In re Marriage of Lemke

2021 IL App (2d) 210168-U
Appellate Court of Illinois·Decided August 30, 2021·No. 2-21-0168·Unpublished

Opinion

No. 2-21-0168

Order filed August 30, 2021

NOTICE: This order was filed under Supreme Court Rule 23(b) and is not precedent except in the limited circumstances allowed under Rule 23(e)(l).

IN THE

APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS

SECOND DISTRICT

In re MARRIAGE OF ) Appeal from the Circuit Court HAROLD C. LEMKE, III, ) of Lake County.

)

Petitioner-Appellee, )

)

and ) No. 17-D-1501 )

KAYLIE L. LEMKE, ) Honorable ) David Christopher Lombardo, Respondent-Appellant. ) Judge, Presiding.

JUSTICE ZENOFF delivered the judgment of the court.

Justices Jorgensen and Schostok concurred in the judgment.

ORDER

¶1 Held: An order denying a mother’s petition for joint decision-making authority regarding her son’s medical care was not against the manifest weight of the evidence. Orders granting the mother additional parenting time, though not as much as she requested, likewise were not against the manifest weight of the evidence.

¶2 Following a trial in 2015, a judge of the circuit court of McHenry County dissolved the marriage of Harold (Hal) and Kaylie Lemke. Hal received sole custody of the parties’ minor son, C.L. (born in 2012), subject to Kaylie’s parenting time. Kaylie appealed. In relevant portion, we held that the award of sole custody to Hal was not against the manifest weight of the evidence. In re Marriage of Lemke, 2016 IL App (2d) 160264-U, ¶ 30.

¶3 In August 2017, Kaylie registered the judgment for dissolution of marriage (JDOM) in Lake County. Kaylie then petitioned for a modification of parenting time and for joint decision- making authority regarding C.L.’s medical care. Following an evidentiary hearing, the court granted Kaylie additional parenting time, though not as much as she requested. The court denied Kaylie’s petition for joint decision-making authority regarding C.L.’s medical care. Kaylie appeals these orders. We affirm.

¶4 I. BACKGROUND

¶5 1. The JDOM

¶6 When the JDOM was entered, Hal resided in Richmond and Kaylie resided in Arlington Heights. In the JDOM, the court allocated Hal parenting time as follows:

• Alternate weekends • Two summer vacation weeks each year • Designated holidays • Upon C.L. commencing kindergarten, spring break during odd years • The first half of Christmas break from school during even years and the second half during odd years, subject to Kaylie’s Christmas holiday time • All other times when Kaylie did not have parenting time The court allocated Kaylie parenting time as follows:

• Until C.L. commenced kindergarten, alternate weekends from Friday at 4 p.m. to Monday at 4:30 p.m.

• Upon C.L. commencing kindergarten, alternate weekends from Friday at 4 p.m. to Sunday at 6:30 p.m.

• Upon C.L. commencing kindergarten, one evening per week from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m., the

exact evening to be determined by the parties • Designated holidays • Upon C.L. commencing kindergarten, spring break during even years • The first half of Christmas break from school during odd years and the second half during even years, subject to Hal’s Christmas holiday time

¶7 In ruling on Kaylie’s postjudgment motion following the 2015 trial, the court allocated Kaylie two additional weeks of summer vacation with C.L. each year. The court also modified Kaylie’s regular parenting time “so as to be consistent with the parenting time she has been allotted under the temporary parenting time order that has been in place.” The record in the present appeal does not contain all the orders entered in McHenry County prior to the JDOM. From what we can tell from the record, the effect of this modification was that, until C.L. started kindergarten, Kaylie’s parenting time on alternate weekends would begin at 3:30 p.m. on Thursdays, not 4 p.m. on Fridays.

¶8 2. Kaylie’s Petitions in Lake County and the Evidentiary Hearing

¶9 After the JDOM was entered, the parties relocated to separate residences in Grayslake near each other. Kaylie subsequently filed multiple petitions, which included requests for joint decision- making authority regarding C.L.’s medical care and a modification of parenting time. On October 24, 2018, before these matters proceeded to a hearing, the court entered an agreed order establishing a modified parenting schedule for holidays.

¶ 10 The court held a nine-day evidentiary hearing on Kaylie’s petitions over many months in 2020. It would be impractical and unnecessary to recount all the evidence that the parties presented. It will suffice to relate the following.

¶ 11 Since the JDOM was entered, the greatest source of conflict between the parties centered

around C.L.’s medical care. The evidence showed that C.L. exhibited significant behavioral problems at school, which continued until he was diagnosed with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) and received medication. By all accounts, C.L.’s behavior had improved by the time of the evidentiary hearing. Much of the hearing consisted of Hal and Kaylie blaming each other for C.L.’s struggles. Generally, Hal believed that Kaylie did not implement the parenting techniques that were recommended by C.L.’s medical team. From Hal’s perspective, Kaylie also violated the JDOM by scheduling medical appointments and requesting referrals to specialists. Hal further testified that Kaylie routinely misrepresented facts to both medical professionals and school personnel. Kaylie, on the other hand, felt that Hal should have taken steps to ensure that C.L. was evaluated sooner and more extensively. Kaylie also complained that Hal did not give her complete information about C.L.’s medical treatment and the behavioral reports from school.

¶ 12 The record is replete with other examples of the parties disagreeing as to how to manage C.L.’s medical needs. This included disagreement as to how to proceed in light of C.L.’s diagnosis of a “provisional tic disorder.” The parties also disagreed whether Hal acted appropriately by having a surgeon correct a condition with C.L.’s thumb.

¶ 13 The parties voiced many other complaints about each other. For example, Hal testified that Kaylie made inappropriate comments about the litigation in C.L.’s presence. Among Kaylie’s concerns were that she was not receiving enough phone time with C.L. and that she was listed behind Hal’s parents on the list of emergency contacts for C.L.’s school registration. Generally, when one party made an allegation, the other party denied it or cast the circumstances in an entirely different light.

¶ 14 Aside from their disagreements over C.L.’s medical care and their numerous grievances about one another, the evidence showed that Hal and Kaylie were able to participate jointly and

civilly in connection with some special events and C.L.’s extracurricular activities. For example, they attended C.L.’s scouting and sporting events together without incident. As another example, when Kaylie went on vacation with C.L., Hal drove them to the airport and watched Kaylie’s dog.

¶ 15 By agreement, the parties admitted into evidence a report dated March 19, 2019, authored by Kara Anast, a licensed clinical psychologist. Anast served as an evaluator pursuant to section 604.10(c) of the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (Act) (750 ILCS 5/604.10(c) (West 2018)). Anast determined that, “[w]hile both parties would like to blame the other for the conflict, they both contribute to this conflict to a significant degree.” Nevertheless, Anast had “more concerns about Kaylie’s parenting than Hal’s.” Among the concerns was “Kaylie’s ability at being consistent with [C.L.] and with setting limits,” as “[c]hildren with [ADHD] typically thrive more with structure and positive limits setting.”

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