, and Jim does not have any children.

At the time the couple entered into the marriage, Jim was fifty-five years old.

He had significant premarital assets, including several houses he owned through a personal LLC in and around Waterloo and a real estate business he built with his first wife and later a business partner. After his first wife’s death, Jim used money she had saved to embark on a separate real estate business relationship with Brent Dahlstrom buying, selling, and developing properties under a series of LLCs. Jim’s net worth at the time of his marriage to Carrie was more than $5 million.

Carrie was thirty-eight years old when she married Jim. She had worked as a real estate agent while they were dating, and in 2014 she went to work as a marketing manager for a company operating out of the University of Northern Iowa. Carrie shared custody of her three then-minor children with her ex-husband. She

rented her home at a below-market rate from Jim, drove a leased car for which Jim helped with the down payment, and had some student loan debt.

Carrie and Jim could not come to an agreement on the terms of a prenuptial agreement—particularly as to jointly titling Jim’s premarital property—and so they did not sign one. The newly-married couple made their home in one of Jim’s properties and did an “extensive remodel.” They continued to travel frequently, spending freely on their trips and shopping. In 2017, the couple purchased a second home in Clear Lake—the only property that was in both their names. This house was sold during the dissolution proceedings, with the proceeds from the sale placed in escrow pending the decree.

According to Carrie, Jim “authored [their] lifestyle,” both before and during the marriage. Jim gave generous gifts to Carrie, provided a $2500 monthly allowance, and took her on “expensive vacations”—some of which included shopping without “any discussion about spending limits.” In 2017, Carrie left her job; Jim encouraged her to not find further employment to make traveling easier and help with family obligations. Around that time, Jim increased Carrie’s allowance to $5000 a month, which she used for her own expenses and some of her children’s expenses. In 2018, Jim retired from his first real estate business and began selling his properties to continue to fund their lifestyle. Carrie described her post-employment occupation as acting as Jim’s personal assistant, errand running, and helping Jim with technology. Jim bought a house for Carrie’s parents to live in (paying below-market rent), bought her and two of her children vehicles, and later rented an apartment to one of her children at below-market rate. Carrie described Jim as sometimes having a “rage-filled meltdown” about aspects of their

lifestyle straining their resources, but he would then calm down about it. Jim described it as telling “her repeatedly that this lifestyle was not sustainable. It could not go on forever with both of [them] not working.”

Jim’s LLCs with Dahlstrom have significant loans on them. The partners “move money constantly from one account to another. All the time.” Sometimes they shift funds from one project (or LLC) to another to make mortgage and contractor payments when due (or overdue). Dahlstrom is the partner in charge of the financials for the LLCs. In 2017 and 2018, Jim’s businesses with Dahlstrom bought several properties in and around Clear Lake and the Waterloo-Cedar Falls area. Jim borrowed significant cash from Dahlstrom and their companies to fund his and Carrie’s lifestyle—estimated at between $25,000 to $50,000 per month while they had the Clear Lake property—because he did not have a stable income. He fell behind on his obligations to the businesses as time passed.

In 2017, Jim formed a new company—Carrie James LLC—to purchase a gas station location in Missouri for $5 million. Carrie asserted she “was a full part owner of that property,” while Jim insisted he owned the entire LLC. The LLC’s tax filings show Jim has 99% ownership interest and Carrie has 1% ownership interest. The $1 million down payment was funded through Jim taking out a large loan and using equity on some of his premarital properties—while Carrie did not contribute any funds. The LLC entered a twenty-year lease with the gas station company which covered the mortgage payments and some income. The lending bank advised it did not want Carrie on the loan based on her credit and income history. The purchase and associated rent payments were “intended long term to eventually fund our lifestyle ongoing and our retirement.” Jim’s accountant John

Adams explained the LLC used accelerated depreciation, resulting in a net operating loss used for years to offset gains from other sources—the Sulentics had not had to pay income tax since 2017.

In 2020, the couple hit some rough patches, particularly in disagreements over their finances, and they eventually agreed they should divorce. In early 2021, Carrie petitioned to dissolve the marriage. The court ordered Jim to pay her $7000 per month in temporary spousal support. Carrie remained in the marital home while Jim lived in one of his other properties; Jim continued to pay the mortgage on the marital home. Carrie began to pay the utilities on the house in 2022.

Carrie appears to have made little to no attempt to obtain full-time employment, not returning to either her real estate or marketing careers during their separation after the divorce proceedings began.1 She explained: “What I understood about the situation was that things were to kind of remain as they were during our marriage even through our divorce proceedings,” so Jim would pay for her expenses during the separation. She requested “an equal share” of “the property assets as a whole” and asked the court to not give any value to premarital assets.

The matter finally was tried to the court in late 2023. Carrie’s expert witness Tedford Lodden evaluated the marital estate—including all of Jim’s premarital assets and all his shared business assets—at around $9 million, with nearly $5 million in assets held by the Dahlstrom LLCs. Lodden examined and valued the

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