In Re C.S., Unpublished Decision (11-5-2004)

2004 Ohio 5933
CourtOhio Court of Appeals
DecidedNovember 5, 2004
DocketC.A. Case Nos. 20557, 20558, 20559.
StatusUnpublished
Cited by2 cases

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In Re C.S., Unpublished Decision (11-5-2004), 2004 Ohio 5933 (Ohio Ct. App. 2004).

Opinion

OPINION
{¶ 1} Jennifer P. Strother ("Jennifer") appeals from a judgment of the Montgomery County Probate Court, which denied her petition for adoption with the consent of the father. After a hearing on April 7, 2004, the trial court ruled that Jennifer had not met her burden under R.C. 3107.07(A) of establishing that the consent of the children's mother, Gayle Strother ("Gayle"), was not required. In her sole assignment of error, Jennifer claims that "the trial court erred in holding that Gayle Strother's consent to adoption is required."

{¶ 2} The hearing testimony revealed the following facts:

{¶ 3} Gayle and Brian Strother ("Brian") were married on June 7, 1992, in Houston, Texas, and had three children during their marriage. At the time of the April 2004 hearing, the children were ages ten, seven, and five. In 1995, Gayle and Brian moved to Alabama due to Brian's active duty in the United States Air Force. The couple separated in October 2000. Brian was reassigned to Wright Patterson Air Force Base, and he relocated to Ohio. Gayle remained in Alabama. By agreement of the parents, the children moved to Ohio with Brian. A temporary order required Gayle to pay $400 per month in child support during the separation. Gayle could not "remember if I paid any of it or not."

{¶ 4} In March 2001, Gayle traveled to Ohio for her daughter's birthday, and she went to Brian's home for the party. The visit was mostly cordial. However, the couple argued after Brian would not let the children stay the night with Gayle at her hotel. The next morning when Gayle went to Brian's home, Brian did not answer the door and called the police. Gayle made a few more trips to Ohio in the Spring of 2001. During Spring break, Gayle spent four or five days in Ohio with the children.

{¶ 5} On June 14, 2001, Gayle and Brian were divorced in Montgomery, Alabama. Due to Gayle's late arrival at the courthouse, Gayle was not permitted to participate in the final hearing on the divorce complaint. In the divorce decree, Brian was awarded sole custody of the children. Gayle was ordered to pay $852.00 per month in child support, even though she was only employed at Cracker Barrel. In July 2001, Gayle sought to alter, amend, or vacate the decree, apparently to no avail. To meet her support obligation, Gayle worked as a waitress at a Cracker Barrel restaurant and got a second job as a telephone operator at Maxwell Air Force Base.

{¶ 6} Following the divorce, Gayle traveled to Ohio for her son's birthday. Gayle testified that Brian made a few visits to Alabama with the children. Brian testified that he traveled to Alabama around five to seven times to allow Gayle to visit with the children.

{¶ 7} Around Thanksgiving 2001, Brian traveled for work for two weeks. Gayle "asked him if he could maybe let me come stay in his house and take care of the kids. Or they could come stay with me and I could take time off from one of my jobs for that time and he said `no.'" Instead, Brian made arrangements for the children to stay with others.

{¶ 8} In February 2002, Brian was deployed overseas for six months. Brian informed Gayle of his assignment approximately two or three weeks before he was to depart. Gayle asked Brian to allow the children to come and stay with her. Brian indicated to her that his mother, who resided in Houston, would be caring for the children. Gayle sought legal advice to get legal custody of the children during Brian's assignment, but Brian left before he could be served with the necessary papers.

{¶ 9} While the children were in Houston, Gayle routinely called the children on Sunday and Tuesday at their paternal grandmother's home. In March 2002, Brian's mother changed her telephone number; thereafter, Gayle was unable to contact the children at her home. Although she had not been able to reach Brian's mother, Gayle brought birthday gifts and Easter baskets to Houston, but she was unable to reach Brian's mother to deliver the gifts. Eventually, Gayle's mother, who also lived in Houston, took the baskets to Brian's mother's workplace. Gayle contacted Brian's mother at her place of employment and requested that she have the children call her. The children eventually called her around Mother's Day and sent her a Mother's Day card. In July 2002, Brian's mother contacted Gayle's parents and arranged for the children to see them during the last weekend of July. Gayle traveled to Houston to see the children that weekend. Brian returned the children to Ohio shortly thereafter.

{¶ 10} From July 2001 to July 2002, Gayle complied with her support order, paying a total of $10,489.35. Her last payment was made on July 15, 2002. At that time, Gayle was fired from her employment. She testified that she was fired by the Base due to lateness and from Cracker Barrel for not going to work. She explained that the two jobs interfered with each other and she was using illegal drugs, specifically crystal methamphetamine. Gayle had "started doing drugs a lot" in March 2002, and after August 2002, Gayle lost her home. She lived at hotels and friends' homes, and she supported herself by selling drugs. In November 2002, Gayle became pregnant. Gayle remained unemployed until the end of October 2003.

{¶ 11} Jennifer met Brian while they were overseas in Qatar with the Air Force. Jennifer and Brian were married on October 17, 2002, in Montgomery County, Ohio.

{¶ 12} In January 2003, Gayle was arrested on drug-related charges. She called Brian from the jail, asking for assistance with the repossession of her car, which was apparently still titled in his name. Upon learning of Brian's remarriage to Jennifer, Gayle became upset and asked questions regarding Brian's new wife. Brian refused to answer questions about Jennifer. Gayle then asked to speak with the children. Brian responded that "this is not a good time."

{¶ 13} In March 2003, Gayle contacted Brian, indicating that she wanted to travel to Ohio for her daugher's birthday. Brian indicated that they already had plans. Gayle made no further attempts to contact the children by telephone. However, she explained that she did not attempt further telephone contact "because of the way he tells me no. I can't even describe how he tells me every time, I talk to him about talking to the kids. Its — ." Gayle also did not send any cards or gifts to the children. She stated: "Well, I was afraid to. What is a card when they can't see me. What does a card mean, when they can't talk to me. It's a piece of paper. When I want to talk to my kids, I want to talk to my kids. I haven't seen them for a year and a half. I don't want them to get a piece of paper from me the first time they hear from me in a year and a half. I want to be able to look at them and tell them I love them."

{¶ 14} In June 2003, Brian telephoned Gayle's father, John Yarusso, and told him that the children were better off without having contact with their maternal grandparents. According to Mr. Yarusso, Brian allegedly stated that "they have new grandparents and they don't really care about you. And * * * about Gayle either." Mr. Yarusso stated that Brian didn't want Gayle to have contact with the children. Mr. Yarusso acknowledged that Brian implied that the Yarussos should either be active in the children's lives or out of their lives. Mr.

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