In re Marriage of Cummings

Court of Appeals of Iowa·Decided January 10, 2024·No. 23-0358·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 23-0358

Filed January 10, 2024

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF KATIE ANN CUMMINGS AND KENNETH GEORGE CUMMINGS

Upon the Petition of KATIE ANN CUMMINGS, n/k/a KATIE ANN WESTENDORF, Petitioner-Appellee,

And Concerning KENNETH GEORGE CUMMINGS, Respondent-Appellant.

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Black Hawk County, Linda M. Fangman, Judge.

Kenneth Cummings appeals the physical care, child support, and property divisions of the decree dissolving his marriage to Katie Cummings. AFFIRMED.

Maria L. Hartman of Sweet & Hartman, P.L.C., Reinbeck, for appellant.

Elizabeth M. Wayne of Papenheim Law Office, Parkersburg, for appellee.

Considered by Tabor, P.J., and Badding and Chicchelly, JJ.

BADDING, Judge.

Kenneth (“Ken”) and Katie Cummings separated in the fall of 2021, after fourteen years of marriage. For the next year, they informally shared physical care of their two daughters. At their dissolution trial, Katie wanted joint physical care to continue while Ken wanted it to end. The district court determined the arrangement was unworkable and placed the children in Katie’s physical care. On appeal from the court’s dissolution decree, Ken now seeks joint physical care of the children, minimizing the communication problems he highlighted at trial. He also challenges the court’s handling of Katie’s discovery violations, rejection of the stipulated child support guidelines, and division of a daycare bill. We affirm. I. Background Facts and Proceedings Ken and Katie married in June 2008. Their oldest daughter was born in 2012 and their youngest in 2018. Katie, while self-represented, petitioned to dissolve the marriage in July 2021, though Ken was not served with notice of the petition until September. The parties lived together until early November, when Katie and the children moved out of the marital home in Waterloo. Neither party handled the end of their marriage well.

Soon after moving out, Katie applied for a domestic abuse protective order because she was bombarded by text messages from Ken. The court denied her request after a hearing but cautioned Ken that he needed to “learn how to control” his “verbal accusations, attacks, snideness.” Around the same time, a report was made to the Iowa Department of Health and Human Services that Ken had spanked the youngest child “resulting in welts” and physically assaulted Katie in front of the children. The report was not confirmed. Then, Katie reported Ken’s

employer to a work-safety authority after seeing a video that Ken took of their oldest child at work with him “running a machine” without safety equipment. During this same time, Ken was texting Katie that she was a deadbeat and a “lying cheater.”

Despite these issues, the parties informally agreed to share physical care of the children on an alternating two-day, two-day, three-day schedule. Katie had moved to Cedar Falls, while Ken was living in his hometown of Reinbeck. The children, however, continued to attend school and daycare in Waterloo, which was about a fifteen-minute drive for Katie and thirty minutes for Ken. Katie intended to move back to Waterloo at some point, but Ken had no plans to leave Reinbeck, where he wanted the children to attend school.

The parties attended mediation in January 2022. Katie was still self-

represented, but Ken had an attorney. They purportedly reached an agreement resolving all issues. Yet when Ken’s attorney drafted the agreement for Katie to sign, she refused and retained an attorney. The district court denied Ken’s subsequent motion to enforce the settlement, finding “mutual assent between the parties was not established at the time of the mediation, particularly on the crucial issue of child custody.”

As the case progressed to trial, the district court dealt with a few skirmishes between the parties. One concerned Katie’s failure to provide Ken with copies of the children’s social security and insurance cards. Following a hearing in October, the court noted that while Katie had provided that information to Ken just before the hearing, her efforts were “inadequate and her actions have not been in good faith.” Another concerned Katie’s failure to respond to Ken’s discovery requests.

The court sanctioned her for that conduct by limiting her ability to present evidence at trial and requiring her to pay $500 in attorney fees.1 At the trial in mid-December, a different judge modified that sanctions order over Ken’s objection:

If the witness or the exhibit has to do with custody or school or something directly related to the children, then I’m going to allow that information to come in. It is not in any way to suggest that I don’t condemn the late filings and the lack of discovery.

However, in an effort to make a decision that’s in the best interest of the children, I feel that I need to have all of the information to make that decision; and I will not limit information as it regards the children.

The court then heard testimony from the parties, Katie’s mother, and Ken’s aunt.

In January 2023, the court entered its dissolution decree, placing the children in the parties’ joint legal custody and Katie’s physical care with liberal visitation for Ken. Implicitly finding Katie to be the more credible witness, the court concluded joint physical care “is not reasonable long-term for these children” after considering the factors outlined in Iowa Code section 598.41(3) (2021), In re Marriage of Winter, 223 N.W.2d 165, 166–67 (Iowa 1974), and In re Marriage of Hansen, 733 N.W.2d 683, 697–99 (Iowa 2007):

Katie told the court the last two to three months prior to trial communication between her and Ken had been much better, and she was optimistic they can continue to improve their communication over time. Katie’s testimony appeared to be optimistic that in spite of her history with Ken, those matters would be set aside and it would be in the best interest of the girls to have continued contact with their

1 The court ruled, in part:

[Katie] will not be allowed to present witnesses, however, [Katie] will be permitted to testify; [Katie] will not be allowed to present exhibits unless [she] can show the content of the exhibit was equally available to [Ken] prior to trial; any exhibit that contains information that was only available to [Katie] and was not produced in a discovery response shall not be admissible . . . .

father. Ken’s position is contrary to this and was quick to lay all the blame on Katie. While Ken acknowledges Katie is a good mom and it’s important for the girls to have their mother, he testified their communication is not good. In fact, he repeatedly testified that, while he doesn’t have issues communicating with Katie, Katie has issues communicating with him, and while he has no problem making joint decisions, Katie makes decision without consulting him. He alleges Katie is responsible for his lack of communication and knowledge with the school even though as a parent is perfectly capable of making contact with the school himself, informing them of his correct phone number and contact information as well as signing up for electronic communication with the school. He also alleges it is Katie’s fault he didn’t attend conferences because she did not give him enough information about the school conferences. This is directly contradicted by Exhibit [4]00 which shows on September 30, 2021, Katie did contact him regarding school conferences and, in fact, set the conference when Ken requested it. . . . The comments made and the attitude displayed by Ken throughout the trial also supports a finding that shared care is not viable in this particular case.

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