In re Marriage of Brogdon

2020 IL App (1st) 191851-U

• Court: Appellate Court of Illinois
• Decided: June 30, 2020
• Docket: 1-19-1851
• Status: Unpublished

Opinion

2020 IL App (1st) 191851-U

THIRD DIVISION June 30, 2020

No. 1-19-1851

NOTICE: This order was filed under Supreme Court Rule 23 and may not be cited as precedent by any party except in the limited circumstances allowed under Rule 23(e)(1). ______________________________________________________________________________

IN THE APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS FIRST JUDICIAL DISTRICT ______________________________________________________________________________

In re MARRIAGE OF ) Appeal from the ) Circuit Court of DARCEY R. BROGDON, ) Cook County. ) Petitioner-Appellee, ) ) v. ) No. 17 D 8731 ) KEITH A. BROGDON, JR., ) Honorable ) Karen J. Bowes, Respondent-Appellant. ) Judge Presiding. ______________________________________________________________________________

JUSTICE HOWSE delivered the judgment of the court. Presiding Justice Ellis and Justice McBride concurred in the judgment.

ORDER

¶1 Held: The Judgment of the Circuit Court of Cook County is affirmed; the trial court’s order setting a parenting time schedule and right of first refusal set forth in the Allocation Judgment was not an abuse of discretion nor did it result in a manifest injustice to the minor or respondent and respondent forfeited his arguments on appeal with respect to his motion to reconsider by failing to provide a complete record.

¶2 This appeal stems from a dissolution of marriage action between the parties and involves

the trial court’s rulings with respect to the weekday parenting time schedule between respondent

and one of the parties’ two minor children as well as the right of first refusal. Following a trial

limited to resolution of certain disputed parental responsibilities the trial court entered an 1-19-1851

Allocation Judgment. The Allocation Judgment awarded parenting time to respondent with the

parties’ youngest child including one weekday dinner and a general right of first refusal invoked

when a parent is away from the child overnight for non-work related reasons. Respondent filed a

motion to reconsider the trial court’s rulings on these two issues which the trial court denied.

Thereafter respondent appealed arguing the trial court erred in (1) awarding respondent one

weekday dinner with the child; (2) its application of the right of first refusal and use of language

stating the provisions were agreed; and (3) denying respondent’s motion to reconsider and

request to file a reply to petitioner’s response to the motion. For the reasons set forth below, we

affirm the trial court’s Allocation Judgment.

¶3 BACKGROUND

¶4 On October 12, 2017, petitioner, Darcey R. Brogdon, commenced this dissolution of

marriage action involving respondent, Keith A. Brogdon, Jr., seeking relief including the

adjudication of parental responsibilities with respect to the parties’ two minor daughters born of

the marriage, J.B. and K.B., respectively ages fourteen and eight at the time of trial. The

following facts are relevant to respondent’s appeal.

¶5 On August 7, 2018, Nicole Centracchio was appointed as the children’s guardian ad litem

(GAL). Prior to trial, the GAL prepared her Report of the Guardian Ad Litem (report) pursuant

to section 506 of the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (Act) (750 ILCS

5/506(a)(2) (West 2018)).

¶6 On March 5, 2019, this matter was set for trial commencing on June 18 and 19, 2019.

The trial order provided for an in-camera interview with the children which was conducted on

the first day of trial. An order was entered stating “the transcript from the in-camera interview

shall be ---- sealed, and not filed with the clerk of court.” (Emphasis in original.)

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¶7 On June 20, 2019, following a binding pretrial conference on financial issues, the trial

court entered a Judgment for Dissolution of Marriage incorporating the parties’ marital

settlement agreement. The court also conducted a pretrial conference on parenting issues;

however, no agreement was reached on the issue of parenting time with K.B. and the right of

first refusal. A trial to resolve parenting time issues was subsequently conducted by the trial

court. Prior to any witnesses being called, an order was entered stating “the report of the

Guardian ad Litem stands as testimony and is admitted into evidence.” Neither party objected to

the entry of this order or the contents of the GAL’s report.

¶8 For petitioner’s case-in-chief, petitioner’s counsel stated: “I stand on the guardian ad

litem’s report, and I stand on the 604-A interview the Court had with both children. And that’s

my case.”

¶9 As part of her report the GAL interviewed petitioner, respondent, K.B., J.B. and Joanne

Smith, a therapist working with the family. Statements made during these conversations were

memorialized in the report. The GAL also made certain recommendations concerning parental

responsibilities and noted that “there is little to no communication between the parties.” With

respect to the parenting time schedule, the GAL stated, “it seems that the current schedule is

working between [K.B.] and [respondent].” She also recommended that respondent engage in

personal therapy as “a requirement in moving forward, especially in navigating moving forward

in his relationship with his children and with others in general.” The GAL also hoped “that

[K.B.] and [respondent could] continue to have a positive relationship, and that going forward he

will not talk to her about any personal issues or court matters.”

