In Re Mark R., (Nov. 2, 1990)

1990 Conn. Super. Ct. 3826
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedNovember 2, 1990
StatusUnpublished

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Bluebook
In Re Mark R., (Nov. 2, 1990), 1990 Conn. Super. Ct. 3826 (Colo. Ct. App. 1990).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.] MEMORANDUM OF DECISION By petition filed in the Bristol Probate Court on June 28, 1989, Deborah A.D. seeks to terminate the parental rights of Mark C., legal and biological father of Mark R., born October 3, 1985, on the grounds of abandonment and denial of necessary care, two of the three nonconsensual grounds for granting such relief as provided by subsection (f) of Sec. 45-61f, Conn. Gen. Stats. (Rev. 1989), applicable to children not previously committed to the Department of Children and Youth Services (DCYS). On the date of filing, a hearing was set for 30 days thereafter as mandated by subsection (a) Sec.45-61 (d), but simultaneously such hearing was "continued until further order of this court . . . . the court having ordered an investigation and report" pursuant to Sec. 45-61 (d) and (f). DCYS was requested to conduct an investigation, as provided by subsection (c) of Sec. 45-61f, on July 10, 1989 with a due date of October 10, 1989.

Notwithstanding the requirement of Sec. 45-61f(e)(2) that where ". . . such report has been requested. . . the court shall set a day not more than 30 days thereafter" [Emphasis added], no hearing was held in November of 1989. Instead, the respondent father, on December 6, 1989, filed a motion to transfer the matter to this court pursuant to subsection (g) of Sec. 45-61c, and the next day the motion was granted as a matter of right.

The parties were re-served for the initial hearing in this court held on January 10, 1990, at which time the petitioner's oral motion to add a third nonconsensual ground for terminating the father's parental rights (absence of ongoing parent-child relationship and unlikelihood of establishing one within a period consistent with the child's best interests) was granted over his objection. A psychological evaluation was ordered on the mother's motion, with costs to be shared between the petitioner and the child's court-appointed counsel. The DCYS study, due October 10, 1989, was received by this court on January 24, 1990 (Petitioner's Exh. F.). The respondent's motion to strike one of the pleaded grounds (denial of proper care by acts of parental commission or omission) was denied, leaving the petitioner free to present evidence as to the father's conduct toward the child prior to the entry in July of 1986 of a Family Relations judgment denying him all visitation rights in connection with the CT Page 3828 dissolution of the parents' marriage. Since no objections were raised by any party as to those proceedings in the Probate Court which appear to be at variance with provisions of the applicable statutes, they are deemed to have been waived.

Trial was conducted on three nonconsecutive days following receipt of the psychological evaluation, concluding on July 18, 1990 when all parties rested and were given until September 19, 1990 (extended by request of counsel to September 26, 1990) for the submission of trial memoranda.

Facts

Evidence offered at trial supports the finding of the following facts:

In the spring of 1984, two months after twenty-year old Deborah met Mark C. who, although only a year her senior was already divorced from his drug-abusing first wife, they began to live together. By the summer of 1984 Mark C. had begun to use cocaine, a cause of numerous altercations between them. After being struck by him in one of their fights, Deborah considered having him arrested, but decided instead to return to her parents' home. Three months later, in November 1984, being assured by Mark C. that he was now free of drug abuse, she returned to live with him. Shortly after she learned she was pregnant, Deborah began to suspect his resumption of drug use. Nonetheless, they married in June of 1985 with the support of her parents who gave them a wedding and provided much of the furnishings for their apartment. The parties continued to argue after their marriage over both drugs and money, leading, one one occasion, to a violent outburst by the respondent that resulted in his slashing a new piece of upholstered furniture with a long sharp object.

In early October of 1985, nearly a month before Mark R. was due to be born, another violent altercation occurred after the respondent came home at 4 a.m. When his wife, who had waited for him, asked where he had been, he became so angry that he choked her. The baby was born prematurely the next day and had to remain for a short time in the hospital after the mother's discharge.

The fighting between the parents resumed soon after their baby was brought home. While the father assisted the mother in all aspects of child care for the first week, by late October physical violence recurred. On one occasion when Deborah had picked the baby up to feed him, the respondent struck her on the side of her head with his closed fist. Soon after this he was fired from the job her father had secured for CT Page 3829 him after being found on the floor of his place of employment, overdosed from what he later testified had been a combination of cocaine and grain alcohol. He was then using alcohol to ease the abrupt transition from cocaine "highs". Later, when Deborah returned from visiting her family, Mark C. struck her in anger for failing to leave him with cigarettes during her absence and various other times during the baby's first month, he broke household objects and threatened to choke a friend of the mother.

On November 8, 1985, a month after bringing the baby home, Deborah again returned to the home of her parents. This time the separation from Mark C. was permanent. The following month Mark C. went to jail for the first time (Respondent's Exh. 2) and Deborah filed for divorce. Petitioner's Exhibit A establishes that he was personally served in this action by the sheriff on December 14, 1985. On a visit soon after initiation of the divorce action, when Deborah refused to leave her parents' house to go out with him, her mother heard him say, "If I had a chance to take the baby, you'd never see him again." (Testimony of maternal grandmother, June 6, 1990.)

Mark C. appeared in Family Relations court without counsel on February 18, 1986 and agreed that pendent lite Deborah would have temporary custody of their child while he could visit every Sunday for two hours, provided only that he telephone in advance to confirm the visit. In the ensuing five months between the entry of these orders and the date of the final judgment in the dissolution action (Petitioner's Exh. B), out of 22 possible weekly visits with the child, the respondent came no more than six times. While he had been incarcerated for approximately seven weeks of this period (Respondent's Exh. 1), the only reason given for his failure to visit for the other Sundays when free to do so was his fear of being arrested. None of the warrants for which he was avoiding arrest resulted from complaints made by the petitioner or any member of her family. Each time he called ahead for a visit pursuant to the pendente lite orders, he was permitted to see his son. He had never stayed the full two hours, usually leaving after approximately one half hour during most of which time he attempted to talk to his wife rather than interact with the child. At all visits both Deborah and some member of her family were present, a circumstance which made him uncomfortable but which he made no legal effort to change. During the visits that did occur, he avoided all physical care of the child: Deborah testified that on one visit when asked to change the baby he declined, saying "No, you're his mother. You know best." Another time when offered the opportunity to CT Page 3830 feed the baby, he responded, "No, I'll watch." (Testimony of petitioner, May 9, 1990.)

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