In re Marriage of Rudsell

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Appellate Court of Illinois·Decided August 29, 1997·No. 4-97-0235·Published

Opinion

NO. 4-97-0235

IN THE APPELLATE COURT

OF ILLINOIS

FOURTH DISTRICT

In Re:  the Marriage of ) Appeal from

CARA L. RUDSELL, ) Circuit Court of

Petitioner-Appellant, ) Mercer County

and ) No. 95D20

ERIC L. RUDSELL, )

Respondent, )

and )

CHRYSTAL J. MILLAGE and WILLIAM D. )

MILLAGE, )

Intervenors-Appellees, )

and ) Honorable

LOUIE WOOD and JUDITH WOOD, ) James J. Mesich,

Intervenors. ) Judge Presiding.

_________________________________________________________________

JUSTICE COOK delivered the opinion of the court:

On May 31, 1995, Chrystal Millage filed a petition to modify custody in these proceedings, in which Eric and Cara Rudsell had previously been divorced and the custody of their daughter, Elizabeth, had been awarded to Cara.  The circuit court first found that Chrystal and her husband William had standing pur­su­ant to section 601(b)(2) of the Illinois Marriage and Disso­lution of Marriage Act (Act) (750 ILCS 5/601(b)(2) (West 1994)), and then on Janu­ary 14, 1997, modi­fied its previous order and awarded custody of Eliza­beth to them.  Cara ap­peals.  We af­firm.

Cara and Eric Rudsell were mar­ried July 6, 1990.  Two chil­dren were born during the mar­riage, Heath­er, Au­gust 1, 1991, and Eliz­abeth, January 20, 1993.  In March 1992, Heather entered the hospital with bronchial pneu­mo­nia.  After her re­lease, Cara

turned Heather over to Cara's par­ents, Louie and Ju­dith Wood, be­cause Cara did not have heat in her home.  Cara took Heather back for a time, but when Heather reentered the hospi­tal, Cara again turned Heather over to the Woods.  Judith testi­fied that at first Cara visited Heather every Sunday, but visitation fell off to maybe once a month in the winter­time.  Some­times Cara took Heath­er for periods of several weeks, but then would call and ask the Woods to pick Heather up, without giving any explanation.  Heath­er re­mained with the Woods until April 1995.  

Cara met William and Chrystal Millage in 1991 through Eric, who was a friend of the Millages' son.  Eric lived with the Millages in early 1992, and Chrystal testified she fed Eric and Cara "most every night" while Cara was pregnant.  Eliz­a­beth was born by ce­sar­e­an sec­tion.  Be­fore the birth, Cara asked Chrystal to take care of the baby for several weeks while she recuperated, and Chrystal agreed.  Chrystal tes­ti­fied she of­fered to let Cara stay with them as well, but Cara de­clined.  Chrystal testi­fied that, when Elizabeth was two weeks old, Cara took her for an over­night but brought her back the next day and said "You can have this damn brat from hell, she bawled all night, the next thing I had her, shaking her."  Cara de­nied that.  

Elizabeth remained with the Millages after Cara had recovered from the operation.  Cara tes­ti­fied she did not re­trieve Eliz­a­beth be­cause Eric had be­come vio­lent and abu­sive.  Eric told Cara to choose between him and Eliz­abeth.  That is also why Cara had left Heath­er with the Woods.  Cara stat­ed Eric was not Elizabeth's natu­ral fa­ther, and he re­sent­ed the child's pres­ence in the home.  Eric later told Chrystal he might be the child's natural father, and the trial court de­cided, for pur­pos­es of these pro­ceedings, that it would as­sume Eric is Elizabeth's natu­ral father.  

In the months after Elizabeth was born, Cara vis­it­ed the Millages two or three times per week and occasionally took Eliza­beth to the Woods' home.  Ju­dith tes­ti­fied she saw Eliz­a­beth with Cara every weekend early in the year she was born, but as sum­mer ap­proached, the vis­its de­creased to around two per month.  Chrystal likewise testi­fied Cara's visi­ts became less fre­quent, with peri­ods of over a month between visits at one point.  Cara took Eliz­a­beth and stayed with the Woods for al­most a week in Sep­tem­ber 1993, perhaps also in September 1994.  

In February 1994, Cara and Eric took Eliza­beth to a bar in the evening.  Judy Stocks, an acquaintance of Eric and Cara, was pres­ent.  She tes­ti­fied Cara ar­rived be­tween 7:30 and 8 p.m. and stayed until 10 p.m.  Stocks tes­ti­fied Elizabeth's cloth­ing and face were dirty.  Stocks called Wil­liam Millage, who came and took Eliz­a­beth home.  Stocks asked Cara why Elizabeth was still with the Millages, and Cara replied the trail­er needed to be cleaned up, the power was off, and it was too cold.  Stocks tes­ti­fied she asked Cara, "Why did­n't she go and get her *** or was she just going to give Eliza­beth to them?"  According to Stocks, Cara replied, "What dif­fer­ence does it make?  They al­ready have her."  Cara tes­tified she would have to "figure some­thing out" before Eliza­beth started school.

The Millages took Eliza­beth on vaca­tions out of state, with Cara's permis­sion.  Initial­ly, Cara took Elizabeth to the doctor as necessary.  Later Chrystal took Elizabeth to the doc­tor, us­ing pub­lic aid Cara received for Elizabeth's health care.  Chrystal asked Cara's permission be­fore tak­ing Eliz­a­beth to the doc­tor.  Cara provided no financial sup­port for Elizabeth, other than one bag of old clothing, and food stamps until Eliz­abeth was one year old.

Cara testified she told Chrystal several times she was going to get Elizabeth when she was ready, and Chrystal said that's fine, you can come get her when you want to.  Cara said she was gullible to believe that.  Ju­dith Holmgren pre­pared a home study of Cara, the Wood house­hold, and the Millage house­hold on behalf of Lu­ther­an Social Servic­es.  The Millages stated they did not in­tend to seek cus­tody when Eliz­a­beth first entered their home.  How­ever, Chrystal told Holmgren that they had since bonded with the child and wanted to keep her.  Wil­liam told Holmgren that Cara and the Woods would get the child "over my dead body."  Carolyn Geertz, Chrystal's mother, tes­ti­fied the child re­lat­ed to Chrystal as if Chrystal were her moth­er.

According to Holmgren's report, the Millages had had prior expe­ri­ence with fos­ter chil­dren.  Chrystal's par­ents had two foster children who were re­turned to their biologi­cal par­ents.  Chrystal wrote a letter to the biological parents stating she would help the mother, if Chrystal would be al­lowed to have some sort of rela­tionship with the children.  The two chil­dren wound up living with Chrystal for one year.  The natu­ral mother visited every other weekend until a so­cial worker con­vinced the natural mother she should retrieve the chil­dren.  The children were later returned to foster care, for which the natu­ral mother blamed the Millages.  Chrystal told Holmgren the Millages never "went the legal route with Eliz­a­beth" because their experi­ence made them afraid of scaring Cara.

Chrystal testified Cara did not see Elizabeth over Christmas 1994 or on Elizabeth's birthday in January 1995.  Cara testified she at­tempt­ed to con­tact Eliz­a­beth on her birthday, but the Millages were not home.  She tes­ti­fied she gave Elizabeth her birth­day and Christmas gifts later in Janu­ary, when she and Eliz­abeth vis­it­ed Cara's parents.  According to Chrystal, Cara vis­it­ed the Millages only five times from Janu­ary to April 1995.  In February 1995, Cara left Eric and moved from the trail­er home to a house in Bald Bluff, Illinois, where she began l

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