¶ 10 Respondent called petitioner as an adverse witness. Petitioner testified that over the

course of their marriage she took care of the children most of the time and was a stay-at-home

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mom. She ultimately became employed working nights in construction. While she was at work,

respondent would be home with the children while they were all sleeping. He did prepare dinner

for the children from time to time and the children would prepare their own breakfast in the

morning.

¶ 11 Petitioner testified that after she attempted to obtain an emergency order of protection

and left the marital home with the children respondent did see the children though she could not

recall the exact dates and times of those visits. She informed respondent “he had every

opportunity to [see the children]. He made the choice not to.”

¶ 12 She testified her father provides care of the children from time to time and that “[h]e’s

more than happy to spend as much time as he can with his grand kids.” She believed the

schedule in place at the time of trial had “been working out” and was a fair schedule. She

testified K.B. likes to spend time with respondent. However, she was opposed to respondent

having overnight parenting time with K.B. during summer weekdays explaining that “he could

not get her to the activities she had the following day” when he had K.B. on weekday overnights

in the past. She was also opposed to respondent having an overnight on his Sunday parenting

time during the summer.

¶ 13 Respondent was also called as a witness. He testified that prior to the filing of the

dissolution action, he was employed working for a construction company. At that time, he

would leave for work at approximately 5:30 a.m. and petitioner would return from her night shift

around 6, 6:30 a.m. Petitioner would take the children to school in the morning and respondent

would pick them up. Respondent testified he would also “get their dinner ready, get them ready

for baths and whatever else.” Petitioner would then leave for work at “7:00, 8:00, or 9:00

o’clock [at night] depending on what her start time was.”

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¶ 14 Respondent testified petitioner sought an emergency order of protection and left the

marital home with the children around the time the dissolution proceedings were commenced.

Though petitioner asked respondent to leave the marital home, respondent did not agree to leave

but was ultimately ordered to do so. Respondent testified that during the 60 to 65-day period

following petitioner’s attempt to obtain an emergency order of protection, he had telephone

contact with the children but that it “started to wane” when petitioner was not answering his texts

requesting the children call him. He confirmed that petitioner offered him time with the children

but he did not take advantage of that time because he “was afraid of doing anything that would

jeopardize [him]” noting he was waiting to receive certain court-related documents from

petitioner. Respondent asked the children to come back to the marital home “over and over

again[,]” “multiple times.” The children responded to these requests indicating “their mother

would not let them.”

¶ 15 Ultimately there was a parenting time schedule put in place in December 2017 but

respondent stated he was not in agreement when it happened. We note that the schedule

referenced by respondent was entered pursuant to an agreed order (temporary parenting time

schedule) and gave respondent alternating weekend time from Friday at 6:00 p.m. to Sunday at

7:30 p.m., a dinner every Tuesday and alternating Thursdays preceding petitioner’s alternating

weekend parenting time. This temporary parenting time schedule was in effect at the time of the

GAL’s report and through the trial.

¶ 16 Respondent testified to various alleged inaccuracies in the GAL’s report. The majority of

these inaccuracies related to statements made by others to the GAL which were memorialized in

the report. One such “inaccuracy” pointed out by respondent was the GAL’s recommendation in

the report that he not discuss court or money with K.B. Respondent denied discussing court or

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money with K.B. and pointed to K.B.’s statements to the GAL contained in the report that K.B.

had never heard respondent say anything bad or discussing court or money.

¶ 17 At the time of trial respondent resided 2.2 miles from petitioner’s residence and

approximately 2.3 miles from K.B.’s school. With respect to the parenting time schedule with

K.B., respondent testified he wanted overnight parenting time on Wednesdays and Thursdays

and alternating weekends from Friday to Monday. Respondent also sought a right of first refusal

that included work nights stating he “would like the ability to watch [K.B.], instead of

[petitioner’s] father or her son watching [K.B.]” He was willing to help K.B. with her homework

during his parenting time.

¶ 18 On July 3, 2019, the trial court entered the Allocation Judgment which provided each

party with certain significant decision-making responsibilities. The Allocation Judgment

reserved parenting time between respondent and J.B. and included specific holiday, vacation, and

regular weekday and weekend parenting time with K.B.

¶ 19 Pursuant to the holiday and vacation schedule for K.B., the parties are to alternate Labor

Day weekend (from Friday at 6:00 p.m. until Monday at 6:00 p.m.); Thanksgiving (from

Thanksgiving Day at 10:00 a.m. to Friday at 10:00 a.m.); the first and second halves of winter

break which includes time over Christmas Eve and Christmas Day; Easter Sunday; Spring Break;

and Memorial Day (from Friday at 6:00 p.m. to Monday at 8:00 p.m.). Petitioner was given time

on Mother’s Day and respondent was given equivalent time on Father’s Day. Both parties were

also given two weeks of summer vacation parenting time with K.B.

