In Re ALZ

636 N.W.2d 284, 247 Mich. App. 264
CourtMichigan Court of Appeals
DecidedNovember 15, 2001
DocketDocket 230788
StatusPublished
Cited by20 cases

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Bluebook
In Re ALZ, 636 N.W.2d 284, 247 Mich. App. 264 (Mich. Ct. App. 2001).

Opinion

Per Curiam.

Petitioners Michelle L. and James S. Van Dyke appeal as of right from the family court’s order denying their petition for stepparent adoption of A.L.Z. (bom May 29, 1994) pursuant to MCL 710.51(6). We affirm.

Respondent father Scott P. McHugh and petitioner mother Michelle Van Dyke began dating in February 1993 while they were high school students in Grand Rapids. After learning in October 1993, that petitioner mother was pregnant, the couple planned to marry and raise the child together. Three weeks after their daughter, A.L.Z., was bom in May 1994, respondent admitted to petitioner mother that he molested two young neighborhood girls when he was fifteen years *266 old. On learning this information, petitioner mother ended her relationship with respondent and informed him that she did not want him to have unsupervised visits with A.L.Z. Respondent visited A.L.Z. regularly for the first few months of her life.

In 1994, petitioner mother asked the Department of Social Services not to establish paternity or pursue child support from respondent because she believed he was a danger to A.L.Z. and it would not be in the child’s best interests to have contact with respondent. In September 1994, respondent moved away to attend Eastern Michigan University, approximately 2V2 hours by automobile from Grand Rapids. Respondent did not regularly visit A.L.Z. while he was at school and his last visit with her was in April 1995. In October 1995, respondent told petitioner mother that he wanted to support A.L.Z.; however, he never contributed to her support. During that same period, petitioner mother told respondent that if he truly cared for A.L.Z., he should “let her have a normal life and find a father.”

Respondent had no contact with petitioner mother or A.L.Z. between October 1995 and December 1998, and claimed that he did so because petitioner told him to “leave them alone or stay out of their lives.” In a letter dated December 15, 1998, respondent wrote petitioner mother the following:

This letter has been a long time in coming. I have come to a point in my life that is getting to a degree of certainty. There is no way to say this, than to say it.
I miss my daughter. I realize that I have not been in her life for the past four years, but this has been at your request only. I feel that I have abided by your wishes, but in turn have denied myself and [A.L.Z.] a chance to know her *267 father. I have always wanted to share in the experience of raising her. You were the one who made the decision not to have me in her life. Now I see and feel that it is time for her to know. She will always be a part of me and I a part of her. I would like her to know me if at all possible.
I hope that this does not come as a big surprise to you. I really would like to talk. I am willing to meet you whenever, wherever you wish.
* * *
I am hoping that we can somehow settle this in a cooperative fashion. Make certain you understand, I am not doing this to upset anyone. I just feel that I should be a part of our daughter’s life. I will be looking forward to your reply.[ 1 ]

On January 25, 1999, petitioner mother sent the following letter to respondent:

I was quite surprised to receive your letter.
I’m glad to hear that you’ve reached a point of certainty in your life. However, I do not feel that by disrupting [A.L.Z.’s] life right now by introducing you to her would be of any benefit to her. This is not about what is best for you or what is best for me, it is about what is best for [A.L.Z.] For the past four and a half years, I have had to put her needs in front of my own, and I would hope you would do the same. She is a very well adjusted child and I do not see any sense in putting her through the confusion of trying to explain to her your past and why you’ve decided now to be a part of her life.
When she is an adult and more capable of understanding the issues surrounding our situation would be a more appropriate time for you to establish a relationship with her. Until then, I would ask that if you truly care for her, you would not pursue this issue for the sake of her future.

*268 On February 5, 1999, respondent filed a complaint seeking an order of filiation and parenting time in the family court. In the complaint, respondent requested an order declaring him to be A.L.Z.’s father and establishing reasonable parenting time. Petitioner mother opposed respondent’s request for parenting time; however, she admitted that respondent was A.L.Z.’s father. On March 24, 2000, the family court entered an order establishing respondent’s paternity.

On May 26, 2000, petitioner mother and her new husband, petitioner James Van Dyke, petitioned the family court to terminate respondent’s parental rights and allow petitioner stepfather to adopt A.L.Z. 2 The petition claimed that respondent failed to support or contact A.L.Z. for a period of two years or more. At an October 12, 2000, hearing on the petition, petitioner mother claimed she never prevented the father from contacting A.L.Z. or told him that he could not see her. However, she admitted that she did not want respondent to have contact with the child and told respondent that if he cared about A.L.Z. he would not attempt to see her and would leave her be. Petitioner mother also stated that she believed it would not be in A.L.Z.’s best interests to have contact with respondent until she was at least sixteen years old.

The parties did not dispute that respondent had the ability to contribute to A.L.Z.’s support in the two years before the petition was filed but failed to do *269 so. 3 Respondent also admitted that the only attempt he made to contact A.L.Z. during the two years before the filing of this petition was his December 1998 letter to petitioner mother. Respondent farther admitted that petitioner mother did not physically stop him from visiting A.L.Z. and that he had the ability to contact her by letter or telephone; however, he did not believe it would be appropriate to “just show up and surprise her like that,” and thought it would make petitioner happier if he stayed out of their lives. In addition, respondent stated that he wanted to “get [his] life together” before he attempted to see A.L.Z. again. 4

At the conclusion of the October 2000 hearing, the family court entered the following findings of fact and conclusions on the record:

First of all, I would like to compliment Mrs. Van Dyke and Mr. McHugh on the testimony that was provided before the Court today.
The responses of Mrs. Van Dyke and of Mr. McHugh were brutally honest in response to some very difficult questioning.

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