In re Marriage of M.M.

Appellate Court of Illinois·Decided May 7, 2026·No. 3-25-0540·Unpublished

Opinion

NOTICE: This order was filed under Supreme Court Rule 23 and is not precedent except in the limited circumstances allowed under Rule 23(e)(1).

2026 IL App (3d) 250540-U

Order filed May 7, 2026

IN THE

APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS THIRD DISTRICT

2026

In re MARRIAGE OF ) Appeal from the Circuit Court ) of the 18th Judicial Circuit, JOSEPH M.M., ) Du Page County, Illinois, )

Petitioner-Appellant )

) Appeal No. 3-25-0540 ) Circuit No. 22-DC-147 and )

)

DAHLIA M., ) Honorable ) James F. McCluskey, Respondent-Appellee. ) Judge, Presiding.

JUSTICE BRENNAN delivered the judgment of the court.

Presiding Justice Hettel and Justice Anderson concurred in the judgment.

ORDER

¶1 Held: We affirm the trial court’s orders as to parenting time and decision-making responsibility for the parties’ minor children.

¶2 Petitioner, Joseph M.M., appeals from the trial court’s orders restricting his parenting time and awarding sole decision-making responsibility for the parties’ minor children to respondent, Dahlia M. For the following reasons, we affirm.

¶3 I. BACKGROUND

¶4 Joseph and Dahlia were married in 2011 and have two minor children, M.M. and N.M., (born in 2014 and 2015). In 2019, Joseph filed a petition for dissolution of marriage in the circuit court of Washington County, Tennessee. The Tennessee circuit court entered a judgment for dissolution of marriage on August 4, 2020, which incorporated a July 15, 2020, parenting plan. Thereafter, Joseph moved to Illinois with the children, and Dahlia moved to Michigan. The plan allocated parenting time primarily to Joseph. In addition, Joseph was awarded sole decision- making responsibility regarding the children’s education and extracurricular activities, and the parties were awarded joint decision-making responsibility regarding the children’s religious upbringing and nonemergency healthcare. Subsequently, however, on November 1, 2021, Joseph was awarded sole decision-making authority regarding the children’s nonemergency healthcare. In September 2022, Dahlia moved to Illinois, less than 10 miles from Joseph and the children. The Tennessee judgment was thereafter enrolled in the circuit court of Du Page County. Extensive litigation regarding parenting time and decision-making responsibility ensued, as summarized in relevant part below. In addition, throughout the course of the litigation, the trial court appointed the following individuals: (1) Angel Traub as the guardian ad litem (GAL) for the children to address parenting time and decision-making issues; (2) Robert Shapiro as the court’s child custody evaluator to make recommendations to the court concerning parenting time and decision-making responsibility (see 750 ILCS 5/604.10(b) (West 2024)); (3) Mark L. Goldstein as Joseph’s retained child custody evaluator (see id. § 604.10(c)); and (4) Maureen Tamillow as the family therapist.

¶5 A. Pretrial Proceedings ¶6 On April 6, 2023, Joseph filed a petition for restriction of Dahlia’s parenting time and to modify the parenting schedule but withdrew the petition on November 14, 2024. Thereafter,

Dahlia filed a petition to modify the parenting schedule seeking the majority of parenting time and sole decision-making responsibility (and a subsequent amended petition to conform with the proofs at trial) and petitions to limit or restrict Joseph’s parenting time (including emergency petitions). Meanwhile, Shapiro submitted his written report on April 25, 2024 (updated on September 11, 2024), recommending, inter alia, that the children’s best interests would be served by awarding Dahlia the majority of parenting time, subject to alternating weekends and Tuesday afternoons with Joseph and an equal rotation for the summer and holidays. Shapiro also recommended that Dahlia have sole decision-making responsibility as to the children’s healthcare, education, religion, and extracurricular activities.

¶7 The trial court held a hearing on Dahlia’s petitions on August 5, 2024, at which the parties and the GAL testified. The GAL recounted that she had met twice with each party and had reviewed hundreds of their e-mails. She also spoke with Tamillow, the children’s former counselor, and a school counselor. The GAL testified that it was in the children’s best interests to reside primarily with Dahlia, noting concerns about lack of supervision during the work hours of Joseph’s parenting time. The GAL also stated that the children’s conduct had improved while in Dahlia’s sole care for the prior six weeks of summer parenting time. On August 7, 2024, the trial court entered a temporary order without prejudice pursuant to which Dahlia was granted the majority of parenting time and Joseph was granted parenting time with the children on alternating weekends. The trial court noted the GAL’s testimony and stated that the children’s behavior would continue to be monitored until trial.

¶8 On September 11, 2024, Goldstein submitted his written report, recommending that parenting time be divided equally and that, with respect to decision-making responsibility, responsibility as to the children’s religion and healthcare be made jointly, Dahlia have sole

decision-making responsibility as to the children’s education, and that Joseph have sole decision- making responsibility as to the children’s extracurricular activities.

¶9 The GAL issued her written report on October 24, 2024. As to parenting time, the GAL recommended that Dahlia have the majority of parenting time subject to Joseph’s parenting time on alternating weekends, alternating holidays, and two nonconsecutive weeks in the summer. She further recommended that Joseph personally monitor the children’s behavior and place parental controls on their electronic devices. Moreover, the GAL recommended that Dahlia be awarded sole decision-making responsibility in all four areas. In making her recommendations, the GAL noted her consideration of the relevant statutory factors and that she reached many of the same conclusions, but not all of the same recommendations as Shapiro in his court-ordered evaluation report. The GAL elaborated, “When I first met the boys, a little less than two years ago, they were happy, energetic, had boundaries and were age appropriate. They are not any longer. These boys are manipulative, calculating, secretive, aggressive and inappropriately verbal and physical. They even use sexual terminology that most adults would not even use.”

¶ 10 The GAL issued an updated written report on January 24, 2025 (subsequent to her trial testimony described below), recommending that Joseph’s parenting time be supervised until he participated in an extensive parenting course and until M.M. underwent a neuropsychological evaluation. The GAL opined that Joseph was promoting the children’s misconduct, enticing them with gifts and unsupervised screen time, and encouraging them to raise allegations against Dahlia to gain a favorable outcome in the litigation. The GAL further opined that Joseph disregarded the need for mental health intervention for M.M.

¶ 11 B. Trial

¶ 12 Trial on Dahlia’s petitions involving the allocation of parenting time and decision- making responsibilities commenced on November 12, 2024, and continued over the course of multiple nonconsecutive trial days, ending on May 20, 2025. The witnesses included the parties, the GAL, Tamillow (the family counselor), and Cindy Suo (a crisis services counselor at the Du Page County Health Department). The reports of Traub, Shapiro, and Goldstein were admitted into evidence.

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