¶ 20 The regular weekend parenting time schedule with K.B. gives respondent parenting time

every other weekend from Friday at 6:00 p.m. to the following Monday at 8:00 a.m. Respondent

also has weekday parenting time with K.B. every Wednesday from after school until 7:30 p.m.

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Pursuant to the Allocation Judgment, petitioner is to have parenting time with K.B. at all other

times.

¶ 21 The Allocation Judgment also includes a right of first refusal as follows:

“Pursuant to 750 ILCS 5/602.3 and 750 ILCS 5/602.10(f)(14), the parties agree

that if the parent caring for [K.B.] needs someone to watch her overnight for non-

work related reasons, the parent needing the childcare shall notify the other parent

via telephone or text message, and specify the period of time when the childcare

is needed. If the other parent responds within 24 hours and can provide childcare

for the designated period of time, the parent needing the childcare shall provide

transportation of [K.B.] to the other parent, and the parent caring for [K.B.] shall

return her. If the parent needing childcare does not hear back from the other

parent within 24 hours, the parent[] needing childcare may seek childcare from a

third party caregiver or babysitter.”

¶ 22 On August 2, 2019, respondent filed a motion to reconsider arguing the trial court erred

in applying the law with respect to his weekday parenting time with K.B. and the right of first

refusal. Respondent sought a rehearing and modification of the Allocation Judgment extending

respondent’s weekday parenting time from a Wednesday dinner to “overnight parenting time

with [K.B.] on Wednesday and/or Thursdays of each week.” As to the right of first refusal,

respondent argued it should include overnights for work-related and non-work-related absences

rather than just the former.

¶ 23 On August 8, 2019, petitioner filed her response to respondent’s motion. On August 13,

2019, the date respondent obtained for presentment of his motion, the trial court entered an order

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denying his motion and respondent’s request to file a reply to petitioner’s response.

Respondent’s appeal followed.

¶ 24 ANALYSIS

¶ 25 On appeal, respondent argues the trial court erred in (1) not awarding him more weekday

parenting time with K.B.; (2) its application of the right of first refusal and use of language

stating the provisions were agreed; and (3) denying respondent’s request to file a reply to

petitioner’s response to the motion for reconsideration and denying the motion to reconsider.

¶ 26 A trial court’s order allocating parenting time and implementation of a right of first

refusal is based on the best interests of the child and will not be reversed unless the order is

against the manifest weight of the evidence, is manifestly unjust, or the result of an abuse of

discretion. In re Marriage of Whitehead, 2018 IL App (5th) 170380, ¶¶ 21, 40. Respondent

argues the trial court’s parenting time order and right of refusal contained in the Allocation

Judgment were an abuse of discretion. “[A]n abuse of discretion will be found only where the

trial court’s decision is ‘ “arbitrary, fanciful or unreasonable” ’ or ‘ “where no reasonable man

would take the view adopted by the trial court.” ’ ” People v Illgen, 145 Ill. 2d 353, 364 (2017).

An abuse of discretion will also be found “where the wrong legal standard has been applied.

Zavell & Associates, Inc., v. CCA Industries, Inc., 257 Ill. 3d 319, 322 (1993). A decision is

against the manifest wight of the evidence where the opposite result is clearly evident from the

record.” In re Marriage of Betsy M., 2015 IL App (1st) 151358 ¶ 61.

¶ 27 Before turning to the merits of this appeal, we address respondent’s request that portions

of petitioner’s responsive brief which he alleges are untrue or unsupported by the record be

stricken. Upon careful examination of respondent’s complaints, we find all but two are

unfounded. We agree that there was no testimony that “[petitioner’s] father was at home during

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the night and [petitioner] fed, bathed and put K.B. to bed every night” during the period they

resided with petitioner’s father. Additionally, petitioner’s statement concerning respondent’s

exercise of weekend parenting time following the entry of the Allocation Judgment is dehors the

record and improper. Accordingly, these two sentences will be stricken from petitioner’s

responsive brief. See Walters v. Rodriguez, 2011 IL App (1st) 103488, ¶ 6 (Where a statement

of facts does not comply with our supreme court rules “this court may *** strike portions of the

brief”). We find that these flaws are not so serious as to interfere with our ability to understand

and adjudicate this case but will not consider these assertions in our decision. See State Farm

Mutual Auto Insurance Company v. Burke, 2016 IL App (2d) 150462, ¶ 22 (finding the flaws in

appellant’s brief did not interfere with the court’s ability to understand and adjudicate its appeal

but stating it would “ignore any material that is noncompliant with supreme court rules or that is

unsupported by the record.”).

¶ 28 Weekday Parenting Time

¶ 29 Respondent argues the trial court misapplied the law when it failed to properly consider

and weigh the section 602.7 factors when it allocated weekday parenting time and thus its ruling

constitutes an abuse of discretion. Respondent also argues that the trial court’s parenting time

schedule with K.B. allotting respondent one weekday dinner was an abuse of discretion. We

disagree.

