In re Marriage of Beasley and Hikiji

CourtCourt of Appeals of Iowa
DecidedNovember 17, 2022
Docket21-1986
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 21-1986 Filed November 17, 2022

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF THOMAS ALAN BEASLEY AND MIYOKO ELIZABETH HIKIJI

Upon the Petition of THOMAS ALAN BEASLEY, Petitioner-Appellant,

And Concerning MIYOKO ELIZABETH HIKIJI, Respondent-Appellee. ________________________________________________________________

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Polk County, Scott D. Rosenberg,

Judge.

Thomas Beasley appeals a ruling modifying the decree dissolving his

marriage to Miyoko Hikiji. AFFIRMED.

Cathleen J. Siebrecht of Siebrecht Law Firm, Des Moines, for appellant.

Benjamin Folladori of Marberry Law Firm, P.C., Urbandale, for appellee.

Considered by Bower, C.J., Tabor, J., and Mullins, S.J.*

*Senior judge assigned by order pursuant to Iowa Code section 602.9206

(2022). 2

MULLINS, Senior Judge.

Thomas Beasley appeals a ruling modifying the legal custody and physical

care provisions of the decree dissolving his marriage to Miyoko Hikiji. He argues

the court erred in failing to dismiss the petition to modify and abused its discretion

in awarding trial attorney fees. Both parties request an award of appellate attorney

fees.

I. Background Facts and Proceedings

The parties married in 2005, and the marriage produced two children, born

in 2009 and 2010. Thomas petitioned for dissolution of the marriage in 2013.

Ultimately, in 2015, the parties stipulated on all issues, and the court entered a

dissolution decree awarding the parties joint legal custody and joint physical care.

The decree mandated the appointment of a parenting coordinator “to assist the

parties in resolving parenting issues that they are unable to resolve on their own.”

In December 2017, Miyoko filed an application for rule to show cause,

noting Thomas “unilaterally terminated” the parenting coordinator and he

thereafter refused to work with Miyoko in obtaining a new coordinator. In his

resistance and counter-application, Thomas alleged the parenting coordinator

“withdrew” and sessions with the parenting coordinator were not beneficial in any

event.1 In its March 2018 ruling, the court found Thomas in contempt of the

parenting-coordinator provision of the decree. As a sanction, the court ordered:

“Thomas shall cooperate with Miyoko in the selection of a new parenting

1 The parties raised various other issues in their applications for rule to show cause. 3

coordinator.” A new parenting coordinator was appointed in June.2 But according

to Miyoko’s testimony at the modification trial, the parties only met with the new

coordinator for about six months before the coordinator “recognized that it also

was not working.” By the time of trial, the parties had not met with the coordinator

for roughly two years.

Miyoko testified sessions with neither of the appointed parenting

coordinators were productive. According to Miyoko, when an agreement is made

during these sessions, Thomas does not follow it after he leaves. She testified

several decisions about the children never end up being made because they

cannot agree on anything.

In September 2019, Miyoko filed a modification petition. Therein, she

alleged the decree “contemplated that the parenting coordinator would be able to

assist the parties in resolving issues that they could not otherwise resolve

themselves” but, despite the utilization of a parenting coordinator, “the parties are

still unable to efficiently and adequately resolve parenting issues [that] directly

affect their two minor children.” Miyoko also alleged Thomas failed to cover his

equal share of the children’s expenses and Thomas does not support her

“relationship with the minor children and has often made unilateral decisions in

violation of the parties[’] joint legal custody agreement.” Based on these

allegations, Miyoko requested the decree be modified to place the children in her

physical care and “such other and further relief as the court deems just and

2 We note the road to the appointment of the new coordinator was not painless, as it involved Miyoko’s filing of another application for rule to show cause and a corresponding motion for sanctions and attorney fees filed by Thomas. 4

equitable under the circumstances.” In his answer, Thomas requested the petition

be dismissed.

Trial was ultimately held over two days in August 2021. At the time of trial,

the children were ten and twelve years old, Thomas was fifty-eight, and Miyoko

was forty-four. Both parties are gainfully employed and receive veteran’s benefits,

with Thomas and Miyoko respectively earning roughly $97,000 and $90,000

annually. Each have homes suitable for the children. Since the entry of the decree

in 2015, the parties’ attempts at co-parenting have been less than fruitful. Thomas

himself agrees the parties “have a long history of animosity dating back to the

dissolution proceedings.” Despite specific expectations of the parties being stated

in the original decree and the parties’ use of parenting coordinators, time has

clearly not changed things.

For example, in January 2016, mere months after the decree was entered,

the older child’s therapist informed the parties that she could not work with the child

any longer due to the hostilities between the parties. The therapist opined the

child’s “issues directly stem from the hostility and ongoing conflict that exists

between” the parties and “she has been regularly exposed to this conflict and [it]

is having a negative and traumatic impact on her.” Due to the parties being “unable

or unwilling to work on addressing the co-parenting relationship,” the therapist

determined she could no longer work effectively with the child.

Thomas has initiated contact with the children’s school without including

Miyoko, which, according to Miyoko, has been a part of Thomas’s smear campaign

against her. Specifically, in emails beginning in early 2017, Thomas indicated to

educators that the children feel unsafe in Miyoko’s home due to her discipline 5

practices, Miyoko talks negatively about him around the children, and she uses

profanity. None of Thomas’s allegations are supported by the record. Thomas’s

actions were later addressed by the parenting coordinator and, in September, the

parties signed an agreement that all communications by either party with the

school would include the other party. According to Miyoko, however, Thomas

disregarded this agreement and continued to contact educators to further his

smear campaign against her. Thomas’s emails to educators also disclose that he

has developed code words with the children that the children should use to alert

others of abuse at the hands of Miyoko. The district court found this both disturbing

and outrageous, as do we.

Also in the spring of 2017, someone began lodging child-welfare complaints

against Miyoko with the Iowa Department of Human Services (DHS). While

Thomas denied in his testimony that it was him, the district court found he

instigated the complaints. All in all, Miyoko has been investigated by DHS five

times since the entry of the decree, all of which concluded the allegations were

unfounded. There is also evidence that Thomas speaks negatively about Miyoko

to the children. In one text message sent by Thomas in or about March 2018, 3

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