In re Marriage of Golden

2012 IL App (2d) 120513, 363 Ill. Dec. 130
CourtAppellate Court of Illinois
DecidedAugust 13, 2012
Docket2-12-0513
StatusPublished
Cited by2 cases

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In re Marriage of Golden, 2012 IL App (2d) 120513, 363 Ill. Dec. 130 (Ill. Ct. App. 2012).

Opinion

ILLINOIS OFFICIAL REPORTS Appellate Court

In re Marriage of Golden, 2012 IL App (2d) 120513

Appellate Court In re MARRIAGE OF JILL GOLDEN, Petitioner-Appellee, and ALAN Caption FRIEDMAN, Respondent-Appellant.

District & No. Second District Docket No. 2-12-0513

Filed August 13, 2012

Held Respondent’s e-mails complaining about the frequency of petitioner’s (Note: This syllabus forfeiture of her time with the children pursuant to their regular parenting constitutes no part of schedule raised an issue within the scope of the arbitration clause of their the opinion of the court joint parenting agreement, despite petitioner’s contention that there was but has been prepared no “clearly defined conflict,” and therefore respondent’s motion to by the Reporter of compel arbitration should have been granted. Decisions for the convenience of the reader.)

Decision Under Appeal from the Circuit Court of Lake County, No. 00-D-853; the Hon. Review Donna-Jo Vorderstrasse, Judge, presiding.

Judgment Reversed and remanded. Counsel on Richard D. Grossman, of Law Offices of Richard D. Grossman, of Appeal Chicago, for appellant.

James M. Quigley and Katherine A. Grosh, both of Beermann Swerdlove LLP, of Chicago, for appellee.

Panel JUSTICE BIRKETT delivered the judgment of the court, with opinion. Justices McLaren and Bowman concurred in the judgment and opinion.

OPINION

¶1 Respondent, Alan Friedman, who was divorced from petitioner, Jill Golden, in August 2000, appeals from the judgment of the trial court denying his motion to compel arbitration pursuant to an arbitration clause in the parties’ parenting agreement. The trial court reasoned that respondent failed to show the existence of an actual controversy for the arbitrator to settle. We hold that a controversy did exist, and we therefore reverse the trial court’s judgment.

¶2 BACKGROUND ¶3 As a threshold matter, we address a motion by respondent to supplement the record. The appendix to respondent’s opening brief included a copy of the trial court’s April 27, 2012, order denying his motion to compel arbitration. After petitioner noted in her response brief that the April 27 order was not included in the record, respondent moved to supplement the record with the order. Petitioner has filed no objection. We hereby grant the motion to supplement. ¶4 The August 2000 divorce decree designated petitioner as “primary residential custodian” of the parties’ two children and established a “joint parenting agreement.” The parenting agreement set forth a detailed “parenting scheduling” dividing the parties’ time with the children. The record contains two subsequent amendments to the parenting schedule. The first amendment, in December 2006, gave petitioner sole physical custody of the children and severely limited direct contact between the parties. The December 2006 amendment also modified the parenting schedule. The second amendment, dated April 30, 2010, instituted the use of a parenting coordinator and required the parties to communicate with each other exclusively through the coordinator “except if the child or children [are] in the hospital or

-2- are on their way to the hospital for a medical emergency.”1 The April 2010 amendment also contained a parenting schedule that superseded all prior schedules. The schedule provided for “regular parenting time,” “holiday parenting time,” and “additional parenting time for [respondent].” Parenting time was to be coordinated through a virtual calendar called “our family wizard.” Each parent had the right of first refusal regarding parenting time that the other parent was willing to relinquish. Additionally, the amendment contained the following provision concerning arbitration: “The matters of camp, medical decisions and the regular parenting time schedule are the only matters which shall be arbitrated.” ¶5 On January 13, 2012, respondent filed his motion to compel arbitration. Respondent alleged that petitioner had forfeited 53 days of her regular parenting time in 2011 and 14 of 18 days of regular parenting time so far in January 2012. Respondent also alleged that petitioner had already forfeited dates after January 2012. Respondent argued that “one parent’s regular forfeiture of at least one-third or more of her regularly schedule[d] parent time over the course of a year and 80% of her regularly scheduled time in one month (January 2012) affects ‘the regular parenting time schedule’ referred to in the April 30, 2010, [o]rder requiring arbitration.” Respondent recounted that, pursuant to the arbitration clause, he “requested numerous times to [petitioner] through the arbitrator and the parenting coordinator that the parties meet to discuss his concerns about the current [p]arenting [s]chedule.” According to respondent, arbitrator Sally Lichter informed him on January 5, 2012, that petitioner reported that she would not attend arbitration because she saw no conflict between the parties. ¶6 Respondent’s motion attached the following e-mails between (1) him; (2) Lichter; (3) Lichter’s paralegal, Patti Siedelmann; (4) Joyce Shatney, who apparently was the parenting coordinator under the April 2010 amendment; and (5) petitioner: (a) Respondent to Shatney, August 29, 2011: “Joyce, please send to Jill: You just surrendered another 9 days of your parenting time on the [f]amily [w]izard. This comes on the heels of many other forfeitures of your parenting time. I have records of all your absences going back many years. I am very concerned about the amount of absent time on your part from the children at a time when they need supervision in their lives, especially Emily[,] and the impact on the children. You are supposed to be the ‘primary residential parent.’ The issue of the ‘regular parenting time’ is a matter to be discussed in arbitration AND we also have a child’s rep[.] appointed in order [sic] regarding the welfare of the children. I think it[’]s time to have a visit to discuss my concerns about the children’s welfare regarding all of your absences as [I] clearly cannot keep the children as often as you are leaving them. It appears obvious to me that the children are not your

1 Petitioner claims that the April 2010 amendment came about because respondent violated the contact restrictions in the December 2006 amendment, prompting her to file for a temporary restraining order and to seek the implementation of a parenting coordinator. The only source petitioner cites for these representations is a set of similar allegations in her response to the motion to compel arbitration.

-3- first priority in relationship to your quite frequent vacations. Please advise, Alan Friedman.” (b) Respondent to Lichter, November 12, 2011: “Hi Sally, please forward this email to Jill to inform her of my reasons and concerns for our children. I am requesting arbitration to address Jill’s almost 70 absences from the regular parenting schedule this year. Our parenting agreement says we go to arbitration for matters of camp, medical, and ‘the regular parenting schedule.’ There is no ‘regular parenting schedule’ any longer as Jill continually disrupts it with very regular absences from the children in California. She is a stay away mother, not a stay at home mother. *** Her regular offering of the right of first refusal is not the issue I want to address. I want to address the fact that she is disrupting the schedule so often that there is no regularity[,] which is not good for our children ***. This provision was purposely written into our parenting agreement for arbitration so can you offer us both dates in Dec[.] *** to see you to discuss my concerns?” (c) Siedelmann to petitioner, November 14, 2011: “Please see the following e-mail which Mr. Friedman has requested that we forward to you. As I am copying Mr. Friedman on this e-mail, please note that Ms.

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