¶ 30 Section 602.7 of the Act directs the court to “allocate parenting time according to the

child’s best interests.” 750 ILCS 5/602.7 (West 2018). This section of the Act states:

“(b) In determining the child’s best interests for purposes of allocating parenting

time, the court shall consider all relevant factors, including, without limitation, the

following:

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(1) the wishes of each parent seeking parenting time;

(2) the wishes of the child, taking into account the child’s maturity and

ability to express reasoned and independent preferences as to parenting

time;

(3) the amount of time each parent spent performing caretaking functions

with respect to the child in the 24 months preceding the filing of any

petition for allocation of parental responsibilities ***;

(4) any prior agreement or course of conduct between the parents relating

to caretaking functions with respect to the child;

(5) the interaction and interrelationship of the child with his or her parents

and siblings and with any other person who may significantly affect the

child’s best interests;

(6) the child’s adjustment to his or her home, school, and community;

(7) the mental and physical health of all individuals involved;

(8) the child’s needs;

(9) the distance between the parents’ residences, the cost and difficulty of

transporting the child, each parent’s and the child’s daily schedules, and

the ability of the parents to cooperate in the arrangement;

(10) whether a restriction on parenting time is appropriate;

(11) the physical violence or threat of physical violence by the child’s

parent directed against the child or other member of the child’s household;

(12) the willingness and ability of each parent to place the needs of the

child ahead of his or her own needs;

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(13) the willingness and ability of each parent to facilitate and encourage a

close and continuing relationship between the other parent and the child;

(14) the occurrence of abuse against the child or other member of the

child’s household;

(15) whether one of the parents is a convicted sex offender or lives with a

convicted sex offender ***; and

(17) any other factor that the court expressly finds to be relevant.

(c) In allocating parenting time, the court shall not consider conduct of a parent

that does not affect that parent’s relationship to the child.” Id.

¶ 31 While a trial court must consider all relevant factors when determining the best interests

of a child, explicit findings or references to each factor are not required. In re Custody of G.L.,

2017 IL App (1st) 163171, ¶ 43. We presume the trial court knows and follows the law. Id.

Additionally, in assessing testamentary evidence, we note that “[t]he trial court is in the best

position to judge the credibility of the witnesses, and we will not supplant those credibility

determinations on appeal.” Id. at ¶ 45.

¶ 32 As to the trial court’s decision in this case, respondent states the trial court “summarily

decided the case without hearing from the GAL after evidence was testified to by [respondent]

contradicting the GAL’s report” and “conducted a trial without [plaintiff] establishing her case-

in-chief and setting forth the relief she requested in her Petition for Dissolution of Marriage.”

Respondent’s assertions are not supported by the record.

¶ 33 To begin, the trial court conducted an in camera interview with the children pursuant to

section 604.10(a) of the Act which states:

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“The court may interview the child in chambers to ascertain the child’s wishes as

to the allocation of parental responsibilities. Counsel shall be present at the

interview unless otherwise agreed upon by the parties. The entire interview shall

be recorded by a court reporter. The transcript of the interview shall be filed

under seal and released only upon order of the court.” 750 ILCS 5/604.10(a)

(West 2018).

¶ 34 The transcript from the in camera was not made a part of the record. It was respondent’s

obligation as appellant to present a sufficiently complete record of the proceedings and where, as

is the case here, the record is incomplete, any doubts which may arise from the incompleteness

of the record will be resolved against respondent. See Foutch v. O’Bryant, 99 Ill. 2d 389, 391-92

(1984). In this case the in camera discussions could arguably have weighed heavily in the trial

court’s findings on nearly all of the section 602.7 best interest factors. On that basis alone, we

find respondent has failed to demonstrate the trial court’s parenting time order was an abuse of

discretion because we do not have a complete record. See id.

¶ 35 After the in camera hearing, the court conducted a pretrial conference to resolve any

disputed issues relevant to the allocation of disputed parental responsibilities. When the parties

were unable to reach an agreement on certain issues, the trial court conducted a trial on the

disputed matters.

¶ 36 The court heard from the GAL by entering its report into evidence. Section 506(a)(2) of

the Act requires the GAL to investigate the facts of the case, interview the child and the parties,

and testify or submit a written report to the court regarding her recommendations in accordance

with the best interest of the child. See 750 ILC 5/506(a)(2) (West 2018). Neither party objected

to the GAL’s report being entered into evidence or to the trial court considering the content of

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the report as testimony. Petitioner rested on that GAL’s report as well as the 604.10(a) interview

of the children.

¶ 37 Respondent, in his own case, provided testimony on these issues and called petitioner as

an adverse witness. We note that respondent could have called the GAL as a witness but chose

not to. After respondent concluded his case, the trial court rendered its Allocation Judgment.

There is nothing in the record to demonstrate the court failed to consider the statutory factors.

Thus, we presume the court followed the law and considered all the statutory factors. See In re

Custody of G.L., 2017 IL App (1st) 163171, ¶ 43.

