In re " Dubin "

201 Misc. 621, 112 N.Y.S.2d 267, 1952 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 2646
CourtNew York Family Court
DecidedApril 14, 1952
StatusPublished
Cited by4 cases

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In re " Dubin ", 201 Misc. 621, 112 N.Y.S.2d 267, 1952 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 2646 (N.Y. Super. Ct. 1952).

Opinion

Sicher, J.

Many hours have been allocated to the trial and study of this bitter controversy. What emerges is a sorry picture of neurotic parents whose intense antagonism toward each other and in relation to their young daughter and son constrain an adjudication that “ Dorothy ”, born September 21, 1943, and Benjamin ”, born November 16, 1946, are [622]*622neglected children ” within the meaning and scope of subdivision (17) of section 2 of the Domestic Relations Court Act of the City of New York.

Whether the rancors of the parents which occasioned this proceeding and previous Supreme Court actions and Magistrate’s Court and Court of Special Sessions complaints originated from the mother’s affiliation, or at least sympathy, with the Communist party, as alleged by the father, or whether solely out of property wrangles, as asserted by the mother, the parents’ bitter dissension calls for intervention of this court or the Supreme Court of the State of New York in their children’s behalf.

The parties give the lie to each other on certain facts of such an intimate character that necessarily the direct testimony must be oath against oath ” (Risk v. Risk, 202 App. Div. 299, 302); and no useful purpose would be served by a detailed narrative of their conflicting testimony and that of the several other witnesses. Suffice it to state the following conclusions, reached after reflection upon all the evidence (including the demeanor of the parties) and the letter-briefs of counsel:

(1) The father is a high-strung, aggressive, meticulous, and neurotic individual, who is nevertheless deeply fond of his children and sincerely believes that they are not receiving proper guidance from their mother but who is so upset, and now so hostile to her, that he has been expressing to the children that animosity and his doubts about the mother’s character and her care of them.

However, the evidence does not sustain the father’s principal allegation that the mother has attempted already to indoctrinate the children with the materialistic ideology of communism. It was shown that the maternal grandfather had been a solicitor for an insurance organization which Supreme Court Justice Henry Clay Greenberg recently adjudged communist-controlled ; that many years ago while a pupil at X College the mother belonged to a pacifist group of fellow students; that her political views have alienated the friendship of one of the witnesses and his wife; that the mother may have distributed a June 25, 1950, pro-Soviet Union communication issued by the Queens Communist party, U.S.A.; that neither parent has been a member of a synagogue; and that the children had no religious training until the mother recently enrolled them in the Sunday school of the Y Jewish Community Center. But the totality of such insufficient evidence on those phases comes squarely within the language of Judge Desmond’s opinion in a March 13, 1952, [623]*623unanimous decision of the Court of Appeals (People ex rel. Portnoy v. Strasser, 303 N. Y. 539, 544): The finding, then, that this mother so neglected her little girl as to justify a change in custody, must have been based on one or more of these considerations: first, that communistic activities occupied the mother’s attention; * * * and, third, that the child was not being trained in the religion in which it was born. The testimony (vehemently denied by the defendant) as to membership and work in alleged Communist ‘ Front ’ organizations was as of a period long before the trial and there was nothing to show that such associations continued, or that they were such as to make the mother unfit to rear her own infant * * *. As to the mother’s failure to train the little girl in the faith of her father’s, that, too, is within the parent’s sole control (Meyer v. Nebraska, supra; Pierce v. Society of Sisters, 268 U. S. 510; Zorach v. Clauson, 303 N. Y. 161).”

See, also, subdivision 6 of section 61 of the Domestic Delations Court Act reading: “ The jurisdiction herein conferred upon the children’s court shall not be deemed to include (a) the right of the court to entertain an action, proceeding or motion where the sole issue or matter in controversy is the religious faith of a child, nor (b) any matter, action or proceedings having to do with separation or divorce, nor habeas corpus proceedings.”

Nor does the evidence sustain the father’s allegation that the children lack physical care. On the contrary, when seen in chambers by me and also previously by one of the court’s most competent, experienced probation officers (Vera Vieser), they appeared well dressed and mannered, bright, alert, friendly, and attached to both parents. Also, their school reports show good attendance, behaviour and work, and co-operation from the mother.

However, that contact in chambers revealed traumatizing of the children, almost certain to develop serious maladjustment, by the parents’ antagonism to each other. Thus, “ Dorothy ” said that she had been told by the mother that the father is “ sick in the head ” and it will take ten years to cure him ”. Significantly, “ Dorothy ” smiled happily with relief at my assurance that although her father was nervous he was not “ sick in the head ” and loved her very much.

It also came out in the course of that chambers hearing that “ Dorothy ” had witnessed in November, 1951, the night fracas between the parents which culminated in the latest separation and that her recollection of that emotional episode is painful to her.

[624]*624The boy “ Benjamin ”, who is younger and less mature than Dorothy ”, also manifested the untoward pressures of the marital situation. Brought into chambers, and before spoken to by me, immediately he blurted out: “ Mommie says that Hopalong Cassidy is a Communist ”. Questioning made clear that this young boy did not understand the meaning of those words but was echoing something prompted by his father.

(2) On the other hand, it was satisfactorily proved that there is no basis for the mother’s pretext that the children fear their father.

The testimony of the Rabbi who has supervised and observed the Sundays visitation at the Y Jewish Community Center ordered by Justice Bolin, my talks with the children in chambers, and their behaviour during a midday luncheon meeting among both parents and probation officer Yieser (described on the record) abundantly show that they enjoy and welcome visitation with the father.

Moreover, the mother’s reported conditioning of her consent to a visitation plan, otherwise acceptable to both parents, upon certain money payments by the father confirms my impression that her objections to visitation which partly occasioned this proceeding at the instance of this court’s bureau of adjustment are primarily a vent for her own emotionalism and her hostility to her husband and also indicate a disposition to use the children as trading material in the financial controversy between the parents.

(3) The mother had previously instituted in the Supreme Court of the State of New York actions for separation and for an accounting of her alleged partnership interest in the father’s retail store business and in realty jointly owned.

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