In Re Marriage of Petraitis

636 N.E.2d 691, 263 Ill. App. 3d 1022, 201 Ill. Dec. 259, 1993 Ill. App. LEXIS 1275
CourtAppellate Court of Illinois
DecidedAugust 20, 1993
Docket1—90—3277, 1—91—1242 cons.
StatusPublished
Cited by28 cases

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In Re Marriage of Petraitis, 636 N.E.2d 691, 263 Ill. App. 3d 1022, 201 Ill. Dec. 259, 1993 Ill. App. LEXIS 1275 (Ill. Ct. App. 1993).

Opinion

PRESIDING JUSTICE GORDON

delivered the opinion of the court:

Respondent Thomas Petraitis appeals from that portion of an August 1, 1990, judgment of dissolution of marriage entered in the circuit court of Cook County which granted custody of the couple’s minor child, Quentin Petraitis, to petitioner Cynthia Petraitis. Respondent also appeals from a March 21, 1991, order modifying the judgment of dissolution by ordering Thomas to pay to Cynthia one-half of all pension benefits paid to Thomas in the future based on his earnings during the marriage.

The parties were married in 1971. Five children were born to them during the marriage: Anton in 1972, Justin in 1975, Lauren in 1976, Barron in 1977, and Quentin in 1979. Cynthia filed a petition for dissolution of marriage on June 28, 1985. She sought custody of all five minor children. Thomas filed a counterpetition for dissolution on July 13, 1985. The two causes were consolidated.

After the parties filed for dissolution, Anton lived with the father in Chicago while the four younger children lived with the mother in Galena, Illinois. In April 1988 the four younger children came to live with Thomas, at Cynthia’s request. Thomas was subsequently awarded temporary custody of the five children by agreed order.

On August 19, 1988, Cynthia filed for temporary custody of the couple’s daughter, Lauren. A September 29, 1988, order gave the couple temporary joint custody of the five children with Cynthia as residential parent of Lauren and Thomas as residential parent of the four boys.

A temporary custody hearing began on August 28, 1989. The trial judge conducted an in camera examination of each child. Anton and Justin expressed a preference for living with their father. Lauren, Barron and Quentin wished to live in Galena with their mother.

At the temporary custody hearing, the court heard the testimony of Dr. David Busby, a psychiatrist who had interviewed the parents and each child pursuant to a Rule 215 (134 Ill. 2d R. 215) order, Thomas having been ordered to pay Dr. Busby’s fee. Dr. Busby testified that Lauren was emotionally retarded and in need of discipline and that Quentin suffered from attention deficit syndrome (oppositional disorder with hyperactivity). On direct examination, Dr. Busby testified that Quentin needed special classes because of his emotional disorder. He opined that Cynthia would be unable to give Quentin the parenting and additional time and structure he needs and that Thomas had a better chance of getting Quentin to respect authority, which was important for Quentin’s well-being. If Cynthia was awarded custody of Quentin, Dr. Busby predicted initial superficial improvement followed by deeper hyperactivity and oppositional behavior. He also predicted it was "highly possible” Quentin would be allowed to do anything he liked while in Cynthia’s care.

On cross-examination, Dr. Busby was questioned as to sources used in reaching his opinion. Although he interviewed each child and the parents and reviewed a court services report, he relied heavily on information supplied by a longtime friend of the Petraitis family, James Stadelman, whom Dr. Busby had contacted at Thomas’ suggestion. Dr. Busby spent 61/2 hours interviewing Mr. Stadelman. The only other nonparty contact was a short telephone interview with Cynthia’s mother. Dr. Busby also relied on a diary of Cynthia’s provided by Mr. Stadelman. Dr. Busby stated that, in arriving at his opinion about custody, he had taken into account the close friendship between Thomas and Mr. Stadelman. He was aware of a pending lawsuit by Mr. Stadelman against Cynthia, as Mr. Stadelman had also provided him with Cynthia’s deposition in that lawsuit.

Dr. Busby admitted that the atmosphere of Galena where the mother resides might be superior to that of Chicago in some respects. However, his opinion was that the father would be better able to provide Quentin with necessary authority and control. Dr. Busby believed that the five children should be together in their father’s custody. Dr. Busby conceded that, if time had permitted him to interview other persons with knowledge of the family situation, he might have reached different conclusions.

Mr. Stadelman testified that he had been a frequent visitor in the marital home and continued to visit Thomas. He recounted certain conduct by Cynthia, such as use of alcohol and drugs and incidents with men. This testimony regarding Cynthia pertained only to events prior to the institution of dissolution proceedings, as Mr. Stadelman admitted he had not spoken with Cynthia since 1985.

Mr. Stadelman said that in April 1988, when Cynthia delivered the children to Thomas’ care, Quentin told Mr. Stadelman that he liked Galena because he could do whatever he liked there. Quentin struck Mr. Stadelman and was otherwise disrespectful to him and to Thomas, but after being in Thomas’ care for a while, Quentin’s behavior improved.

Mr. Stadelman testified about the grounds of his lawsuit against Cynthia, alleging that he gave her $1,200 to buy stocks in trust for the children, the interest to be used to purchase gifts for the children on special occasions. Mr. Stadelman claimed that, contrary to his instructions, Cynthia had cashed in the stocks. Mr. Stadelman revealed that he had paid Dr. Busby $855 for the time spent with him on this case.

Keith Kessler also testified for Thomas at the temporary custody hearing. Mr. Kessler was a clinical social worker at St. Joseph Carondelet school in Chicago where Quentin had been a student since May 1989. St. Joseph’s is a school for emotionally disturbed children which is in session 11 months of the year. Mr. Kessler stated that he met with Quentin twice weekly for therapy, that Quentin was forming an attachment to him, and that Quentin was troubled by the custody proceedings and seemed depressed. In Mr. Kessler’s opinion, Quentin would need a stable therapy situation during the dissolution proceedings and for a time afterwards. All other things being equal, Mr. Kessler thought it would be advantageous for Quentin to attend St. Joseph’s. Quentin had presented no behavior problems while at St. Joseph’s. Mr. Kessler was unfamiliar with the environment at Cynthia’s home in Galena. He expressed no opinion about which parent should have custody.

Cynthia’s sister, Dolores Glytas, testified on Cynthia’s behalf that Cynthia had a very loving relationship with the children. She did not think Quentin was emotionally disturbed. She had not observed Thomas’ parenting skills since the couple separated.

Christian Edwards, Cynthia’s adult daughter from a previous marriage, testified to her poor relationship with Thomas during the 12 years she lived in the marital home as a child. She said that Thomas never conversed with her on a personal level. He took his meals in the living room while the family ate in the kitchen. Christian also testified that Thomas drank alcohol daily when she lived in. the marital home. Thomas did not participate in activities with his children except for hunting trips with the boys. He owned many guns which he showed to the children. Christian said that Cynthia was the disciplinarian in the marital home. Thomas disciplined the children only occasionally, always in a physical manner.

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