In re Adoption of Baby Girl G.

CourtCourt of Appeals of Kansas
DecidedNovember 22, 2019
Docket121051
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

NOT DESIGNATED FOR PUBLICATION

No. 121,051

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF KANSAS

In the Matter of the Adoption of BABY GIRL G.

MEMORANDUM OPINION

Appeal from Sedgwick District Court; ROBB W. RUMSEY, judge. Opinion filed November 22, 2019. Affirmed in part, reversed in part, and remanded with directions.

Jordan E. Kieffer, of Dugan & Giroux Law, Inc., of Wichita, for appellant.

Martin W. Bauer, of Martin, Pringle, Oliver, Wallace & Bauer, L.L.P., of Wichita for appellees.

Before POWELL, P.J., PIERRON and ATCHESON, JJ.

PIERRON, J.: P.F. (Father), the biological father of Baby Girl G., appeals the district court's order terminating his parental rights. The district court found that under K.S.A. 2018 Supp. 59-2136(h)(1)(D), Father failed without reasonable cause to support Baby Girl G.'s birthmother, A.G. (Mother), during the last six months of her pregnancy. Father also appeals the district court's award of attorney fees. We affirm in part, reverse in part, and remand with directions.

Factual and Procedural History

Mother and Father met in 2017 while working together. They dated briefly in the fall of 2017 but broke up at the end of October. They briefly reconnected in December 2017, and had sex, but they did not resume their romantic relationship.

1 In January 2018, Mother found out she was pregnant. Because she had had sex with two other men around the same time she had sex with Father, she did not think he was the biological father at first. Father heard rumors that Mother was pregnant, but he did not confirm it with her until February 2018.

In a series of text messages from February 14, 2018, Mother was upset with Father for talking about her pregnancy with others. Father replied:

"I really don't give a fuck about you. . . . [I]f you're pregnant, my only concern would be if it's mine. . . . [I've] never had this kind of contempt for someone before. I've said some of the meanest things I've ever said to [a] person to you."

Mother assured Father the child was not his. Father told her to let him know if she found out otherwise.

In March 2018, after a doctor's appointment, Mother told Father she was now sure he was the child's father. Father indicated he intended to parent the child. He also mentioned both prenatal and postnatal DNA testing to confirm the child was his. The couple discussed prenatal DNA testing several times over the course of the pregnancy but ultimately concluded it was too risky and expensive.

For most of the pregnancy, Mother and Father were in contact through text messages, and over 3,500 text messages were admitted into evidence. In the messages, the two had many amicable discussions. They talked about how excited they both were. They picked a name for the baby together. They discussed Mother's job search. They discussed their respective situations in the present and how they would co-parent in the future. Father often asked Mother how she was doing or if she had eaten.

2 Their text discussions were not always cordial, though. For example, in March, Father accused Mother of lying about who she had slept with saying "you've had sex with 1,000 people in the last three months." When she denied lying, Father insisted she was responsible for convincing him she was being truthful. He told her, "[Y]ou do understand that I will take that kid from you don't you if you do not cooperate with me???" He eventually apologized, explaining he was scared the child might not be his, and he overreacted. He later told her, "I want you to know that I would never say something like that unless I felt I had to. I don't even remember why I thought I had to at the time now I was so heated, you weren't saying things that I felt were making things better."

A little over a week after that argument, Father asked Mother if it would offend her if he asked about DNA testing at the first doctor's appointment he went to. Mother said it would, adding "[i]t's just starting to bother me that [the child's paternity is] all you ever want to talk about." Father said the issue kept coming up "because I don't know 100%. I want to know 100%."

Father later testified he felt he had been supportive and encouraging in his texts to Mother. He admitted they fought sometimes, but he tried to "de-escalate" the fights. Mother agreed Father was sometimes emotionally supportive. But she also felt Father had been selfish. To her, his overriding concern seemed to be whether he was the biological father. She felt the relationship was one-sided, and he needed more emotional support than she did. When she needed space, he would not respect her wishes and continued to text her constantly.

Even though Mother had a job for most of her pregnancy, she had significant financial difficulties. On two occasions, she told Father she could not pay her rent and was facing eviction. Father offered to let her store things at his home, but he did not provide other financial support. At the end of May 2018, Mother lost her apartment because she could not pay her rent. She then moved in with her current boyfriend. She

3 broke up with her boyfriend briefly in July and had to stay with various relatives before moving back in with him.

Mother also had car problems and went through several cars during her pregnancy. Father gave her a few rides but never offered to help her get her car fixed.

Father had been working at the same full-time job since 2014, making $15.73 an hour. He also had a part-time job at Pizza Hut starting in 2017 but quit in June of 2018. He made minimum wage at that job. In November 2018, he provided a financial affidavit stating his gross monthly income was $3,046. He also lived with his mother and grandmother, who brought in $1,600 and $1,200 respectively.

At the evidentiary hearing, Father testified he did not want to give Mother any cash. He felt she was financially irresponsible because she was being garnished and had been evicted from her apartment. He believed it would have been a waste to give her cash. Instead, he said he wanted to offer her something he felt was more beneficial like shelter, food, storage, or transportation.

Father provided some direct financial support for Mother. Father bought a Vape pen for Mother for about $45 to help her quit smoking. When it broke, he also helped her get it fixed for free. He paid a $35 phone bill for her. He took her out to eat twice, spending somewhere between $30 and $50. And he gave her $5 for gas.

Father made several other offers of financial help that Mother did not accept. He offered to help her pay a $250 security deposit for a new apartment she was considering renting. Once when Mother needed a ride, Father offered to pay for an Uber because he could not leave work to give her a ride himself. Mother said she declined the offer because it would cost too much and she knew she could find another way to get where she needed to go. Another time, Mother told Father she was hungry and would probably

4 not eat that day because she did not have money. Father offered to buy her "some cheap stuff, ramen, etc." Mother eventually responded that her aunt was taking her out to eat. Father also made many general offers to help, such as telling Mother to let him know if she needed anything.

Father also offered to let Mother live with him a couple of times. Mother testified she did not accept his offers because she did not think they were genuine. She also did not see it as a real option because he lived with his mother and grandmother.

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