In Re: Adopt. of: C.J.M., a Minor

Superior Court of Pennsylvania·Decided May 13, 2025·No. 1493 MDA 2024·Unpublished

Opinion

NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT O.P. 65.37

IN RE: ADOPTION OF: C.J.M., A : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF MINOR : PENNSYLVANIA :

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APPEAL OF: J.D.M., FATHER :

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: No. 1493 MDA 2024

Appeal from the Decree Entered October 7, 2024 In the Court of Common Pleas of Cumberland County Orphans' Court at No(s): 028-ADOPT-2024

IN RE: ADOPTION OF: M.L.M., A : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF MINOR : PENNSYLVANIA :

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APPEAL OF: J.D.M., FATHER :

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: No. 1494 MDA 2024

Appeal from the Decree Entered October 7, 2024 In the Court of Common Pleas of Cumberland County Orphans' Court at No(s): 029-ADOPT-2024

BEFORE: BOWES, J., OLSON, J., and STABILE, J. MEMORANDUM BY BOWES, J.: FILED MAY 13, 2025 J.D.M. (“Father”) appeals the decrees entered on October 7, 2024, which granted the petitions filed by C.E.F. (“Mother”) and S.F. (“Stepfather”) (collectively “Appellees”) and involuntarily terminated Father’s parental rights to his son, C.J.M., born in March 2015, and daughter, M.L.M., born in November 2017. We affirm.

We gather the pertinent factual and procedural background of this matter from the certified record. The relationship between Mother and Father began in July 2012 and they married approximately four years later. See N.T., 9/9/24, at 7. Mother reported that they separated in April 2020 due to verbal and physical abuse perpetrated against Mother by Father, as well as her concerns regarding his abuse of narcotics and “violent outbursts,” which culminated in an incident wherein Father menaced Mother with a hammer while holding M.L.M. Id. at 8-9. At the time of their separation, Mother, Father, and the two children resided in Swedesboro, New Jersey. Id. at 10- 11; see also Appellees’ Exhibit A.

Mother sought a temporary restraining order under New Jersey law, which we gather is the rough equivalent of a protection from abuse order under Pennsylvania law. See N.T., 9/9/24, at 11-12. Mother simultaneously filed for divorce. Id. at 18. On May 1, 2020, the New Jersey court entered a final restraining order that prohibited Father from having “any oral, written, personal, electronic” or other form of communication with Mother and awarded her temporary primary custody of C.J.M. and M.L.M.1 See Appellees’ Exhibit

1 Notably, final restraining orders under New Jersey law do not expire. Rather, they will be terminated only upon motion of the parties. See I.J. v. I.S., 744 A.2d 1246, 1250 (N.J.Super. 1999) (“If the plaintiff makes no application to dismiss the restraining order and the plaintiff is awarded a final restraining order, the order is effective indefinitely, unless the court modifies or dismisses the restraining order at the plaintiff or the defendant’s request.”). There is no (Footnote Continued Next Page)

A. Around this time, Mother and the children relocated to Cumberland County, Pennsylvania, which is where Mother’s parents and extended family reside. See N.T., 9/9/24, at 17.

Pursuant to the terms of the final restraining order, Father was awarded partial physical custody of the children every Monday at 3:00 p.m. until Thursday at 6:30 p.m., with maternal grandparents facilitating communication and providing transportation. See Appellees’ Exhibit A. Although Father initially exercised his full custody entitlement, he quickly started returning the children to Mother’s custody earlier each subsequent week. See N.T., 9/9/24, at 17, 124. In August 2020, Mother resumed living in Swedesboro with the children after she was granted sole possession of the marital home. Id. at 22. Father began living in an apartment. The same month, Father ceased exercising his custodial time after Mother raised concerns that Father’s new residence was unsuitable and that he did not have age-appropriate car seats. Id. at 17, 91; see also Father’s Exhibit 5.

Ultimately, the divorce was finalized under New Jersey law on November 4, 2020. See Appellees’ Exhibit B. The final divorce judgment, inter alia, granted Mother sole legal and primary physical custody, while awarding Father partial physical custody every Friday at 6:00 p.m. until Sunday at 6:00 p.m.

indication in the certified record that Mother or Father ever petitioned the court in New Jersey to lift the final restraining order.

Id. The judgment, however, “immediately suspended” Father’s custodial time until he complied with the following requirements:

(i) [Father] must provide his full address and contact phone number to [Mother’s] attorney and confirm he has suitable living arrangements for the children, including a separate bedroom for each child;

(ii) [Father] shall provide proof to [Mother’s] attorney that he completed a substance abuse evaluation, including a clean drug screen;

(iii) [Father] shall provide proof to [Mother’s] attorney that he completed an anger management course consistent with the requirements of the final restraining order in this matter; and

(iv) [Father] shall provide proof to [Mother’s] attorney that he has age[-]appropriate car seats for [the children].

Id. at ¶ 2(i)-(iv) (some capitalization altered). It provided that “[i]f [Father] satisfies all of the above requirements, [Father’s] parenting time may be reinstated.” Id. at ¶ 3. Father never complied with these obligations and, thus, his New Jersey custody award remained suspended at the time of the subject hearing. See N.T., 9/9/24, at 20-22.

The divorce judgment also required all communications between Mother and Father to take place through the messaging software AppClose. See Appellees’ Exhibit B at ¶ 5. Finally, it granted Mother permission to relocate with the children back to Cumberland County permanently. Id. at ¶ 6; see also N.T., 9/9/24, at 22-23. Mother thus returned to Pennsylvania and sold the marital home in December 2020. See N.T., 9/9/24, at 22-23.

Contemporaneously, Appellees began dating in August 2020 and married in September 2022. Id. at 6, 36-37. Stepfather had three daughters from a prior relationship, who became the children’s stepsisters. Id. at 6. Also during this period, Father’s in-person contact with the children ended. His last face-to-face meeting occurred in November 2020 when he appeared unannounced at the children’s daycare and briefly interacted with them. Id. at 17, 27. Although Father contacted the children on a cell phone belonging to C.J.M. a handful of times between November 2020 and March 2021, those communications stopped when the number Father knew to be associated with that phone abruptly changed. Id. at 26, 97-99.

Father has a well-documented history of substance abuse and related criminal behavior, including possession of controlled substances, robbery, and retail theft. See generally Appellees’ Exhibits C-S. He claimed to have suffered a “mental breakdown” in March 2021 and was homeless for more than two years. See N.T., 9/9/24, at 70, 135. During this time, Father admitted that he was regularly abusing narcotics. Id. Beginning in July 2023, he started living in “transitional housing” connected with a “drug treatment facility” in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Id. at 69-71, 142.

In August 2023, Mother transferred the child support proceedings from New Jersey to Pennsylvania. Id. at 34. Thereafter, Father filed requests for modification of the child support order under Pennsylvania law on two separate occasions. Id. at 34-36. However, he never sought custody of the

children under either New Jersey or Pennsylvania law. Id. at 33. In April 2024, Father tried to file a document in the Office of the Prothonotary of Cumberland County, but it was rejected on April 15, 2024, for a variety of issues related to incorrect fees, certificates of compliance, and Father’s purported in forma pauperis status. See Father’s Exhibit 6. Father maintains that this returned filing was a failed attempt on his part to file a custody complaint concerning the children. See N.T., 9/9/24, at 103-04. The purported filing is not present in the certified record.

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