In re Marriage of Holtaus

CourtAppellate Court of Illinois
DecidedNovember 18, 2008
Docket2-07-0562 Rel
StatusPublished

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Opinion

No. 2--07--0562 Filed: 11-18-08 _______________________________________________________________________

IN THE

APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS

SECOND DISTRICT ______________________________________________________________________________

In re MARRIAGE OF ) Appeal from the Circuit Court ANGELINE HOLTHAUS, ) of Du Page County. ) Petitioner and Counterrespondent- ) Appellant and Cross-Appellee, ) ) and ) Nos. 05--D--553 ) 05--D--583 NICHOLAS HOLTHAUS, ) ) Honorable Respondent and Counterpetitioner- ) Rodney W. Equi, Appellee and Cross-Appellant. ) Judge, Presiding. ________________________________________________________________________________

PRESIDING JUSTICE ZENOFF delivered the opinion of the court:

On May 10, 2007, the circuit court of Du Page County entered a judgment dissolving the

marriage between petitioner, Angeline Holthaus, and respondent, Nicholas Holthaus. Angeline

appealed, arguing that the trial court erred in (1) striking her response to Nicholas's request to admit,

(2) finding that she dissipated $118,688, and (3) failing to treat the parties' attorney fees as advances

on their respective shares of the marital estate. Nicholas filed a cross-appeal, arguing that the trial

court erred in finding that Angeline dissipated only $118,688. For the following reasons, we reverse

and remand for further proceedings.

BACKGROUND

Angeline and Nicholas were married on June 21, 1961. They had two children

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marriage, both of whom were emancipated by the time of trial.

During the course of the marriage, Angeline, who was in charge of the parties'

finances, gambled at area casinos. Nicholas testified that she told him that the funds for

the gambling came from the money she earned preparing tax returns for people and that,

when he asked Angeline whether she had won or lost, she would tell him that she had

broken even. Angeline testified that, when she went to the casinos, she would often spend

"a few hundred dollars," which she obtained by cashing a check or withdrawing money

from the ATM. According to her, she would "come away with money."

According to Nicholas, in 1997 the parties ceased having a "romantic relationship"1

and in 1998 the parties ceased sharing a bedroom. Nicholas began to sleep in the rec room

while Angeline slept upstairs in the master bedroom. Nicholas described the environment in the

home at the time as hostile. In 2001, the parties were no longer sharing meals. Although Angeline

would cook the meals or the parties would order food in, Nicholas would take his plate and eat in

the rec room, away from Angeline.2 Further, in 2001, the parties not only slept in separate parts of

the house but also lived in separate parts of the house. Nicholas testified that the parties lived and

ate separately because every conversation between them ended in an argument. Although there were

1 Angeline testified at trial that she could not recall the last time that she and Nicholas had had

"marital relations," but she admitted that during her deposition she testified that it was in the late

1990s. 2 Angeline testified at trial that she and Nicholas did not stop eating meals together, but she

admitted that during her deposition she testified that Nicholas would either take his meal to another

room or eat quickly and then retreat to a separate room.

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times he thought things might get better, they always became worse and there was eventually a point

where the parties "just didn't communicate at all."

At trial, Nicholas described an incident that occurred in October 2001. After discovering two

ATM withdrawals made at the Grand Victoria Casino in Elgin, totaling $6,000, he confronted

Angeline. Her only response at the time was that she wanted a divorce. The following month,

Angeline gave Nicholas a letter in which she outlined her "plan" for the future. She stated that she

wanted the house and that she would be responsible for paying the equity loan if Nicholas did not

want to contribute. In addition, she stated that she would be responsible for all credit card debt. She

asked that Nicholas inform her of his plans for paying other household and car expenses and asked

that, in any case, he continue paying such expenses until March 2002 so that she could get her

"affairs in order." Angeline further stated in the letter that she and Nicholas could use the time "as

a cooling off period or a settling of affairs period, whichever would apply," depending upon whether

they chose to stay together or to separate. She concluded the letter by asking Nicholas to

communicate with her in writing, "as communication [had] completely broken down between

[them]."

After 2001, the parties together attended their son's wedding, made appearances at family

events, and went out to dinner several times. In addition, Nicholas testified that he went to casinos

with Angeline several times in order to help with Angeline's mother, who accompanied them.

Angeline's mother, Marie, lived with the parties for 16 years until she passed away in March

2006. While living with the parties, Marie owned a house in Chicago. In 2003, Angeline and

Nicholas performed some repair and remodeling work on the house. Nicholas testified that he did

much of the physical labor involved in repairing the house (the other portion of the physical labor

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was performed by contractors), while Angeline mostly wrote the checks to cover the costs of the

repairs. He also testified that the repairs and remodeling were paid for out of the parties' joint

account. Nicholas testified that he and Angeline repaired Marie's house to prepare it for sale.

Angeline testified that, although Nicholas did perform some of the work on Marie's home, he did not

do so to the extent that he claimed. Instead, contractors did much of the physical labor. She also

testified that the repairs and remodeling were paid for from the proceeds of an insurance claim Marie

had made for hail damage to the house sometime after 2000 and that, at the time the insurance claim

was made, the parties did not intend to sell the house. Angeline did admit, however, that the parties

had twice attempted to sell Marie's home.

According to Nicholas, while Marie lived with him and Angeline, Marie did not

have the assets to cover her living expenses and, in return for paying for Marie's living

expenses, he believed he and Angeline would receive Marie's house. In the end, Marie's

house did not sell, and Angeline inherited the house when Marie died. Angeline testified

that there was never an agreement that Marie would give the house to Angeline and

Nicholas.

In November 2004, Nicholas began to move some of his personal effects out of the

marital home. Angeline testified that, as of January 2005, she was doing the cooking,

cleaning, and shopping for the household. In February 2005, the parties got into an

argument after which Nicholas left the marital home permanently. He returned several

times in the weeks following his departure, to retrieve some of his personal items.

Nicholas testified that he believed "irreconcilable differences happened" as of

October 2001. Angeline testified that she believed the marriage was "irretrievably broken"

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as of February 2005, when Nicholas moved out of the marital home. When presented with

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