In Re Aaron Ross Freudenburg, And Mikela Forshe Freudenburg

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided April 7, 2025·No. 83030-9·Unpublished

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

In the Matter of the Marriage of No. 83030-9-I

AARON ROSS FREUDENBURG, DIVISION ONE

Respondent,

UNPUBLISHED OPINION

v.

MIKELA FORSHE FREUDENBURG, Appellant.

CHUNG, J. — Mikela Freudenburg and Aaron Freudenburg were married in November 2014 and had one daughter, A.F. In December 2019, Aaron filed for dissolution. Before trial, the court entered a restraining order against Mikela after she left the state with A.F. The court entered final dissolution orders and a parenting plan that placed limitations on Mikela based on emotional and physical problems and substance abuse problems that impacted her ability to parent, as well as for withholding A.F. from Aaron absent good cause. The court gave Aaron the majority of time with A.F. and sole decision-making power over major decisions. Aaron then filed a petition seeking to relocate to Maryland, which the court granted. Mikela appeals the restraining order, the dissolution orders and parenting plan, and the relocation order. She also claims racial bias affected the proceedings. As we find no error, we affirm.

FACTS

Mikela Freudenburg and Aaron Freudenburg were married on November 10, 2014. At the time of their marriage, Aaron 1 was a Chief Petty Officer in the Navy stationed in San Diego, California. In March 2017, the couple’s only child, A.F., was born in San Diego. In November of 2018, Aaron’s job required the family to relocate to Everett, Washington. Aaron’s job in the Navy often required him to be deployed for six or seven months at a time. Shortly after moving to Washington, Aaron was deployed for five weeks. While Aaron was away, Mikela looked for a daycare for A.F. and looked for jobs. However, Mikela’s desire to find a job caused some tension in the couple’s relationship. For example, Mikela testified that she found a temporary internship but that Aaron “did not want me to work. He didn’t want [A.F.] in a daycare.” Aaron felt there “was a lot on [Mikela’s] plate” that “she was getting really overwhelmed” and that “it wasn’t going to end well.”

On March 28, 2019, Aaron deployed again for seven months, while Mikela stayed in Washington with A.F. Aaron reported that over the course of this deployment, he became increasingly more concerned about Mikela’s mental health and ability to take care of A.F. Specifically, Aaron was concerned about a series of text messages sent to him by Mikela that stated, among other things, “I want you to understand I have mental health issues,” “I’m drinking every night . . . [I’m] [n]ot myself,” and “I smoke weed every single night after [A.F.] sleeps.” Mikela explained that at the time she sent the text messages, she was simply

1 Because of the parties’ shared last name, we use their first names for clarity.

confiding in Aaron that it was difficult to be “doing everything on my own in Washington with him gone.” Additionally, in May 2019, Mikela sent A.F. to San Diego for five weeks to stay with her family while she completed her degree program and her temporary internship.

After several months of deteriorating relations between the couple, in early October 2019, Mikela informed Aaron of her intent to separate from him and officially moved out of the family home in Everett on October 26, 2019. On December 6, 2019, Aaron filed a petition for dissolution in Snohomish County Superior Court. On January 10, 2020, the court entered a temporary parenting plan naming Mikela as the custodial parent and requiring that any parent who wished to travel with A.F. outside of Washington needed to obtain written approval of the other parent. The temporary parenting plan did not place limitations on either parent but did require both parents to obtain substance abuse evaluations.

Following her separation from Aaron, Mikela began dating Jon-Michael Smith (JM). Mikela testified that after she began living with JM, he began psychologically abusing her. At trial, Mikela testified that in April 2020, a physical incident occurred between her and JM where he “put his hands on me to try to restrain me. . . . [and put] his hand over my mouth,” before she was able to call the police. After this incident, Mikela and A.F. stayed with Aaron for approximately three days. Mikela and Aaron both testified that there was significant tension between them about Mikela’s relationship with JM. They had an altercation during which Aaron reportedly called Mikela a “prostitute” and

attempted to block her from leaving the house with A.F., resulting in a physical struggle over A.F., and Mikela struck Aaron, which she claimed was an accident because she lost her balance.

Mikela remained with JM until November 2020. Between the hours of 11:30 p.m. and 4:00 a.m. of November 4-5, 2020, Mikela sent Aaron 74 text messages indicating her desire to leave her abusive relationship with JM and to get out of Washington. For instance, Mikela texted, “Please can I take [A.F.] with me. . . I’m planning to [move] in 2 weeks . . . Can you take [vacation] and fly with [A.F.] and I please . . . Please take leave . . . I need you to help me move . . . Please let me go back to California.” Aaron testified that he initially did not “respond to it because this is all just a broken record,” but on November 7, 2020, he responded and told Mikela that pursuant to the January 10 temporary parenting plan, she was not to leave Washington. Mikela responded, “Never was going to.” Nevertheless, on or about November 9, 2 Mikela picked up A.F. from daycare and began driving to San Diego, where she arrived approximately three days later.

On November 12, 2020, Aaron learned that A.F. had not been to daycare all week. He attempted to contact Mikela and her family in San Diego, to no avail. After several days of no contact from Mikela and checking her apartment and JM’s house for her whereabouts, Aaron testified that he thought that Mikela had gone to San Diego and called the San Diego Police Department (SDPD) to do a

2 Aaron testified that the daycare said Mikela picked up A.F. on Monday, November 9.

Mikela testified that they drove out “after I got [A.F.] from school which was – the 8th is when I left Jon-Michael – I have to recap – which was a Sunday night, the 9th.”

wellness check at her parents’ house. On November 14, 2020, SDPD located Mikela and A.F. at Mikela’s parents’ house. Aaron testified that at no point did he give Mikela permission to take A.F. to San Diego. Mikela admitted at trial that she had not contacted Aaron until November 14 because she was concerned that Aaron was in contact with JM.

On December 1, 2020, Mikela filed a notice of intent to relocate. Aaron testified he was not served with the notice until December 15. However, on December 11, 2020, Aaron sought and was granted an ex parte restraining order against Mikela, which was extended to a 12-month temporary restraining order (TRO) after a hearing on December 18, 2020. The court also entered an amended temporary residential schedule giving Aaron the majority of the time with A.F. and permitting Mikela to have supervised visits.

On February 1, 2021, Aaron was charged with assault in the fourth degree involving domestic violence regarding an incident with his then-girlfriend LaToya Jones. A domestic violence protection order (DVPO) was entered against Aaron. A separate investigation by the Navy found that Aaron had met the criteria for physical abuse of a partner.

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