¶ 38 Indeed, after reviewing the record before us, we find the best interest factors support the

trial court’s parenting time award. We first point out that respondent’s one weekday dinner

parenting time cannot be viewed in a vacuum. Rather, it is only one component of a

comprehensive schedule which provides respondent with alternating weekend time from Friday

to Monday as well as holiday and vacation parenting time which respondent does not contest.

With this in mind, we discuss the relevant best interest factors viewing the evidence in a light

most favorable to petitioner and where multiple inferences can be drawn, accepting those

inference which support the trial court’s order. See In re Marriage of Debra N. and Michael S.,

2013 IL App (1st) 122145, ¶ 45.

¶ 39 With respect to factor one, the wishes of the parent, we note petitioner’s testimony

expressing her position that respondent should not have overnight weekday parenting time

stating that this was consistent with how the parties had been doing things and it had been

working out. In support of this position, petitioner noted respondent’s failure to take K.B. to her

activities following respondent’s past weekday overnight time supporting the trial court’s

decision with respect to respondent’s dinner weekend parenting time as opposed to an overnight.

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While there was some testimony by respondent that he had taken K.B. to activities, he did not

specifically address petitioner’s concern’s about K.B.’s activity attendance following his

parenting time.

¶ 40 With respect to factor two, K.B.’s wishes and the weight to be ascribed based on the

child’s maturity and ability to express reasoned and independent preferences as to parenting

time, as previously noted, this factor in particular must be weighed in favor of petitioner given

respondent’s failure to provide a complete record. See Foutch, 99 Ill. 2d at 391-92.

¶ 41 Respondent argues the trial court did not consider factor three, the amount of time each

parent spent performing caretaking functions in the 24 months preceding petitioner’s filing of the

dissolution action. However, this argument is mere speculation because there is nothing in the

record to support this allegation.

¶ 42 He argues that based on their work schedules prior to the dissolution filing, the trial court

“could have essentially concluded that [respondent] had picked the children up from school and

watched them more nights than [petitioner].” That the trial court could have come to this

conclusion does not mean that its decision is an abuse of discretion or its findings are against the

manifest weight of the evidence. Furthermore, we view the evidence in a light most favorable to

petitioner and where multiple inferences can be drawn, accepting those inferences which support

the trial court’s order. See In re Marriage of Debra N. and Michael S., 2013 IL App (1st)

122145, ¶ 45.

¶ 43 Notwithstanding, the testimony at trial established that petitioner was home from 6:30

a.m. until 7 p.m., 8 p.m. or 9 p.m. depending on her start time. Respondent testified that

petitioner took the children to school every day. While respondent testified he picked the

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children up at the conclusion of school, got their dinner ready, and performed other evening care,

petitioner testified that respondent would only make the children dinner from time-to-time.

¶ 44 Concerning factor five, the interaction and interrelationship of the child with her parents

and siblings, petitioner testified that K.B. likes spending time with respondent. However, the

GAL’s report indicated there were issues with respondent’s interactions and interrelationships

which undoubtably impact K.B. The GAL’s report stated:

“I have *** on numerous occasions *** received emails from [respondent] ***

generally saying that he is the dad therefore he should have unfettered time with

the girls. He has also, through email, threatened to call the police to [petitioner’s]

house to enforce parenting time with [J.B.] without good reason. Again, this just

bolsters the lack of understanding he currently has, and his willingness to take

responsibility for his own actions. The blame falls mainly on [petitioner], but

then now has trickled over to the GAL, the therapist and the court. I have never

seen nor heard any evidence suggesting alienation by [petitioner] as [respondent]

has alleged. [Petitioner] has encouraged the girls to visit, and in fact [K.B.] visits

with [respondent] regularly.”

¶ 45 The GAL’s recommendations included respondent be required to engage in personal

therapy “especially in navigating moving forward his relationship with his children and with

others in general.” While noting that K.B. and respondent have “a positive relationship” the

GAL hoped “going forward [respondent] will not talk to her about any personal issues or court

matters” as had been reported to the GAL. We note that respondent testified that he did not talk

to K.B. about court or money, however, this does not mean the trial court found his testimony

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credible and “we will not supplant those credibility determinations on appeal.” See In re

Custody of G.L, 2017 IL App (1st) 163171, ¶ 45.

¶ 46 In discussing the approximately 65-day period during which petitioner and the children

left the marital residence following petitioner’s attempt to obtain an emergency order of

protection, respondent testified he remained in the marital home. Respondent testified he

thought the children would come back during this period. He asked them to come back “over

and over again[,]” “multiple times” but they told him “their mother would not let them.”

Regardless of the circumstances resulting in petitioner’s attempt to obtain an emergency order of

protection or whether it was justified, respondent’s repeated requests to his daughters – ages

twelve and six at the time – that they return home was inappropriate and highlights a lack of

appreciation for the negative impact these discussions would have on them or how it placed them

in the middle of the parties’ dispute.

