Heibel v. Heibel

366 S.W.2d 37, 1963 Mo. App. LEXIS 563
CourtMissouri Court of Appeals
DecidedMarch 19, 1963
DocketNo. 31136
StatusPublished
Cited by7 cases

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Heibel v. Heibel, 366 S.W.2d 37, 1963 Mo. App. LEXIS 563 (Mo. Ct. App. 1963).

Opinion

BRADY, Commissioner.

Appellant, hereinafter referred to as the plaintiff, filed her petition for divorce from respondent, hereinafter referred to as defendant, who answered by general denial and filed his cross bill. The trial court denied plaintiff a decree of divorce and denied defendant a divorce on his cross bill, ordered plaintiff’s petition and defendant’s cross bill dismissed, and awarded plaintiff the sum of $150.00 for attorneys’ fees. The plaintiff appeals. The defendant has not appealed from the judgment nor has he favored us with a brief in plaintiff’s appeal.

The plaintiff alleged general indignities in that the defendant “exhibited” a cross and quarrelsome nature and disposition; that he failed to treat her with kindness and affection and has been cold and indifferent toward her; that he told her on numerous occasions he did not love her and they would be better off living apart since he did not intend to fulfil his duties as her husband; that he struck her on numerous occasions and threatened her with physical violence and placed her in fear for her safety; that defendant did not want any company at the home and restricted the plaintiff’s grandchildren from visiting her; that he used abusive language to her and insulted her in front of their friends; and that he refused to go with her to church or take her to church because “ * * * the church would request collections.” Plaintiff’s petition prayed for a divorce and for alimony pen-dente lite and permanent, “suit money” and attorneys’ fees.

Defendant denied these allegations and in his cross bill alleged that plaintiff was guilty of the following general indignities: that she drank to excess, “ * * * was intoxicated on numerous occasions, and when under the influence of liquor would vomit on the floor and rugs of the home * * * ”; that she was discharged from one or more jobs for being drunk; that she was “cross [39]*39and quarrelsome”; that she was continually quarreling about money and when defendant gave her money she would give it to her children by a previous marriage; that she would not stay home and keep house but insisted on working against his wishes; and that plaintiff called him “ * * * vile and vicious names” on numerous occasions. Defendant prayed for a divorce.

Only a brief statement of the evidence will be necessary. Plaintiff’s evidence was that she was a woman fifty-six years of age and left her husband because she was cursed and mistreated and awakened late at night when defendant came home from work drunk; that her husband never asked her to quit working and never gave her money for clothes which she bought from her own wages; that she kept house, cooked, made defendant’s breakfast and fixed his lunch, did her own washing, ironing and cleaning; that her church was too far from the home to walk and she couldn’t drive an automobile but defendant refused to take her; that defendant resented visits to the home from her children of a former marriage and “Sometimes when they came he would go in the bedroom, shut the door, and stay there for the entire evening”; that her husband would wake her up at midnight when he came home “ * * * punching and arguing about things that happened a long time ago”; that she remembered him striking her on a lot of occasions, one of which occurred in the summer before trial when defendant called for plaintiff to bring him a bottle of beer as he was cutting the grass and when he came into the house and saw plaintiff and a “girl friend” splitting a beer he “ * * * punched me on the lip and said, ‘Who said you could have a beer ? ’ ”; that he refused to let her have the television set on past 10:30 when “ * * * the lights were put out and I had to go to bed” and gave her instructions not to have the set on during the day; that her husband would curse and swear and tell her how stupid she was if she broke a dish or a cup; and that he insulted her in public “Quite often” and described one occasion when, on a trip to Illinois with neighbors, the neighbors stopped to get a drink in a restaurant and asked the plaintiff what she wanted and the defendant said “ * * * ‘Nothing/ I said, ‘Couldn’t we have something now?’ He cursed me in front of people I never saw in my life before.” Her further testimony was that she was not then working and had no income except what her children gave her; and that her husband owns his house alone but “quite a bit” of the furniture in¡ the house was hers. On cross-examination, plaintiff denied that she was discharged from her employment on two occasions for drinking.

The plaintiff then produced Helen Juer-gens, a personnel worker at one of the places plaintiff had been working, who testified that she was not discharged for drinking. Vito Ventimiglia, supervisor of personnel at the other place of employment testified that she was not discharged for drinking at that employment but that she had left because she felt entitled to a raise.

Mrs. Mary Broyles testified that she had known the plaintiff for over twenty years; that she was present when the defendant struck the plaintiff because she and the plaintiff were splitting a bottle of beer; that she had heard him call the plaintiff “stupid”; and that plaintiff’s reputation as to truthfulness, morality, and good moral character was “very fine.”

Alice Broadhead testified that she had known plaintiff for over twenty years; that she worked with her and that plaintiff’s reputation for truthfulness and morality was “very good.”

Mrs. Power, plaintiff’s daughter by a previous marriage, testified that when she and plaintiff’s grandchildren came to visit “He would say, ‘Are you here again ?’ ” and “ * * * he frequently went in the bedroom and closed the door.”

Plaintiff’s evidence as to the financial condition of the respective parties was that under doctor’s order she could not work and it cost her approximately $155.00 a [40]*40month to live. Plaintiff then presented the cashier of the bank where defendant did business who testified defendant had a savings account of $2,247.55.

The defendant’s evidence was that he treated his wife with kindness and affection, supported her and provided “Everything she wanted.” He testified that there were times when the plaintiff was “very good” but this was not so when she drank to excess; that he had seen his wife intoxicated a lot of times, “probably” twice a month and that if he was working nights he would find her lying on the floor drunk with her friend, Mrs. Broyles; that if he was working days, she came home drunk at night. That a couple of times when he came home from work, he found Mrs. Broyles lying on the floor drunk with nothing on but a petticoat and that would be over her head and his wife would be lying on the davenette with her pajamas on; that he did not approve of his wife working and this resulted in quarrels between them; and that many times she called him names, but when asked whether those names were profane or vile as he had alleged in his verified petition, he stated “They wasn’t too bad.” The defendant further testified that he had never struck his wife, threatened her nor told her that they would be better off separated; that he did not refuse to allow guests to visit in his home and when questioned about the visits of the grandchildren, stated that he did not refuse to allow them to visit in his home and that “ * * * I raised all three grandchildren. We both did”; that he never used abusive language to his wife in front of others nor refused to give her money for necessities or to give to the church; and that he objected to Mrs. Broyles coming to his home, “Because she was foul mouthed and drinks * * * ”

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