In re: M.A.C., M.D.C., I.A.J.

CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedNovember 19, 2025
Docket25-242
StatusUnpublished

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An unpublished opinion of the North Carolina Court of Appeals does not constitute controlling legal authority. Citation is disfavored, but may be permitted in accordance with the provisions of Rule 30(e)(3) of the North Carolina Rules of Appellate Procedure.

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA

No. COA25-242

Filed 19 November 2025

Cabarrus County, Nos. 23JA000169-120, 23JA000170-120, 23JA000171-120

IN THE MATTER OF: M.A.C., M.D.C., I.A.J.

Appeal by respondent-mother and respondent-father from order entered

4 November 2024 by Judge Jeanie R. Houston in Cabarrus County District Court.

Heard in the Court of Appeals 29 October 2025.

Patricia M. Propheter for appellant-respondent-mother.

Parent Defender Wendy C. Sotolongo, by Senior Assistant Parent Defender J. Lee Gilliam, for appellant-respondent-father.

Hartsell & Williams, PA, by Kimberly B. Kisner for Cabarrus County Department of Social Services

Administrative Office of the Courts, by GAL Staff Attorney Brittany T. McKinney, for Guardian ad Litem.

ARROWOOD, Judge.

Respondent-mother (“Mother”) and respondent-father (“Father”) appeal from

the trial court’s order adjudicating minor child Iris an abused and neglected juvenile IN RE: M.A.C., M.D.C., I.A.J.

Opinion of the Court

and minor children Mike and Mark neglected juveniles.1 For the following reasons,

we affirm.

I. Background

Mother and Father are the parents of Mark and Mike, born in 2018 and 2019

respectively. Iris, born in 2014, is the daughter of Mother and Mr. J.2 Mother was

previously granted physical custody of Iris and so all three children lived in the home

with Mother and Father.

The Cabarrus County Department of Social Services (“CCDSS”) became

involved in 2016 when Mother reported that Mr. J was sexually abusing Iris. In later

years, Mother made four additional reports and by 2024, CCDSS had received a total

of eight reports of sexual abuse of Iris.3 Only one of the reports, made in 2018, was

substantiated by CCDSS. According to CCDSS, they substantiated the report to err

“on the side of caution to put services in place” for the family and to refer them to in-

home services. Mr. J was referred to and completed a sex offenders assessment with

no recommendations, in addition to completing a substance abuse assessment with

no recommendations and engaging in therapy sessions.

Many of the reports arose from leading conversations between Mother and Iris,

1 Pseudonyms are used to protect the identities of the minor children. 2 Iris’ father did not appeal the trial court’s order. We abbreviate his name to protect the identities of the minor children. 3 Seven of the reports alleged sexual abuse by Mr. J and one alleged sexual abuse by Iris’ paternal

grandmother.

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“or behaviors displayed by [Iris] that [Mother] sexualized.” For example, in 2018,

when Iris was four, Mother reported that Iris’ clitoris was red and puffy following

visits with Mr. J. In another report, Mother stated that Iris was filling out more, her

butt was getting bigger, and Iris would sometimes have her hands in her pants.

Mother attributed those changes and behaviors to sexual abuse by Mr. J. Iris also

repeated some of the allegations to CCDSS and medical personnel, telling them that

Mr. J would touch her butt and penetrate her. Iris later recanted the accusations and

did not disclose any sexual abuse in her therapy sessions.

As a result of the sexual abuse reports, Iris underwent several Sexual Assault

Nurse Examiner (“SANE”) and physical exams. Since 2015, at least nine exams were

conducted on Iris, and four of them were conducted within 30 days of each other in

2018. Generally, the exams included anogenital exams which require the patient to

sit in several different positions while the examiner looks for signs of abuse around

the genitals and anus. Many of the exams also included SANE kits which collect

DNA samples from the hair root and vaginal and anal swabs. Overall, the exams are

invasive and can take a couple of hours to complete. None of the exams resulted in a

substantiation or physical finding of abuse.

Iris’ last known exam was conducted on 23 November 2022 at the Jeff Gordon’s

Children’s Hospital Child Advocacy Center (“CAC”). It was her fourth exam at CAC

since 2018. Out of concern for the number of exams Iris had gone through, the CAC

recommended a Child Family Evaluation (“CFE”).

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On 5 December 2022, CCDSS conducted a follow up visit at the family

residence. During the visit, Mother reported that Iris’ paternal grandmother had

visited Iris at school and Iris had not been the same since. Iris recanted her

allegations that she had been sexually abused but then told Father that her

grandmother had told her to lie and say the allegations were false. Mother did not

believe Iris’ recantation and attempted to pressure her to stick with her original

allegations. When CCDSS attempted to meet with Mother about the upcoming CFE,

Mother was apparently “more focused on Mr. [J] and his family seeing Iris than

getting information about the CFE.” Mother requested that CCDSS tell Iris’ school

that her father and grandmother could not visit, and CCDSS declined.

The CFE was scheduled for 20 December 2022. That day, Mother attempted

to reschedule the CFE, claiming that the children were at the grocery store, the

children were delivering packages with Father, and then that she had overslept and

missed a school meeting for one of her other children. The CFE was not rescheduled

and the children arrived an hour late, disheveled, and still in their pajamas with Mike

and Mark not wearing shoes.

During the CFE, Iris reported that Mother had told her the meeting would be

to talk about Mr. J and that Iris needed to “say the details and make sure it was

specific details.” Iris also reported that she wished her parents got along and knew

she needed to be on Mother’s side. Meanwhile, Mark reported that he was scared

because Mother told him what to say and would be mad if he did not comply. Mark

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also told the examiners that Mother and Father fought, sometimes with their hands,

which he called “tagging.” Similarly, Mike reported that Mother told him to say

something to the examiner but he could not remember what, and that Mother and

Father fought a lot at home. When discussing his parents’ fights, Mike became visibly

upset, cried, and crawled into the examiner’s lap.

After the CFE, CCDSS concluded that Iris was emotionally abused by the

severity and duration of her parents’ conflict. Additionally, the CFE raised concerns

that Mother was coaching Iris into making allegations of sexual abuse. They found

that for the majority of Iris’ life, there has been a “hyperfocus on sexually related

behaviors or possible indications of abuse without an independent recollection of

being sexually abused and [a] lack of evidence to validate the sexual abuse.”

Throughout the investigation, Iris would recant her allegations of abuse but Mother

never believed her and would ask questions and make pointed remarks until Iris

would admit to Mr. J abusing her. Additionally, Iris developed misguided beliefs that

she had to support Mother in her allegations or else Mother would be sent to jail.

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