¶ 47 Furthermore, in her report, the GAL notes petitioner’s statements that respondent’s

nephew had touched her inappropriately and questioned whether respondent believed this

happened. The GAL’s report also identified concerns with respondent’s text communication

with [J.B.] relating to a camp issue stating:

“[Respondent] provided pages of text messages between himself and [J.B.]

regarding this incident prior to coming in. He did not think that there was

anything wrong with how he communicated with her in the texts. When I

questioned him about whether he thought that he communicated with [J.B] in a

manner that was more like they were peers versus father daughter, he didn’t see

anything wrong with it.”

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¶ 48 The GAL also includes J.B.’s statements to her exemplifying how respondent “tries to

make her feel guilty about everything” stating:

“[J.B.] and her sister went bowling with [respondent] one day, and he got angry

about something, so he fell to the ground and cried, and had to go to the bathroom

for 30 minutes to ‘regain himself’ in the bathroom, and she was left to sit with her

younger sister [K.B.]”

¶ 49 The GAL’s report also notes J.B.’s statements concerning K.B.’s relationship with

respondent as follows:

“[J.B.] said that [K.B.] has been crying and upset when she comes home from

[respondent’s care]. She said he tells her about things that are going on between

him and [J.B.], and talks about money. He tells [K.B.] she is ‘his only one’ and

that everyone is leaving him. She said he used to do that to her but now that she

is not around he says the same thing to [K.B.] She thinks that [respondent]

interrogates [K.B.] about why [J.B.] does not come to visit, and that [K.B.] is very

sad and angry and feels put in the middle. She said [K.B.] has no[w] taken on the

roll of ‘fixer’ and tries to fix the problems with [J.B.] and [respondent]. [J.B.]

does not feel that is fair to [K.B.]”

¶ 50 This evidence supports the trial court’s award of one weekday dinner to minimize the

potential for added stress on the child during the week which might interfere with her school,

camp, and other weekday obligations.

¶ 51 With respect to factor twelve, the willingness and ability of each parent to place the needs

of the child ahead of his or her own needs, we note the GAL’s report, wherein K.B. stated she

“feels that [respondent] disregards her feelings for his own. And she feels like she is [K.B.’s]

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babysitter when they are over at his place.” The GAL’s report also references her conversation

with the family therapist who stated: “[K.B.] reported that Dad told her he is all by himself and

there is no one to take care of him but her and he has cancer.” The report further indicates that

when the therapist confronted respondent with this information “[respondent then called K.B.] to

interrogate her about what [the therapist] stated[.]” The GAL also reported the therapist stated

“[respondent] has to be right about everything and he looks to his kids to meet his own needs.”

As with the previous factor, this evidence supports one weekday dinner to minimize the potential

for added stress on the child during the week.

¶ 52 With respect to factor thirteen, the willingness and ability of each parent to facilitate and

encourage a close and continuing relationship between the other parent and the child, respondent

argues petitioner has not facilitated the relationship between him and K.B. He cites petitioner’s

filing for an order of protection against him and keeping the children away from him for

approximately 60 days as evidence of petitioner’s inability to foster and encourage a relationship

and her desire to minimize respondent’s parenting time.

¶ 53 However, this is contradicted by both petitioner and respondent’s testimony. Petitioner

testified that respondent did see the children during this period and that she told him he had

every opportunity to see them, but he chose not to. Respondent also acknowledged that

petitioner had offered him time with the children but stated he did not take the time offered.

Respondent further testified that petitioner facilitated telephone contact between him and the

children during this period although he stated that it at some point it started to wane. As

respondent points out, petitioner did not pursue a continuation of the order of protection. An

agreed temporary parenting time schedule was ultimately entered although respondent testified

he did not agree to the schedule at the time. The temporary parenting time schedule which was

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marked as an agreed order gave respondent one weekday dinner and an alternating weekday

dinner, but no weekday overnights.

¶ 54 Respondent cites to other dates where he claimed petitioner denied his requests to care

for the children allowing her father to care for them instead. However, we note that in her report,

the GAL stated “[petitioner] has encouraged the girls to visit [respondent] and in fact [K.B.]

visits with [respondent] regularly.” She also noted “I have neither seen nor heard any evidence

suggesting alienation [of respondent] by [petitioner] as [respondent] has alleged.”

¶ 55 The GAL’s report also highlights petitioner’s concern that respondent talks negatively

about her to the children as stated in interviews with the GAL. It is noted in the report from the

GAL’s interview with J.B. that respondent has said negative things about petitioner in front of

[J.B.] and that she “feels like he tried to turn her against her mother.” She reported to the GAL

that “his ring tone for [petitioner] is ‘B**** Alert’ and [J.B.] has heard it.” The report also notes

J.B.’s statements that “her father brings up money in front of her [and that] *** she does not

want to have to worry about her parent’s finances.” This evidence also supports the trial court’s

parenting schedule providing for one weekday dinner and no overnights to minimize the

potential for added stress on the child during the week.

