In re Adoption Of: C.H.M.

788 S.E.2d 594, 248 N.C. App. 179, 2016 N.C. App. LEXIS 710
CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedJuly 5, 2016
Docket15-1057
StatusPublished
Cited by5 cases

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Opinion

STEPHENS, Judge.

*179 Petitioners Michael T. Morris and Carolyn L. Morris appeal from the district court's order concluding that Respondent-father Venson Allen Westgate's consent is required to proceed with the adoption of his minor daughter, C.H.M. We affirm the district court's order.

Factual Background and Procedural History

Westgate is a 31-year-old resident of Illinois. Beginning in 2009, he became involved in an on-and-off intimate relationship with C.H.M.'s biological mother, Brandi Wood, who also resided in Illinois at that time. In 2012, Westgate saved money for several months to purchase an engagement ring and asked Wood to marry him, but she rejected his proposal. However, she later became pregnant after the two rekindled their intimate relationship in late October or early November 2012.

*180 In January 2013, Wood married a member of the military stationed in North Carolina, but she remained in Illinois. Around the same time, Wood told Westgate that she was pregnant and that he might be the father; however, Wood also demanded that Westgate keep her pregnancy secret. Westgate promised that he would not tell anyone about Wood's pregnancy until she told him he could, but continued to visit Wood at the Dollar General store where she worked and also communicated with her extensively on the social networking site Facebook. In February 2013, shortly after learning of Wood's pregnancy, Westgate offered via Facebook to start setting money aside for their child; although Wood rebuffed this offer, Westgate replied that he wanted to do so anyway in order to ensure that the child had everything he or she would ever need. In addition to offering financial support, Westgate also offered to pay for Wood's medical bills and to purchase specific items for the child. Wood refused these offers as well. However, in March 2013, she allowed Westgate to accompany her to a prenatal medical appointment, which was paid for by her husband's insurance. In Facebook messages he sent to Wood around this time, Westgate expressed his enthusiasm for becoming a father and his concerns for the health of Wood and her child, discussed research he had conducted into healthcare providers, suggested potential baby names, requested pregnancy pictures, and stated his intent to be present at the child's birth. In the months that followed, Wood told Westgate that it was impossible for him to be the father of her child because she had become pregnant as a result of a sexual assault by an unknown person in the autumn of 2012. Westgate reaffirmed that if the child was his, he wanted to be there as a father, and repeatedly requested to take a DNA test to confirm or exclude the possibility of his paternity, but Wood refused.

Before giving birth, Wood moved to North Carolina to join her husband in Onslow County. Westgate did not know Wood's North Carolina phone number or address and had no way of contacting her other than Facebook messages; eventually, Wood blocked Westgate on Facebook. On 28 June 2013, Wood gave birth to C.H.M. and subsequently placed her for adoption with A Child's Hope, LLC ("ACH"), an adoption *596 agency. Wood did not inform Westgate that she had given birth, did not tell him she had placed C.H.M. for adoption, nor did she identify Westgate to the adoption agency as the child's biological father; instead, Wood told ACH that her pregnancy resulted from a sexual assault by an unknown person. On 9 July 2013, the Morrises filed a petition in Wake County District Court to adopt C.H.M.

On 27 July 2013, Wood returned to Illinois and asked Westgate to meet her at a bar, at which point he realized she was no longer pregnant.

*181 However, Wood did not inform Westgate she had placed C.H.M. for adoption and instead told him that the child was hospitalized due to a heart problem. Westgate again requested a DNA test but Wood refused, offering an array of reasons why he could not be the father, including that her pregnancy had resulted from a sexual assault, that the timing of conception and birth did not align with their intimate encounter, and that Westgate's blood type and hair color did not match that of the child. At some point in September or October 2013, Westgate began to contact attorneys in Illinois and North Carolina to inquire about his legal rights. However, in November 2013, Wood admitted to Westgate that she had placed the child for adoption and that he was the father. On 27 November 2013, Westgate was served with a notice of pendency of adoption proceedings. A subsequent DNA test, paid for by ACH, confirmed Westgate's paternity.

On 23 December 2013, Westgate filed a response to notice and objection to the adoption. A hearing in this matter was held during the 23 April 2014 civil session of Wake County District Court, the Honorable Debra Sasser, Judge presiding. At the hearing, Westgate testified that he has been employed for several years as a repairman for J & J Ventures in Illinois and earned approximately $35,000 per year during the term of Wood's pregnancy. Westgate testified further that once he learned Wood was pregnant, on several occasions via Facebook messages and in person, he offered to provide financial support for Wood and C.H.M. and told Wood he had been saving money to do so, but that Wood rebuffed him because she did not want her husband to know about their relationship. According to Westgate, despite Wood's refusal to accept financial support, he immediately began saving money for his child by depositing cash withdrawn from ATMs, cashback purchases from Walmart, and monthly dividend checks into a "lockbox" he kept in his residence. Westgate testified that he typically deposited at least $100 to $140 per month and sometimes more into the lockbox. He also testified that although he had a bank account, he generally lived paycheck to paycheck and chose to utilize the lockbox because he wanted to assure the funds for his child were kept separate for her exclusive use. Westgate provided his bank statements dating back to before C.H.M.'s conception, and testified extensively about his monthly expenses and withdrawals. Westgate also introduced the lockbox into evidence, which, by the time of the hearing, held $3,260. Westgate acknowledged that he had contacted attorneys in Illinois and North Carolina several months after his daughter's birth in September and October 2013 to inquire about suing Wood for custody or demanding a DNA test, but stated that he planned to pay any legal or associated fees from his bank account, rather than *182 from the lockbox. In addition, Westgate testified that after the DNA test confirmed his paternity, he purchased items for C.H.M. and made arrangements to transfer his employment to the town in Illinois where his parents lived and to move in with them in order to better facilitate childcare for his daughter.

Wood did not appear at the hearing. Although Wood had been served in Illinois with a subpoena to compel her appearance approximately one week prior to the hearing, counsel for the Morrises explained that after Wood was served, she contacted him.

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