In re Marriage of Stafford-Cosby

2019 IL App (1st) 182576-U
CourtAppellate Court of Illinois
DecidedNovember 5, 2019
Docket1-18-2576
StatusUnpublished

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In re Marriage of Stafford-Cosby, 2019 IL App (1st) 182576-U (Ill. Ct. App. 2019).

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2019 IL App (1st) 182576-U

NOTICE: This order was filed under Supreme Court Rule 23 and may not be cited as precedent by any party except in the limited circumstances allowed under Rule 23(e)(1).

SECOND DIVISION November 5, 2019

No. 1-18-2576 ______________________________________________________________________________ IN THE APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS FIRST DISTRICT ______________________________________________________________________________ In re MARRIAGE OF FABIA STAFFORD-COSBY, ) Appeal from the ) Circuit Court of Petitioner-Appellee, ) Cook County ) and ) No. 16-D-430443 ) THEOPHILIUS O. ILEVBARE, ) The Honorable ) Mary Colleen Roberts, Respondent-Appellant. ) Judge Presiding.

PRESIDING JUSTICE FITZGERALD SMITH delivered the judgment of the court. Justices Lavin and Pucinski concurred in the judgment.

ORDER

¶1 Held: Trial court’s orders allocating parenting time and decision-making responsibilities for the parties’ minor child, allocating income tax exemption for dependent child, denying a motion to enforce payment of certain medical bills by the petitioner, and awarding attorney fees to petitioner are affirmed.

¶2 This appeal arises from the dissolution of the marriage of the petitioner, Fabia Stafford-

Cosby, and the respondent, Theophilius O. Ilevbare. The respondent has filed this pro se appeal,

challenging various rulings of the trial court at trial and in multiple posttrial motions concerning

the allocation of parenting time and decision-making responsibilities for the parties’ minor child, No. 1-18-2576

the allocation of the income tax exemption for the dependent child, the payment of the child’s

medical bills by the petitioner, and an award of attorney fees in favor of the petitioner. For the

reasons that follow, we affirm the judgment of the trial court.

¶3 I. BACKGROUND

¶4 A. Pre-Trial Pleadings and Motions

¶5 On August 8, 2016, the petitioner filed a petition for dissolution of marriage against the

respondent. No action was taken in the matter as of March 2017, when a child, L.O.A.I., was

born to the parties. On January 22, 2018, an agreed order was entered allocating parenting time

to the respondent for three hours every other Saturday and every Sunday. On March 22, 2018,

the parties entered into a partial parenting plan agreement, which provided in pertinent part that

both parents shall share in the responsibility of making final decisions for the child in the areas

of education, healthcare, religion, and extracurricular activities. It also provided that both parents

shall have equal access to the child’s records and service providers, including in school and

medical matters. Finally, it provided that prior to making a major or significant decision

involving the child, the parties agreed to inform one another in a timely manner of any decisions

that needed to be made, communicate with each other about the decision, and come to a mutually

agreed-upon resolution. This agreement was later incorporated into the parties’ judgment for

dissolution of marriage.

¶6 On May 7, 2018, an agreed order was entered setting the matter for trial on July 16, 2018.

That agreed order also stated, “Neither party shall make any major decision, medical, unless an

emergency, prior to the trial date.” On May 8, 2018, the respondent filed an emergency motion

for sole legal custody of the child. The motion alleged generally that the petitioner was

insufficiently attentive to the child’s need for a revision of his circumcision, as recommended by

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his doctors, and that she was uncooperative with the respondent in making shared medical

decisions on behalf of the child. The motion further requested the above-quoted language be

stricken from the agreed order of May 7, 2018, because it was not in the best interests of the

child. Upon presentment, the emergency motion was entered and continued to the trial date.

¶7 B. Trial and Judgment for Dissolution of Marriage

¶8 At the trial on July 16, 2018, the only contested issue was the allocation of parental

responsibilities. On that issue, the petitioner testified that the child had resided with her since he

was born and that the respondent had parenting time for three hours every other Saturday and

every Sunday. She testified that she was at that point looking to put the child into a daycare, and

that she and the respondent would agree upon the best daycare for the child and share the cost

equally. She testified that, prior to that time, her mother had been caring for the child when she

was at work. She testified she would usually wake the child between 6:00 a.m. and 7:00 a.m. to

take him to her mother’s house and then pick him up after work at 6:00 p.m. She testified that

she worked for the Village of Bellwood and did water billing, and she worked Mondays through

Fridays. She testified that she believed it was in the child’s best interests to remain with her. She

testified that she did not believe that the respondent properly fed the child during his parenting

time. She testified that her concern was that the respondent was not feeding him solid food now

that he was old enough to receive that. She testified that she was afraid that if respondent had

parenting time more than every other Saturday and every Sunday, the child’s nutritional needs

would not be met. However, she testified that for the most part, the child appeared to be well

cared for while he was in the respondent’s care.

¶9 The respondent testified at trial that he would ensure that the child was given nutritionally-

balanced meals during his parenting time. He agreed to communicate with the petitioner about

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what he was feeding the child. He testified that he had a new work schedule, in which he worked

nights. He testified that he was off work all day on Thursdays, Fridays, and Saturdays, and he

then worked on Sundays, Mondays, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays. He testified that he wanted to

have the child on Thursdays, Fridays, and Saturdays every week, and he could care for the child

then. He also testified that he was capable of picking the child up and dropping the child off.

¶ 10 The trial court allowed the respondent to make additional argument concerning custody and

parenting time. The respondent then stated that he had been involved in the child’s life from

birth. He argued that the petitioner had never been the primary custodian of the child, because of

her long work hours on weekdays and Saturdays, during which time her mother cared for the

child. The respondent argued that he lived close to both the petitioner and her mother, and that

put him in a good position to be quite involved with parenting time. He argued that in his new

job, he had the opportunity to work from home. He argued that within the next few weeks, he

was going to be working only three days a week, which would give him four days during the

week to spend with the child. He argued that he could be the primary caregiver, and the child

would not need to be in daycare. He argued that his flexible work schedule put him in a good

position to at least share equal parenting time with the petitioner. Finally, he argued that he did

not believe that the neighborhood in which the petitioner lived was a good one in which to raise a

child, and he lived in a better neighborhood.

¶ 11 Before ruling, the trial court referred to the parties’ ability to claim of the child as a

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