¶ 56 We also address respondent’s arguments that are not specifically tied to the section 602.7

best interest factors. Respondent contends the trial court “decreased [respondent’s] parenting

time and infringed on his natural rights as a parent.” We disagree. The Allocation Judgment

provides respondent with more parenting time with K.B. than he had under the December 8,

2017 agreed temporary parenting time order. Under that temporary parenting schedule,

respondent was to return the children on alternating weekends at 7:30 p.m. on Sundays. Under

the Allocation Judgment, respondent now keeps K.B. through Monday morning – an additional

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12.5 hours. We also note that because respondent is required to transport K.B. to school on

Monday morning, an exchange between the parties is also eliminated during the school year.

While the Allocation Judgment provides for only one weekday dinner, the additional 12.5 hours

on alternating weekends provided for in the Allocation Judgment exceeds the amount of time

respondent had on the alternating dinner under the temporary schedule.

¶ 57 Respondent argues the trial court misapplied the law “in light of the fact that the GAL

recommended more time during the week [for respondent and K.B.] than [the trial court]

awarded in its Allocation [J]udgment.” We disagree with respondent. The GAL’s report stated

“it seems that the current schedule is working between [K.B] and [respondent.]” We point out

that the temporary parenting time schedule did not provide respondent with weekday overnights.

Moreover, while the schedule in the Allocation Judgment provides for only one weekday dinner

and eliminated respondent’s alternating weekday dinner under the temporary schedule, as noted

above, the Allocation Judgment overall provides respondent with more parenting by adding an

overnight on respondent’s alternating Sundays while reducing the transitions between the parties

who do not appear to get along or cooperate.

¶ 58 There is nothing in the record to indicate the trial court failed to consider the statutory

factors when it entered its parenting time order. We cannot say that no reasonable judge would

enter the same allocation of parenting time order as the trial court or that the order constitutes a

manifest injustice to the child or respondent. Therefore, we find no abuse of discretion and

affirm the trial court.

¶ 59 Right of First Refusal

¶ 60 We turn next to respondent’s argument the trial court’s decision to only grant a right of

first refusal for overnights and for non-work-related purposes was an abuse of discretion and

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against the manifest weight of the evidence. For the reasons set forth below, we disagree the

trial court abused its discretion here or that the decision was against the manifest weight of the

evidence.

¶ 61 Section 602.3 of the Act allows the trial court to consider awarding a party the right of

first refusal to provide childcare for a minor during the other parent’s normal parenting time

consistent with the best interest of the child as defined by section 602.7 of the Act. 750 ILCS

5/602.3 (West 2018). Section 602.3(b) of the Act explains how the right of first refusal is

implicated stating:

“that if a party intends to leave the minor child or children with a substitute child-

care provider for a significant period of time, that party must first offer the other

party an opportunity to personally care for the minor child ***. If there is no

agreement and the court determines that a right of first refusal is in the best

interests of the minor child ***, the court shall consider and make provisions in

its order for:

(1) the length and kind of child-care requirements invoking

the right of first refusal;

(2) notification to the other parent and for his or her response;

(3) transportation requirements; and

(4) any other action necessary to protect and promote the best

interest of the minor child or children.” Id.

¶ 62 In support of his argument the trial court’s right of first refusal was an abuse of discretion

and against the manifest weight of the evidence, respondent cites petitioner’s testimony as

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follows: (a) that K.B. “likes to spend time with her father[;]” (b) that “when [petitioner] began

working construction at night *** [respondent] prepared dinners for the children and was home

with them[;]” and (c) that petitioner’s father provides care for the children and is happy to spend

as much time with his grandchildren as he can from which respondent concludes that petitioner

“felt it better for her children to be in the care of their grandfather rather than their father[.]”

¶ 63 He cites his own testimony as follows: (a) that “he provided the care for his children prior

to [petitioner] leaving the home and prior to the dissolution action as [petitioner] worked

nights[;]” (b) that he lived within 2.3 miles of the school and insured that K.B.’s homework

would be completed on school nights; (c) that “he suffers from lymphoma and underwent a

Matched Unrelated Donor Transplant on May 19, 2016” and because of his cancer diagnosis and

the resulting shorter life expectancy “it was his goal to maximize his time with his children for

their social development[.]”

¶ 64 Based on this testimony, respondent concludes the trial court erred in “awarding the right

of first refusal in such a way as it denies him the care of his daughter as the legislature intended

when the other parent is unavailable.” We disagree and find the right of first refusal in the

parties’ Allocation Judgment is not an abuse of discretion or against the manifest weight of the

¶ 65 Here, the right of first refusal is invoked where either party is away from the children

overnight for non-work related reasons. As previously noted, respondent has failed to provide a

complete record having omitted the transcript from the trial court’s in camera interview with the

children. On this basis alone respondent’s arguments fail as any doubts which may arise from

the incompleteness of the record will be resolved against respondent. See Foutch, 99 Ill. 2d at

391-92.

