Heberling v. Deckard

2024 Ohio 1535
CourtOhio Court of Appeals
DecidedApril 22, 2024
Docket6-23-10
StatusPublished
Cited by2 cases

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Opinion

[Cite as Heberling v. Deckard, 2024-Ohio-1535.]

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF OHIO THIRD APPELLATE DISTRICT HARDIN COUNTY

PATRICIA HEBERLING, CASE NO. 6-23-10 PLAINTIFF-APPELLEE,

v.

TAYLOR DECKARD, OPINION

DEFENDANT-APPELLANT.

Appeal from Hardin County Common Pleas Court Domestic Relations Division Trial Court No. AP 2020 4046

Judgment Affirmed

Date of Decision: April 22, 2024

APPEARANCES:

John C. Filkins for Appellant

Kelle M. Saull for Appellee Case No. 6-23-10

MILLER, J.

{¶1} This case involves the determination of custodial rights between a

parent and a grandparent. Defendant-Appellant, Taylor Deckard (“Deckard”),

appeals the May 2, 2023 judgment issued by the Hardin County Court of Common

Pleas naming Plaintiff-Appellee, Patricia Heberling (“Heberling”), as the residential

and legal custodian of Deckard’s minor child (“L.D.”). Deckard is L.D.’s biological

father and Heberling is the child’s maternal grandmother, who obtained custody of

L.D. and his four half-siblings following the death of L.D.’s mother. For the reasons

that follow, we affirm.

I. FACTS AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY

A. Parties and Case Initiation

{¶2} Heberling lives with her deceased daughter’s five children, including

L.D. As of the January 7, 2022 evidentiary hearing, those five children ranged in

age from one to thirteen years old. Prior to her daughter’s death, Heberling saw the

children frequently and spoke daily to them and her daughter.

{¶3} L.D. is a young boy who was born in 2015. On May 3, 2020, L.D.’s

mother was murdered by the father of her youngest child when all her children were

present. The day after the murder, Heberling traveled to Georgia, where her

daughter and the children had been living, in order to take custody of the children.

She returned to Ohio and, on July 17, 2020, she filed a complaint in the Juvenile

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Division of the Court of Common Pleas seeking legal custody of L.D. The same

day, Heberling filed an emergency motion to temporarily designate her as L.D.’s

sole custodial and residential custodian. On July 31, 2020, then-magistrate Maria

Santo (“Santo”) issued an ex parte order granting Heberling’s emergency motion.

{¶4} On August 12, 2020, after Heberling filed her complaint for legal

custody of L.D., Deckard filed an answer and a motion for paternity testing. On

October 12, 2020, based on results of paternity testing, the trial court determined

Deckard was L.D.’s father. The court appointed a Guardian Ad Litem (“GAL”)

and, by consent judgment entry on December 11, 2020, the parties agreed on

incremental supervised parenting time to introduce Deckard to L.D.

B. Evidentiary Hearing Presided Over by Then-Magistrate Santo

{¶5} On January 7, 2022, the matter proceeded to a final evidentiary hearing

before then-magistrate Santo on Heberling’s complaint for legal custody and

Deckard’s motion to be designated L.D.’s residential parent. During the hearing,

numerous witnesses testified, including Heberling, Deckard, and Dr. Kimberly

Stark (a clinical child psychologist). Although the GAL did not testify during the

hearing, his report was admitted as an exhibit without objection.

{¶6} Among other things, the evidence at the hearing demonstrated L.D.’s

mother had previously been granted a protection order against Deckard. Deckard

did not appear for the hearing on that protection order. Deckard testified that the

protection order against him was in effect for four years (as he understood it).

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Deckard also testified he spoke with L.D.’s mother after the protection order

expired; L.D.’s mother sent him pictures of L.D.; and they discussed possible visits

between L.D. and Deckard, with the mother indicating such visits “maybe” could

happen. However, Deckard admitted no visits actually occurred, Deckard and

L.D.’s mother stopped talking, and Deckard never took any action to obtain

visitation rights. Deckard also admitted he does not call, text, or FaceTime L.D.

due to L.D’s age, limited attention span, and distraction by other children. Deckard

also acknowledged L.D. is strongly bonded with his siblings, who live with

Heberling. Deckard said he wants L.D. to live with him, but not immediately; he

suggested progressively increasing their time together.

{¶7} Dr. Stark testified she began seeing L.D. on September 21, 2020. Their

sessions together initially were held each week, but were reduced to bi-weekly

sessions because of L.D.’s improvement. Dr. Stark diagnosed L.D. with “stressor-

related disorder” and treated him for severe trauma due to witnessing his mother’s

murder. In Dr. Stark’s opinion, Heberling and L.D.’s siblings create an environment

of safety and protection for L.D. and are a “neurological bond” for him. This

“secure attachment” tells L.D. that he is going to be okay and has built resiliency in

him. According to Dr. Stark, Heberling and the environment of living with her and

his siblings provided L.D. with security or a “secure base.” Dr. Stark testified that

Deckard told her he had no relationship with L.D. since the time the child was six

months old, which corresponds with the protection order being issued. Although

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L.D. does things with Decker that he likes and has fun, Dr. Stark testified L.D.

tolerates his visits with Decker because he knows he will be returning to the security

of Heberling and his secure base. Dr. Stark explained that removing L.D. from his

secure base could result in more severe trauma than a single significant traumatic

event. She further explained this “disrupted attachment” could result in long-term

issues for L.D. as an adult, such as depression, addiction, and loss of self-esteem.

{¶8} According to the GAL’s report, L.D. sees Heberling as his primary

source of stability. L.D. is integrated into her home, has a close bond with his

siblings, attends a local school, is progressing well, and has no behavioral issues at

school. The report indicated the GAL had multiple conversations with Dr. Stark,

who believed L.D.’s lack of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) was because L.D.

understood he would always be returning to Heberling and his siblings. Dr. Stark

consistently reported to the GAL that L.D. did not want to live with Deckard.

Additionally, the report stated the child clearly expressed his desire to remain with

his siblings in Heberling’s home. The report’s conclusion was that the court’s

temporary order be maintained as the ongoing order of the court and, based on Dr.

Stark’s professional opinion, removing L.D. from Heberling’s home would be

detrimental to L.D.’s mental health.

{¶9} The GAL’s report also explained how L.D.’s parents had a turbulent

relationship. Among the issues was that Deckard had left L.D.’s mother menacing

messages, including threats to kill her. The turbulent relationship resulted in L.D.’s

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mother obtaining a civil protection order for a two-year period (August 2015 to

August 2017), which included the then-seven-month-old L.D. as a protected person.

{¶10} At the conclusion of the hearing, Magistrate Santo found that the

matter was submitted and recessed the court.

C. Post-Hearing Events

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