In re Marriage of Saheb

CourtAppellate Court of Illinois
DecidedNovember 13, 2007
Docket1-06-3304 Rel
StatusPublished

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Opinion

FIRST DIVISION NOVEMBER 13, 2007

No. 1-06-3304

In Re MARRIAGE OF ) Appeal from the ) Circuit Court of DHEY ABDUL SAHEB, ) Cook County. ) Petitioner-Appellee, ) ) Nos. 05 D 1733, 05 D 5633 ) & 05 CH 22625 and ) ) ALIXIO KHAZAL, ) Honorable ) Jeanne R. Cleveland Bernstein, Respondent-Appellant. ) Judge Presiding.

JUSTICE ROBERT E. GORDON delivered the opinion of the court:

Respondent Alixio Khazal1 and petitioner Dhey Abdul Saheb are the father and mother,

respectively, of six-year-old Basma Ali Khazal. The father appeals from the modified joint

parenting order entered by the circuit court of Cook County on October 12, 2006, which was

incorporated into the judgment for dissolution of marriage entered on the same day. The father

appeals from the order only to the extent that it grants visitation to petitioner in the United Arab

Emirates where she resides, instead of in Illinois where respondent and the minor child reside.

For the reasons stated below, we affirm.

1 The father’s notice of appeal spelled his first name as “Alixio.” The father’s appellate

brief spelled his first name as “Alexio.” No. 1-06-3304

BACKGROUND

The father, then 34 years old, and the mother, then 24 years old, were married on

February 20, 2000,2 in the United Arab Emirates (UAE), where the marriage was registered. One

child was born during the marriage, namely a daughter, Basma Ali Khazal, on June 20, 2001, in

Chicago, Illinois. On May 20, 2005, the mother filed a petition in Chicago for dissolution of

marriage, which claimed that the parties had been living separate and apart since November 2004.

Dr. John M. Palen, who has a doctorate in social work, was appointed by the court on

June 9, 2005, to evaluate the parties and the minor child and made the following findings in a

report dated December 12, 2005. The parties spent half their married life living apart from each

other. From the date of their marriage until the mother ‘s return from the UAE to Chicago in

May 2005, the parties had spent a total of 2 ½ years away from each other, in order for the

mother to finish her medical school studies in the UAE. From the time of the child’s birth in June

2001 until she returned with her mother in May 2005, the child spent two of her then four years

away from her father.

Dr. Palen stated in his report:

“Each parent’s version of the marriage, description of Alex’s

relationship with Basma, and recollection of the circumstances

2 The judgment for dissolution of marriage, dated October 12, 2006, stated that the parties

were married on February 20, 2000. However at the October 12 hearing, the mother testified that

they were married on August 17, 2000, and the trial court so found, orally on the record.

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leading to Dhey’s return from the United Arab Emirates are polar

opposites of the other. It is not possible to definitively sort out fact

from fiction.”

Dr. Palen found that the parties disagreed about the circumstances of the mother’s return

to Chicago. It is undisputed that mother and child left for the UAE in December 2004 with the

father’s consent so that the mother could prepare for a United States medical licensing exam and

that the father visited the UAE in both January and March 2005. The father claimed to Dr. Palen

that the mother arrived in the UAE in December 2004 with no intent of returning and that she

pushed back the date of her medical exam in order to prolong her stay indefinitely. The mother

denied to Dr. Palen any plan to deprive the father of access to their daughter and did return in

May 2005.

Dr. Palen’s report listed documents reviewed by him, which included: an order issued by

a court in the UAE on March 17, 2005, at the father’s request to prevent the child from traveling

until further notice; and a cancellation of the travel ban, dated May 16, 2005. The father sought

the travel ban out of a fear that the mother would travel to Iraq to live with a cousin there. The

mother admitted that she obtained visas in March 2005 to travel to Iraq. After the circuit court in

Cook County issued an order on May 2, 2005, requiring the mother’s and child’s return to

Chicago prior to May 25, 2005, the father apparently sought cancellation of the UAE travel ban.

Dr. Palen recommended in his report that the mother have primary residential custody and

that the parents share legal custody pursuant to a modified joint custody order, which allocated

medical decisions to the mother and educational decisions to the father.

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Prior to the court hearing on June 26, 2006, the parties indicated their intent to reside in

different countries, with the father residing in Illinois and the mother residing in the UAE. Prior

to the hearing, the parties agreed to most of the terms contained in the subsequently-issued joint

parenting order, namely, that they would share joint legal custody, that the child would reside

primarily with the father in Chicago, that the father would have residential custody and that the

mother would have visitation. However, the parties could not agree on whether the mother’s

visitation would take place in Illinois or in the UAE.

On April 11, 2006, the father filed a motion to require the guardian ad litem to investigate

issues “relating to the Hague Convention.” At a pretrial conference on June 26, 2006, with all

counsel present, Michael Zaslavsky, the guardian ad litem, recommended that the trial court

permit visitation in the UAE even though the UAE was not a party to the Hague Convention and

that the court set a cash bond to guarantee the child’s return.

At a hearing on June 26, 2006, both parents testified. The mother agreed to pay airfare

for biannual visits by the child to the UAE with an accompanying adult and to post a bond to

secure the child’s return. The mother admitted that she had obtained visas in March 2005 to travel

with the child to Iraq and that she had objected in early 2005 to the father returning to Chicago

without her and with the child. The mother testified that she was a Canadian citizen in the

process of becoming a United States citizen, and intended to take a United States medical

licensing exam. The mother testified that the child would only be eligible for a visa issued by the

UAE which permitted the child to stay a maximum of 60 days in the UAE.

The mother testified that she wanted parenting time in the UAE instead of the United

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States for the following reasons:

“First of all, I don’t have any family here, any friends, I don’t have

car, I don’t have income. Even if I come here, I want to have fun

with my daughter. And over there in the United Arab Emirates, I

have car, I’m going to have everything there, and having family,

friends, we can go everywhere we can, we’re going to have fun

there.”

When the trial court asked the mother, “[H]ow do we know you’re committed to

returning her[?]” the mother replied:

“I don’t know how to say it, but if I want to do this, I’m going to

do it from the beginning. Why I came here and have all these

problems and just stay near because I want to obey the law and be

with the law, I don’t want to just go and run away and have

miserable life for my daughter, I want to be on the same side.”

At the June 26 hearing, the father testified that he purchased the airline tickets for the

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