In Matter of the Adoption of Blausenhauer, 08 Ca 32 (4-17-2009)

2009 Ohio 1853
Ohio Court of Appeals·Decided April 17, 2009·No. No. 08 CA 32.·Published

Opinion

OPINION *Page 2
{¶ 1} Appellant, Johnathan Grewell, appeals from the October 10, 2008, Judgment Entry of the Guernsey County Probate Court holding that the consent of appellee Robert Blausenhauer is necessary for the adoption of Madison Marie Blausenhauer.

STATEMENT OF THE FACTS AND CASE
{¶ 2} Madison Marie Blausenhauer1 (DOB 6/22/03) is the biological daughter of Heidi Grewell and appellee Robert Blausenhauer. The two have never been married. Heidi Grewell has been married to appellant Johnathan Grewell since September 24, 2005.

{¶ 3} On March 18, 2008, appellant filed a petition to adopt Madison pursuant to R.C. 3107.05. Appellant, in his petition, alleged that appellee's consent to the adoption was not required because appellee had failed, without justifiable cause, to communicate with Madison for a period of at least one year immediately preceding the filing of the adoption petition or the placement of Madison in appellant's house.

{¶ 4} A consent hearing was held on August 6, 2008. Prior to testimony, appellant's counsel argued that the evidence would show that appellee had no communication with Madison since January of 2007. The following testimony was then adduced at the hearing.

{¶ 5} Heidi Grewell, Madison's mother, testified that Madison has resided with her since birth. Grewell testified that she was not living with appellee at the time of Madison's birth and that she has four other children with appellee. The four other children all are in appellee's custody. Grewell further testified that she was given *Page 3 custody of Madison pursuant to a court order issued in October of 2006 and that, once a paternity test established in 2004 that appellee was Madison's father, appellee was ordered to pay child support.

{¶ 6} According to Grewell, appellee did not start to visit with Madison until October of 2004 when Grewell moved in with appellee. The two lived together until March of 2005. Grewell testified that, after the two separated, appellee visited with Madison a couple of times, but that there was no set visitation schedule. Although she advised appellee of Madison's hospitalizations for asthma and bad allergies, appellee only came to visit Madison in the hospital once in the fall of 2006 for approximately five minutes. At the time, Madison was hospitalized for the flu. Grewell testified that Madison had had several surgeries and that appellee only showed up for one and that appellee did not attend Madison's first year graduation or any of her school plays or performances.

{¶ 7} At the hearing, Grewell testified that the last communication that appellee had with Madison was on December 28, 2006 and that he did not see her after such time. The following is an excerpt from Grewell's testimony:

{¶ 8} "Q. Was there any discussion between you and Robert in January of 07 about the visitations?

{¶ 9} "A. Yes there was.

{¶ 10} "Q. He asked if he could have Madison, and I asked him if we can do a couple hours here and there because she doesn't know him, and every time she goes she comes back crying or I called to check on her she was crying, so I asked if him if we can do a couple hours here and there so she can get used to him, and he said he aint *Page 4 nobody's f-ing babysitter." Transcript at 14. According to Grewell, appellee never contacted her after such discussion to attempt to visit with Madison.

{¶ 11} At the hearing, Grewell testified that appellee has never sent a birthday, Christmas or other type of card to Madison and never contacted her after December 28, 2006 to arrange for visitation. She further testified that when she met with appellee to pick up her other four children from him, Madison was not discussed. Grewell testified that after the adoption petition was filed, appellee contacted her once to ask why Grewell would not "let Madison go." Transcript at 18. According to Grewell, to the best of her knowledge, appellee had not seen Madison in over a year, had any phone contact with her or sent any cards to her.

{¶ 12} Barbara Wharton, Heidi Grewell's grandmother, testified at the hearing that, several times prior to January of 2007, her daughter had called appellee about visiting Madison. She further testified that she had not seen appellee and Madison together since Grewell and appellee split up. When asked whether Grewell refused to allow appellee to visit with Madison, Ms. Wharton responded in the negative.

{¶ 13} Jacqueline Grewell, appellant's mother, also testified at the hearing that she had not seen appellee with Madison since December of 2006 and that, to her knowledge, he had not communicated with Madison since the end of December of 2006.

{¶ 14} At the consent hearing, Melissa Blausenhauer, appellee's wife, testified that she very seldom saw her stepdaughter since March 3, 2006 and that she did not recall seeing Madison in 2007. According to Melissa Blausenhauer, after December of *Page 5 2006, Grewell did not allow appellee to see Madison. When asked if she knew the reason why, Melissa Blausenhauer responded as follows:

{¶ 15} "The reason that I was either heard from Heidi was Bobby is not her dad. Bobby don't have time for Madison since Brook was born, and since we were together, and that she wouldn't let Madison come to the house because of me." Transcript at 46.

{¶ 16} Melissa later testified that she and appellee saw Madison at a school play at the end of the 2006-2007 school year. The following testimony was adduced when Melissa Blausenhauer was asked whether anything occurred with Madison at the play:

{¶ 17} "A. Heidi had held Madison up on her lap like this. Had her stand straight up and look towards Bobby through the crowd and we were standing in the back, and she had yelled out Bobby, Bobby so loud like you couldn't miss it. You knew who she was talking to. And then Bobby would smile and wave to her. Heidi had let Madison get down and get so close to Bobby thinking that they were going to hug, and came up so fast and grabbed her." Transcript at 48.

{¶ 18} Melissa further testified that she and her husband sent birthday gifts, Easter gifts and other gifts to Madison but that, because Madison never received them, they just started saving the gifts and putting them into a closet.

{¶ 19} Appellee testified that after October 30, 2006, he had visitation once a week for a couple of hours with Madison. Appellee further testified that, after January of 2007, Grewell offered him a couple of hours "here and there" with Madison and he told her that he was not Madison's babysitter and wanted to have her for a night. Transcript at 62. After January of 2007, appellee, during conversations with Grewell regarding Madison, asked Grewell when the next time was that he was going to get visitation with *Page 6 her. Appellee testified that his requests for visitation were denied because Madison was sick or staying with someone.

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