In re Marriage of Kerby

Court of Appeals of Iowa·Decided May 10, 2023·No. 21-1727·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 21-1727

Filed May 10, 2023

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF SHAUNA LEA KERBY AND SHAWN MICHAEL KERBY

Upon the Petition of SHAUNA LEA KERBY, Petitioner-Appellant,

And Concerning SHAWN MICHAEL KERBY, Respondent-Appellee.

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Dallas County, Randy V. Hefner, Judge.

Shauna Kerby appeals orders reinstating her children’s visits with their father following a period of suspension while he was incarcerated for federal drug crimes. REVERSED AND REMANDED.

Christina I. Thompson of Phil Watson, P.C., Des Moines, for appellant.

Cynthia D. Hucks of Box and Box Attorneys at Law, Ottumwa, for appellee.

Heard by Bower, C.J., and Vaitheswaran and Tabor, JJ.

VAITHESWARAN, Judge.

A mother of three children appeals orders reinstating visits with the children’s father following a period of suspension while he was incarcerated for federal drug crimes. I. Background Facts and Proceedings Shauna and Shawn Kerby divorced in 2015. The district court granted the parties joint legal custody of their three children and granted Shauna physical care, subject to visits with Shawn for six overnights per fourteen-day period. In the intervening years, the parties engaged in extensive litigation, much of it addressing the consequences of Shawn’s addiction to opiates. That litigation informs the orders that are the subject of this appeal.

A year after the divorce, Shawn moved for temporary modification of his child-support obligation. He attested that (1) his dentistry practice was shut down following a federal “investigation into questioned prescriptions for pain narcotics”; (2) he voluntarily surrendered his dentistry license pending the outcome of the investigation; and (3) he began outpatient treatment for his dependence on hydrocodone. Shauna countered with a contempt application. Following a hearing, the district court found Shawn in contempt for failing to pay his child support obligation of $4000 per month and for violating the dissolution decree in other respects.

Meanwhile, Shauna moved to Minnesota. A stipulation was drafted stating Shauna would retain physical care of the children, with Shawn exercising some of his weekend visits in Minnesota rather than Iowa. The parties further agreed that Shawn would be subject to random drug testing and would provide the results to

Shauna. The stipulation covered possible ongoing substance abuse by Shawn as follows: “If Shawn fails any test, or is arrested for any drug or alcohol related offense during that time, his parenting time provided for herein may be suspended by the Court, and the custodial provisions herein may be modified, upon application filed by Shauna.” The stipulation also addressed Shawn’s possible conviction, as follows:

The parties will continue to share joint legal custody of the children. However, in the event that Shawn is convicted of any criminal offense in excess of a misdemeanor, such event shall constitute a material and substantial change in circumstances, and the court may have grounds to modify any order concerning the legal custody and/or parenting schedule provided for herein.

Shawn and his attorney signed the stipulation and filed it with the district court, together with an application to enforce it. Shauna resisted on the ground that Shawn knowingly concealed his indictment and arraignment on federal charges, rendering her participation in negotiations “not knowing and informed.” She sought an order overruling the application and requiring Shawn’s visits to be supervised in Minnesota pending final resolution of the federal charges.

The district court adopted the stipulation, except a provision delegating authority to a parenting coordinator. By this time, two years had elapsed since the parties’ divorce.

Toward the end of 2017, Shauna filed an application to suspend visitation or grant supervised visitation on the ground that Shawn pled guilty to two federal charges, both felonies. Shawn resisted. The district court noted Shawn’s convictions for (1) obtaining hydrocodone by misrepresentation, fraud, deception and subterfuge and (2) unlawful user and addict of a controlled substance in

possession of a firearm. The court also referenced his pretrial arrest and incarceration for violation of pretrial release terms and his twenty-month sentence and post-discharge supervised release. The court concluded Shawn’s “incarceration constitut[ed] an emergency permitting immediate suspension of the parenting schedule.” Shawn was granted authority “to seek reinstatement of his visitation/parenting time . . . upon written application.”

Twenty-one months later, Shawn applied to modify the order suspending visitation time. He alleged he “ha[d] achieved and maintained sobriety, ha[d] achieved stability, and ha[d] been released from prison,” and it was in the children’s best interests that “parenting time be reinstated.” The district court denied the motion but stated the ruling would be reconsidered at a hearing in two months.

Two months later, the district court found that Shawn “continue[d] to suffer from significant substance abuse issues.” The court cited a discharge summary from a sobriety institute Shawn attended diagnosing him with “[a]lcohol [u]se [d]isorder-[s]evere” and stating Shawn “appear[ed] to have replaced his drug of choice, opiates, with alcohol.” Also of concern to the court was a positive alcohol reading two weeks after his discharge from the facility, despite the facility’s requirement of total abstinence. In the court’s view, Shawn’s lack of contact with the children for more than two years meant that initial contacts with them, “even telephonic contacts,” would “be unsettling, at best, or traumatic, at worst.” The court concluded Shawn was “not yet prepared to engage in those initial contacts.” His request for temporary telephonic contact was denied.

Trial on Shawn’s application to permanently modify the suspension order was held nine months later. Shawn testified he last had contact with the children

in 2018 and, in light of his lengthy absence, it “would be best” to have some sort of reunification process. He stated he “wouldn’t have an issue” with in-person supervised visits. Shauna countered that reinstatement of visits was not in the children’s best interests given the anxiety the children experienced when they had contact. She also cited Shawn’s unsafe visitation practices, his convictions, and the potential for relapse.

In a March 2021 order, the district court granted Shawn’s request to terminate the emergency suspension of his parenting time, subject to implementation of a professionally-supervised family reunification plan. Under the plan, the professional was to “work with this family to restore within a reasonable time [Shawn’s] parenting time with the children.” The court stated “any schedule” would have to “provide [Shawn] with substantial time with the children.” The court ordered the parties to submit a proposed parenting schedule within two and one- half months.

That time frame came and went without updates from either party.

Ultimately, Shauna filed a report recommending a Minnesota counseling service. She noted that Shawn was informed of the recommendation three weeks earlier but failed to respond. The district court scheduled the matter for hearing.

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