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¶ 66 Notwithstanding, for all the reasons stated in our analysis of the trial court’s parenting

time order, we find the best interest factors support the trial court’s award of the right of first

refusal for only non-work related overnights. Our conclusion here is further supported by the

GAL’s reported recommendations where she comments that the “current schedule is working

between [K.B.] and [respondent]” – a schedule which we point out did not include a right of first

refusal for work related reasons. It is also clear that the parties do not get along and have

difficulty cooperating. A right of first refusal resulting in additional transitions and, thus,

additional contact between the parties could “potentially lead to great conflict.” See In re

Marriage of Whitehead, 2018 IL App (5th) 170380, ¶ 14.

¶ 67 Moreover, while petitioner’s exact work schedule at the time of the trial is unclear from

the record, it appears that her employment, at least prior to the filing of the dissolution petition,

required petitioner to work nights from 7 p.m. to 9 p.m. depending on her start time to

approximately 6:00 a.m. There is nothing in the record, however, establishing how many nights

a week petitioner worked and whether this was consistent throughout the year. Nevertheless,

given the trial’s court parenting time schedule under the Allocation Judgment which we affirmed

above, it seems petitioner’s work schedule would regularly require invocation of a right of first

refusal that included overnight work obligations upsetting the schedule found to be in K.B.’s best

interests. Requiring K.B. to be constantly transitioned in accordance with petitioner’s work

schedule would result in instability and inconsistency contrary to her best interests. See In re

Custody of G.L., 2017 IL App (1st) 163171, ¶ 46 (“Stability and continuity are in the best

interests of the child”). We cannot say no reasonable judge would enter the same order as the

trial judge did in this case or that the order worked a manifest injustice on the child or

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respondent. Thus, we conclude the trial court’s right of first refusal award was not an abuse of

discretion or against the manifest weight of the evidence.

¶ 68 As pointed out by respondent on appeal, the right of first refusal contained in the

Allocation Judgment states the terms were agreed. However, the record confirms this was not

the case. We believe this was an inadvertent scrivener’s error and pursuant to our authority

under Supreme Court Rule 366(a)(5) (Ill. S. Ct. R. 366(a) (eff. Feb. 1, 1994)) strike the words

“the parties agree that” from the first sentence of paragraph P of the Allocation Judgment setting

forth the right of first refusal and, as modified by this order, shall read as follows: “Pursuant to

750 ILCS 5/602.3 and 750 ILCS 5/602.10(f)(14), if the parent caring for [K.B.] needs someone

to watch her overnight for non-work related reasons, the parent needing the childcare shall notify

the other parent via telephone or text message, and specify the period of time when the childcare

is needed. ***” See Hough v. Mooningham, 139 Ill. App. 3d 1018, 1021 (1986) (trial court’s

judgment modified on appeal to correct a non-substantive error of form pursuant to Supreme

Court Rule 366(a)(5)).

¶ 69 Motion to Reconsider

¶ 70 Respondent filed a motion to reconsider the trial court’s Allocation Judgment. On

August 8, 2019, petitioner filed a two-page “boilerplate” admit/deny response to respondent’s

motion for rehearing that cited no case law but requested that the trial court deny respondent’s

motion to reconsider. The trial court denied respondent’s request for time to reply to petitioner’s

response and denied the motion to reconsider.

¶ 71 Respondent argues the trial court erred in denying his motion to reconsider and request to

file a reply to petitioner’s response to the motion. The sole basis of respondent’s motion to

reconsider was his contention that the trial court “committed error in its application of the best

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interest factors for his parenting time with [K.B.] as well as the right of first refusal as set out in

750 ILCS 5/602.3.”

¶ 72 On August 13, 2019, the trial court entered an order after “being fully advised in the

premises” denying respondent’s motion to reconsider and request to file a reply to petitioner’s

response. Respondent states in his brief “[t]he proceeding on the Motion to Reconsider in this

case was very informal and improperly abbreviated” and “[t]he court erroneously did not afford

respondent an opportunity to reply to [petitioner’s] Response To the Motion To Reconsider filed

on August 8, 2019.” He states “the Motion To Reconsider was only up for presentment on

August 13, 2019 and the summary denial of it violated due process.”

¶ 73 However, the record is incomplete with respect to the August 13, 2019 proceedings.

Respondent failed to provide a report of this proceeding, a bystander’s report, or an agreed

statement of facts. Accordingly, respondent’s arguments with respect to his motion to reconsider

are forfeited. See Foutch, 99 Ill. 2d at 391-92. Moreover, we cannot say that no reasonable

judge would have denied respondent’s request for leave to file a reply to petitioner’s two-page

admit/deny response. We note that even without forfeiture, based on the record and our analysis

of the best interest factors as detailed in our discussion above, this court would not find the trial

court erred in applying the existing law and thus denying respondent’s motion to reconsider.

¶ 74 CONCLUSION

¶ 75 For the foregoing reasons, the judgment of the circuit court of Cook County is affirmed.

¶ 76 Affirmed.

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